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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o( (link)
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think about the best way to solve this problem maybe he still feels the same way about you tell him how you feel and sooner or later everyone knows that you have to let them go so good luck and think about what your gonna do before you do it actions have concequences
-Jacky!
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How often a day should you brush your teeth? (link)
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twice
-jacky
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ever since summer started its been problem after problem. i guess its keeping me busy n itz better happening now the during school. but i dk. i break down at night n crym y self 2 sleep its getting bad but im the kinda person that can deal with alot happening but i dont like it. i dont know i think im really confused about wut to do n i need help. (link)
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can u tell us the problem
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Ok my lifes not terrible or anything like that, but ugghh. Things can be so fricken tough. I have a good family, we're all together and nothings bad in that department. Im even really strong in my faith, but geese life can get to be so damn miserable. Just last year my cousin moved into the same town as me. Yep, same school, same grade, same frigen everything. And shes taking over as popular queen. Shes a little bitch that gets everything and has to be so girly and wear pink and be perfect. My opinion is shes damn ugly but whatever. Shes went out with every frigen guy in the grade and shes not done. Shes never satisfied. People actually tell me omg how can you be related to her. I dont even know... my response is gee idk how i got related to a mix of godzilla and the devil himself. To add onto the jumble my aunt (her mom) is always up my butt about us having a good relationship and crap like that. HOW CAN I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER? I've tried time and again. I even started hanging around her crowd but they all hated me and couldnt wait to get rid of me and they would even tell her that nobody in their group really liked me. Total assholes. But the best part about her popular crowd is they all talk about eachother. So im done trying to have a relationship with her, she never showed up at my friend or family party when it was my birthday so she basically doesnt give a shit about me. Oh yes dont forget the lovely story about when my aunt came to my house on my birthday and started screaming at my mom and telling her how rude i was to my cousin(her daughter) and to everyone else and that i was a bad person and this and that, god it was miserable. I actually have an awsome crowd of friends and a wonderful best friend, and im always being told im prettier than my cousin and stuff, so im not jealous of her or anything. Shes gotten me in trouble from my parents so many times this year but my mom finally feels bad and has just realized who the girl really is. So all that being grounded for nothing. Anyway..she hates me. She always has. And my annoying aunt is always in my face and telling me to be like her daughter. The best part is that shes got two more daughters, one is my sisters age, so my sister goes through the same hell as me. Well anyway that cousin is the schools whore, biggest druggy in the world, and always lies to her mother about whos shes with. So thats damn screwed up if you know what i mean. And whenever we tell my aunt she doesnt really click with it. She just goes I trust her more than anyone in the world, when really she just loves lying to herself, why, well put it this way, its beyond my worldly knowledge. Then the youngest is going into 4th grade and boy is she a fun one. My mom always has to babysit her and shes the biggest brat on the planet. Shes nasty to our grandmother, screams cries and whines when she doesnt get what she wants, she makes fun of me (or tries to), and she never takes blame for shit. And boy do i hate her! Shes always going through my stuff and chasing me around and trying to do what I do. And yes i live in the same town as them. My relationship will never be the same with my aunt because I will and can never forgive her for what she's done to me. Its left a scar on me forever. Im sorry but what else is there to say. I was here way before my cousins were and now theyre always around me and telling on me and the one in my grade spreads rumors and makes different people hate me in my grade. And here I am, about to conquer another year of it. I used to love it where I lived. But now Im just scraping by. I want to get far away. Or live somewhere else. And I sure as hell cant wait to get off to college. I hate my school, my town, the community, I just want to be somewhere else. I love life, but not where I live. What the hell do I do before I go mad? These people are ruining my LIFE (link)
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Well you cant change your family. I just like you have a cousin who is exactly the same we even got into a fist fight one day but any way you cant change her so your going to have to deal with her try ignoring her the most you can cuz then you wont have to deal with her as much and if you see her go the other way o and for revenge try tossing a bucket of water over her just done hair or when you go somewhere with her and see a cute waiter and she starts flirting with him take him away and tell him she has corns or something gross naw im just kidding thats harsh but never give up
IT WAS A JOOOOOKE!
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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita (link)
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This might be the worst thing that can be said but DONT TELL YOUR PARENTS! He might be that person who is going to be there for the rest of your life. Be carful because there will be obstacles very hard ones so make sure that this advice is the best thing for you remember your not forced to do anything!
Good Luck and keep in touch
-Jacky!
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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????
-X- Caitlin -X-
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You might get that feeling mostly because you really like him. Just trust him and when hje comes back to the home state ask him to tell you what happened if he seems nervous 0r u have a feeling hes leaving something out explain to him what he means to u and then maybe hell tell u but only if u can tell hes holding something back
-Jacky
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I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work? (link)
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If its true that u are trustworthy then they dont have a reason to say no. Call her and ask her shell probably say ull talk about it at ur house. Good Luck
-Jacky
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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost? (link)
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I ve had alot of freinds use it and i saw great results maybe it will work on you too!
