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Lost and Broken
Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o(
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hold ona sec honey!!
no matter how bad you feel dont ever hurt yourself!! no boy is worth that!! no what you need to do is just have a day to yourself: go out and do whatever makes you happy: get ice cream or horseback ridding or go to the mall, get a manicure, prank call people, play dress-up, hang out with your friends. this guy is obviously not thinking if he dupped you and if you are going to be with someone dont make it someone who doesnt want to be with you...you both have to be happy in the relationship or its not a relationship!!
(p.s. dont hurt yourself!! :( )
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Sweety went through the EXACT same thing because what i basically felt like doing that was the only pain i could actaully control if that makes sense?Well what you need to do is just try to stop it like i did if you ever did it and actaully tried to reely kill yoursself just take a deep breathe and think how much more miserable your ex boyfriends lifee would be and you ovisally dont wanna hurt him right that would VERY much and thin kabout oyu parents and all your friends that would really suck you have so much to look forward in life and dont let something like that make you wanna die trust me i know this might seem pretty harmful but theyre are so many more things in life that will be 10 times worse than that if your strong you will pull through it all depends on that
I hope i helped if u wanna talk to me more my sn is OoBabieGirl1oO
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hold it back!!! you need to think bout all your friends and fam think bout how much they would miss you. then go to a real good friend and tell them you need help tell them you want to be comferted and that you are in a bad situation. im sure they would be glad to help!!
i hope i help
**haweee**
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Doing that isnt going to get him back.. seriously.. why dont you just call him and talk to him. and when u get into the conversation..say, ya know, ____, i really miss how things were between us. i miss 'us'. and just go along with what he says. but, if he rejects you just get over him, hes not worth your time.
ps. DONNNNNT CUT!
hope i could help =) <3 tina
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think about the best way to solve this problem maybe he still feels the same way about you tell him how you feel and sooner or later everyone knows that you have to let them go so good luck and think about what your gonna do before you do it actions have concequences
-Jacky!
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Its normal to have feelings for an ex but don't do something drastic! you are right, you are going through a bad moment now but like you said its just a MOMENT. Right now you need to keep yourself busy, now that we are in summer try going out with friends and family or do a list of the things you wan to do this summer and start! ~good luck!~
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cuttings oviously very bad n i kno u kno that... sum ppl put rubber bands on there rists so wen ever they feel like cuting they pull on em instead of cutting. i dk if this'll work in ur situation but i hope it does. if u need anything else pop one if my inbox n ill b happy to help. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Whatever you do..DO NOT cut yourself. It does make u feel relieved but thats it. It seriously doesn't solve anything. Do the rubberband thing. When you feel like you wanna cut yourself or hurt urself in any way, just have a rubberband on your wrist and snap it.
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Don't cut yourself...It's not worth ending your life for a boy.
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DONT CUT! you could cut a major vein and die from blood loss! you should tell him nd your friends how u feel. it will help get your feelings and maybe he might wanna get back together w/ u! good luck if you try it and i hope i helped, <3 Niki Lyn (plz rate me!)
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just relax... everyone has to deal with heartache one time or another... cutting yourself or killing may seem good or relieveing.... but after its all done its not going to have solved anything... trust me you'll be okay :)
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Whatever you do, don't cut yourself, that could just lead to more cutting, and also don't kill yourself. relationships take time, and you get so involved with them, but they aren't everything!! Talk to your ex-boyfriend about it, see if he still has feelings for you, and if he does, he can help you through everything. Other than that, go to your parents or a friend... good luck!! :)
I hope I helped.. best wishes! :)
<3
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OKAY.. this has happened to me too. When my old boyfriend hurt me.. i cut too. And at the time, i didnt care what anyone thought.. ~I~ wanted to do it, thats all that mattered. So this may not help-- but you need to realize that there ARE other people. Im a big believer that *Everything happens for a reason* If hes 'the one' then, he'll come back.. if not, it wasnt meant to be. But if he hurt you.. then hes not worth it. But you Deff. ShOULD nOT HURT YOURSELF for him!! if he doesnt realize how great of a person you are-- HiS loss.. ... i know i probably didnt help, but.. i can honestly say i regret cutting,, in the end it doesnt help anything. It was kinda selfish of me, i just wanted to get awayfrom reality. I hate the scars.. they wont go away.
~ CORI ~ xox.
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