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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not? (link)
Well of course she cares otherwise she wouldnt have offered birth control. Shes just telling u that she wants you to be safe. Cause most of the time even if parents disagree withsex theyll do it ne wayz and they wont be on the pill but this way shes showing that she cares


OK. this is more of a problem for my friend. She used to be the happiest person and always nice and friendly. But i slowly watched her change. now she is constantly unhappy and she is always being mean. i really miss the old her. i asked her why she is like this. she said its because she has no self confidence. how can she get her confidence back so that shes the girl i used to know?! (link)
You need to show her that ur there for her and people care about her. do the things that made her happy or the things you to did together when she was happy and that should help her out! hope i helped u


If you use a condom, can you still get an STD? (link)
Yea and no if you use a condom and it dosent brake then no but if it breaks then yea you can!


Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me? (link)
Just talk to them! Show them that your different from your brothers or other guys your age. once they get to know your not just another guy after there daughter theyll come to understand! Good Luck


I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways? (link)
Try the low carb diet and try excersising every day! it works trust me! GoodLuck!


I met this guy at a lacrosse camp.. I thought he was really cool and everything and we were flirting and he asked me out and of course I said yes.. after that week I haven't seen him but ive talked him on the phone.. hes a total Jock and always plays sports.. sometimes i think he likes his sports better than me.. I really like him and I know he likes me too but I want to see him.. is that being selfish? should I explain it all to him? (link)
Yea you should talk to him! its natural to want to talk to see your boyfriend and spend time with him! just explain to him that you want to spend more time with him! maybe you guys can play some sports together! hope i helped!


hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips? (link)
Low carb and excersise are really good dieting ideas. If you wrk out every day and dont cheat on your diet you should be able to loose some weight GOood Luck


I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much! (link)
Ok well if u want to loose weight fast then start a low carb diet and wrk out every night! it wrks for me and ive lost 11 pounds!+in a month so yea i guess it does wrk but you cant cheat you have to be truely commited to wanting to loose weight so GOOD LUCK!


How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll! (link)
Leg lifts help lay on the ground and lift your legs up and down for a few minutes each day and that should help! good luck!


I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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Well excersise is the way to go! Work out every night like runniing crunches leg lifts etc... it really works and if that dosent wrk then just cut all the fatty foods out of your everyday life style! good luck hun!


im 5'5" and i weigh 140 pounds.. am I fat? and if so what ways do u know that are quick weight loss but still healthy for you. I would exercise. but its not quick. I could try cutting my portions but i can't! (link)
NOTHING is quick when it comes to loosing weight! Excersise and healthy food is the only thing you can do! Try wrokig out everynight and running in place for 15 minutes and it well help tighten good luck!


Someone told me i was..well to put it nicely..really fat and..i havent eaten for 6 hours and my stomach is killing me and ive been pressuring myself to get tons of exercise and it hurts...but i donno what to do! and i really need help! (link)
1 nobody has the right to tell you about your body! 2 starving yourself is not gunna help you at all! because the 2nd you eat something it all come right back! so just tell your parents ur wrkin on loosing weight and they shoulkd help you out! like dieting tips and such. try the low carb diet ive lost 11 pounds so far on it! so yea it wrks but you have to be really dedicated to it no ons and offs cause it wont do ne thing for your ody and wrk out every night! try running in place for 15 minutes a day and it helps tighten your stomach up and crunches and leg lifts all wrk great! good luck!


ok well i am 5' 5" amd weigh bout 130. i dont think i am fat but i wanna keep in shape for sports ect. itd also be easier to get in shape now then later. i RELE try to work out and eat healthy but i can never stick with sumthin long enough to see results. we have so much tempting food and i never get around to my work outs is there ne tips ppl have to stick with sumthin? thx

**i could also use some good ab work outs too** (link)
Well tell your parents that your trying to stay in shape and they can keep the junk outta your view so your not tempted to eat it. As for not in the mood to work out. im never in the mood to do it so i just turn on my radio and do it. So just push yourself to get it done and the results well be great good luck!!! hope i helped


i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
~*~AlEx~*~ (link)
PRACTICE! the only advice to give is practice and watch basketball games so you can get ideas on what to do. but the only advice i can give is to prcatice


i feel like when im playing sports i have certain expectations to look up to cuz my sisters are all awesome at soccer and basketball and then there me and i think im not that good. but all my friends disagree. idk...wut do i do? (link)
When your familys good at sports theres always pressure to be better at what you do. But if you dont want to do it or you do but ur just not excited about tell them how you feel. Just sit them down and talk to them!


I MAJORLY NEED HELP! Ok heres the story: Some of my friends (4) are going to Crazy Donkey (a dance club) 2nite and they invited me to go!! The one problem is I don't know how to ask my mom if i could go b/c it would be my first time going to a club. When I asked her previous times she was unsure and said she would think about it but those times I never made a plan to go but now I did. So what should I say to her? I never did anything to make my parents not trust me or anything like that i mean jeez im a high honor student lol I just don't know how to approach her with this info... She gets home from work later 2nite but I also wanna know is it okay to call her at work? (link)
Well if you've never given ur mom a reason to not trust you then you should'nt be nervous about it! promise her you'll be home by curfew and what not and you shopuld be all good. If your mom has told you not to call her at wrk then dont! but if she hasnt then call her and ask her!


does anyone know any good techniques for basketball to get ur left hand stronger?

~i rate good~ (link)
Yea just practice shotting with your left hand more then you do your right! Thats how kobe got stronger at it so just keepo shooting with that left hand and good luck!


Me and my boyfriend are so close. He comes over almost everyday but the problem is we cant make out because it seems like my mom is always right there. what should i do before he dumps me for someone else? (link)
Well try going to his house or meeting some where else. im sure your mom is just curious about how serious you and your boyfriend really are so she stays around you at all times so she can make sure your doing nothing bad! so just try going somewhere else or go into a room with a lock on it!


hey i have this problem with one of my friends because whenever i ask her to sleepover she says ya i can and then like 30 minutes later shes like i cant go anymore my dad said that we have to do family things and then the next day i find out that she is at someone elses house and she always almost always does this to me and she ditched me on my birthday and she always makes up an excuse and it always sounds so convincing so i just say ok but inside it bugs me and i dont really know what to do should i stay friends with her and see how it goes or should i not be friends with her anymore?
thanx! (link)
Well if what shes doing to you is bugging you or makeing you sad then you should either talk to her about your feelings or make new friends. Im sure that once you get everything out in the open theres and explanation for it.




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