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I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work?
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Just ask her .. remind her that you're a good kid and you've never done anything that's caused you to lose her trust. Considering you've never done anything to make your parents not trust you or anything, they should let you go.
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Just remind her your a good kid and your smart and you wouldnt make her lose ur trust on u and u wont make her dissappointed and if ask her if u have to be back at ur house at a certain time i mean do anything that will let her or want her to let u go and just wish shell let u go because u seem like a responsible girl so she should let u go just make sure she can understand ur a good kid! Good luck!
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Well surely you don't want to lie and say you are spending the night at a friends house, cause then the whole time your supposed to be having fun your goin to feel guilty for lieing. Maybe you should call her at work, and just say you would have told her when she came home but you were afraid she would be home late. And just ask her like it is no big deal, and if she says no, just ask her why she said no and clarrify that answer with her! Hope i helped **lauren** plzz rate me
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you probably shouldnt call her.. when she gets home give her some time to cool down from work then when she is watching tv or making dinner.. just say something like.. " mom my friends invited me to Crazy Donkey or w/e and i was just wondering if i can go with them.. if she says no say well can't you trust me? you need to give me a chance to prove to you that you can trust me!" or somethiin' like that!
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It depends what her job is. If it's something that she needs her phone to be free for, then wait. If you think she has great trust in her, say "Hey mom, some friends were planning to go to this club. can i go?" and take it from there.
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it depends on her job if you can call her at work. tell her that you are responsible enough to handle a club. say that u will call her if you are having any trouble. tell her you'll be with your friends the whole time. make sure someone has a cell phone. good luck. send me a message if you need anything else. i'm here to help!
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Just ask her to go to the club. She'll probably say yes and doesn't really care as long as you have a good time.
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hey yea i can totally understand. but i think that u should at first umm ok well it might sound kinda cheesy but i would like make dinner and clean up around the house and stuff like that. and then of course she going to be like wat do u want ? and be like there is this club i want to go to with my friends and say that u r very responsible and that ur friends r too. and then ask her if u ever got into trouble (big trouble). and then i think that she should let u go. it works with my mom. good luck.
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Well if you've never given ur mom a reason to not trust you then you should'nt be nervous about it! promise her you'll be home by curfew and what not and you shopuld be all good. If your mom has told you not to call her at wrk then dont! but if she hasnt then call her and ask her!
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If its true that u are trustworthy then they dont have a reason to say no. Call her and ask her shell probably say ull talk about it at ur house. Good Luck
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u shouldnt call her @ work thats whenz shes busy n has other stuff to do she might say no right away at work. jus wen she comes home tell her that ur a high honor student n that uve never done anything for them not to trust u n u wont @ the dance club n i guess c wut happenz 4rm there. hope i helpd! <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Don't call her at work. The worst thing is when you disrupt a parent at work. And besides you have no idea if its a crummy day at the office. Wait until she gets home. And i suggest choosing the right moment. Maybe while shes cooking dinner you could help and then bring it up and have a mother-daughter talk. Don't get snotty about it if she says no. That will just show immaturaity. But instead hear her reasons why and then try to explain your reasons more thoroughly. Also tell her you will not be alone and your going with 4 other girls. That none of you will be under the influence. you are a honors student. And that you have never given her any reasons not to trust you. If she still says no then respect it and try again on a different night when your a little older and after you've talked to her about it a little more and gave her time to think. Also, maybe next time you should ask her to go to a clb a few days in advance so she has time to think about it and shes not pressured to make a choice and then wonder if she made the wrong descion when she only had 3 hours to think about it.
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I think you should wait til she gets home to ask her. Maybe before she gets home, clean up a little and help her out around the house that way when she does get home shes in a good mood. Just say some friends are going to hang out at a club and you'll have a ride there and back and you'll have a phone with you the whole time in case she needs you or you need her. Reassure her you'll be just fine and you wont be out too late. Good luck with your mom!!
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Well , just tell hurr .. that u wanna go to the club wif a few friends i think she'll understand buh dont call her at work . cuz u mite inturupt her and like she mite not let u go i think its better for u talkin to her in person ;)
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