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I like this ok and I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do? (link)
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Well the first that is probably poppin into ur head is go out with her anyway DONT DO DAT you will never gain respect from her mother if you do dat then you will never see her again. Just try and show her mom how dignifies you are. And make sure you dont hurt her daughter, cuz her mom will hunt u down lol j.k good luck
-Jacky
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ok well me and this girl briana are like best friends we go sumwhere together everyday and hang out...but lately she is getting annoying and i dont really wanna hang out with her anymore...do u think we hang out to much and im just gettin sick of her or what!? plez help me! (link)
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O yea ur getting sick of her get some space to breath!
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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..? (link)
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Well condoms are less protective than birth control pills. You can take both but theres always a 1% chance
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I have Question
lately I have had alot* of wet dreams even though I try not. but what im REALLY worried about is it normal to get like a burning sensation because its like I wake up all sweaty and i feel a burning sensation.can u have a orgasm just by dreaming?
there is NO way im talking to my mother or anyone else for that matter. im only posting this because no one knows who i am.
anyways thanx
it would help me ALOT if you would answer this.
all wet (link)
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Wet dream are just a sign of maturing it happens to all guys your just growing up . But I dont know if it might stop i aint no guy sorry and its probable to have an orgasm
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ok there is this guy i met a little while ago (i'm 15 female) and hes 15, male but any ways he always flirts and he has told me he has only loved one other gurl but she cheated on him so he doesnt love her any more and then the other day i sent him one of my poems about the only guy i have ever loved but dont love any more and he said "maybe i can change that" .... and since he is a BIG flirt i dunno what he meant by it i mean there are other things too like he hates skaterboys but i'ma skatergurl and i said i really only like the way skaterguys looked and now he said he is changing to become a skater boy ... i mean i asked him why but he says its becuase everyone in his nieghbor hood was but he also told me he has hated everything about a skaterboy since as long as he can remember so i dont no why he is changing now ..... and he also doesnt really share his feelings but always wants to no mine when i cant even share them becuase i dont know what i am feeling..... am i reading why to much into this becuase he sends me mixed emotions all the time i mean i know hes a flirt and thats what flirts do but i refuse to flirt to much back just becuase and i dunno can someone help becuase i am all confused
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Well first of all hes probably still hung up on the other girl maybe he hasnt str8tend up his feelings. Then hes changing because hes probably feeeling insecure on the fact that its probably how he looks that the girl left him. You cant change the fact that hes a flirt. Maybe he just needs time to recuperate his feeling so you wont get so many mixed emotions or messages any more!
-Jacky!
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im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!! (link)
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Ok you have probably seen shows where the people who sneak out to go out always get caught sooner or later u will get caught maybe your parents think your too young becasue some guys( no offense to the guys) are dogs and they will try to seduce you maybe when you grow up mentally and physically you will realize that they were right cuz now you can tease the boys just wait till ur 13 k?
-Jacky
p.s tell me how it goes
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me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do? (link)
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Well not to be mean or anything but you dont own her even though she made a mistake on leaving you like that mayb your just to close to her she is allowed to have m,ore than one best friend and old friends are missed alot so maybe you should let them have their time to reconciliate and maybe that old friend can be your friend too
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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!! (link)
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What you shuld do right now is spend as much time as possible then whens its close to that day either brake it off or promise to write. you might be scared but there might be someone else waitin for him over there. and he might not be the one. But enjoy what you have!
-Jacky
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ne one kno a store where u can buy "punk" type clothes? my mall has all abercrombie etc and im just looking for a place where i can find my type of clothing except for like hot topic and stuff...they r really nice except expenisive and more gothic. so help if u can thanks alot :) (link)
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Well the only place i know is hot topic but for shoes you can go to vans.com have fun!
-Jacky
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i like this guy but when i am around him i act really shy how can i stop that like when he comes up i just stand there i have never even said hi i know this is stupid but can you help me (link)
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Ok the first thing to do is relax. Even though you really like him when hes right in front of you wanting to talk think of him as a really good friend. Talk and breathe. Just dont babble! Lets hope that you can actually breathe dont forget because then hes going to think you dont want to talk to him at all and that sends mixed messages and nothing will ever happen. Just talk and have fun. Good Luck!
-Jacky
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ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help (link)
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You might really want to be with him but there are two problems here
1-he dosent really know what he wants
2- I dont think you understand that hes feeling really insecure right now and needs some time
Let him think about it. And dont be surprised by what he chooses dont get your hopes high because then you will really feel heartbroken. So relax and let him decide whats in your future. Good Luck
-Jacky!
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how do you like...ummm...make out with someone? cause my boyfriend wants to nd i do to but i dont know how....help! (link)
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The first thing to remember is relax. Start small and the more practice the better. Just make sure its with a person you want to kiss!
-Jacky ;)
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