Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?
xXaShXx07 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:53 pm: well if you just show her parents that you are a nice, responsible, friendly, funny guy and just first get them to let yall hang out and just be friends at first and then you can start working on them lettin her date you and it might take some time and you might have to really think about what to say to them but you talking to them will DEFINATLEY earn you some points! let me know if u need nething else!
xox ashley xox [ xXaShXx07's advice column | Ask xXaShXx07 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday July 22 2004, 5:17 pm: You should talk to her parents. Let them see what a great guy you are.
I mean, whenever my boyfriend and I wanna hang out somewhere mom doesn't want us to, I have him talk to her. By the end of the conversation, they're laughing and she's extending my curfew. Lol.
It's amazing, the effect guys can have on a girl's parents. Give it a shot - see if you can make them change their minds. I'll bet you can.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:53 pm: Well you could maybe wait until she is 15 so you guys are right next to eachothers age unless you turn 17 before she turns 15.. but you could have her introduce you guys.. and let them see for themselves that your a good guy-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
angita answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:56 pm: let them noe and sho them tat ur 4 real.. sho them tat ull treat their daughter gud and tat u really lyk her! dont be shy around them! gud luk xoxo angie [ angita's advice column | Ask angita A Question ]
queenbee answered Thursday July 22 2004, 2:01 pm: A good way to show her parents you are genuine is to show her brother's you are a good guy. Since the brother's are your age, strike up a conversation and just let them know your intentions are good. Also, make friends w/this girl, show her parents you can be trusted. The worst thing that can happen is you will have some new friends. [ queenbee's advice column | Ask queenbee A Question ]
dancer_freak05 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:57 pm: Show them that you are responsible and that they can trust you with their daughter. Get to know them and tell them why you want to go out with their daughter. I was 16, and my mom wouldn't let me date an 18 year old, but he just did those things and they were pretty okay with it. [ dancer_freak05's advice column | Ask dancer_freak05 A Question ]
SaraMichelle answered Thursday July 22 2004, 1:14 pm: well gO Over tO her hOuse and help her with her schOol wOrk...talk tO her parents and suck up a lOt and let them nO that yOur a nice kid and yOu have gOod intentiOns...drOp One in the inbOx if ya need mOre
LakerChick answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:10 am: Just talk to them! Show them that your different from your brothers or other guys your age. once they get to know your not just another guy after there daughter theyll come to understand! Good Luck [ LakerChick's advice column | Ask LakerChick A Question ]
S_C answered Thursday July 22 2004, 10:14 am: talk to the parents, ask them for a chance
maybe say, okay for the 1st few dates, dinner and a movie at ur house, we can order 2 pizzas(more or less dependin on how many ppl in the fam) and well all watch a movie, like a 'family' thing with u there also
when they see that u r not such a bad guy then they won't mind, just be yourself, and be respectful of their wishes
if they end up still not wantin their daughter to see you, then wait until she's 15 and maybe they'll be a bit more leniant (i'd say wait till she's 16, but then u mite be off to college or sumthin) [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
Bethany answered Thursday July 22 2004, 10:02 am: maybe if the parents got to know you then it would be better. but when i was 13 i wet out with a 16 year old and my mom wasn't too thrilled but she never told me i couldn't date him. Make sure the parent know how u feel and everything it should help [ Bethany's advice column | Ask Bethany A Question ]
VoLlEyPrInCeZz1 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:40 am: My parents don't let me date older guys like that either. I know this isn;t going to help anything but, you have to leave it alone, date a girl your age. Because if you keep begging then you will get on her parents nerves!! Then you will never get a chance!! **lauren** [ VoLlEyPrInCeZz1's advice column | Ask VoLlEyPrInCeZz1 A Question ]
xoLilBayb3ox96 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:29 am: Talk to them.. Tell them about yourself. your interest. tell them what you plan to do with there daughter. go out with her for short periods at a time.. if you have a cellphone number give them that. just try to make it easier on them.. hope i helped..
SheaStadium answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:59 am: You should meet her parents. You should show them what a good guy you are and how much you want to be with their daughter and how much you deserve her. Also, if they let her go out with you, ask her dad for permission to take her on a date. That will give you big points. Good Luck! And if u have ne more ?s drop one in my inbox
~Shea~ [ SheaStadium's advice column | Ask SheaStadium A Question ]
vab answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:26 am: This is a pretty common problem... the fact is that no parent is going to like their daughter coming of age and starting to like other people. Although you can certainly try to present yourself to them - impress them with your maturity, discuss school or other topics, and so on - in most cases this is simply something you're going to have to wait on.
My high school girlfriend's parents were none to thrilled with me around this time... and now they're my in-laws. So things can work out, it just might take a while. [ vab's advice column | Ask vab A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 5:17 am: well first you all should sit down with her parents and explain to them how much you all like eachother. then if they still disapprove then just start out as friends for a while until her parents come around. good luck.
*~~~shana~~~* [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:29 am: you can possible just hang out just as friends for a while until her parents start to like you and realize that your not a bad guy. Thats what my boyfriend and I did. :) Pretty much... my rents are kind of gay like that too. We are 2 years differance also. But yeah just meet them, settel with being friends right now. Hope it works out
-holly-
Hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
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