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Hey everyone, For some reaon it doesn't show all the times I've Been rated.. so if you want to see... then check out my feedback :)..***Hey, Im from Connecticut and I LOVE giving advice... and Im always here for you if you need to ask me anything... i can answer all types of Questions.. don't be shy (i have had my fair share of embarassing ?'s.. so u can't say anything i prob. haven't heard ;)...)lol.. Anyways..
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14/f
Me and my boyfriend have our year anniversary on Sept. 21. And im trying to make it really specially so i decided i wanted to do a bunch of stuff for him.
Here are some thing we did on other special days: Gone to movies, Gone to funland, made dinner, bought dinner, made cookies, given money, gotten flowers, bunch f stuff.
Well im like running out of ideas!!
Any one have any great ideas. I want it to be really special and im starting early because of that, and for the fact that if i need money i will need to start saving.
Thanks a million in advance!
Thats so cute! im happy for you.
My boyfriend and I just celebrated our one year in July and I painted him a picture of his favorite car because he's like obessesed with this type of car. haha
but if you dont want to do anything like that, then you can do the other thing I did, we made dinner and then we had dessert then we exchanged gifts and I made him a photo album of pictures and i like decorated the pages and stuff from the past year and put in song lyrics and memories in them. It was more like a scrapbook then a photo album.
Or you could maybe go for a picnic in the park and pack sandwiches ( his favorite kind) and a frisbee or kickball and just enjoy the great outdoors and take silly pictures.
Or is there a sports team he really loves, maybe get him tickets if they're not too expensive and give them to him on your anniversary, ( ooo maybe like put the tickets on the last page of the scrapbook if you do that and then tell him when you guys go you can take pictures and replace the tickets with the pictures on the last page. haha that'd be cute!) but idk if the tickets thing would be too expensive or hard to do.
or maybe you can make him a mix CD of special songs you two have or songs that remind you of him.. amd you can write one of those little booklets like you get with cds and explain why each song reminds you of him!
well, goodluck if you need more ideas just message me maybe i'll think up some more! haha
goodluck! & Happy Early One Year Anniversary!
Okay so i'm not the sweetest one in the bunch. And please don't tell me it will change or my fav... make or find new friends. I've tried waiting for it to change and making new friends which doesn't work out either. I think I'm going to delete my myspace because no guy ever talks to me or anything so what's the point? I'm just really sick of guys not liking me. It makes me so mad. I try to make them like me but girls arent suppose to do that anyways. i'm getting tired of people telling me I'm pretty. If I'm so pretty than I would have a boyfriend by now of at least guys would like me. Okay so I'm not 15 or 16. i'm 14 and a half. One year doesn't count. i'm sick of seeing ugly girls with guys. It makes me wanna puke. How did they get a hott guy anyways. They're ugly. I hate to be a immature but I want to die. no there isn't much more to life than guys. Not to me! Guys are like all I ever think about. I just don't understand. i'm tired of waiting for this. I want guys to like me now! It's no fair. Every other ugly girl has a boyfriend. I just really don't understand. I hate school. I hate me. I hate the GUYS that don't pay any attention to me. I'm not fat. I weigh 100! I'm not that ugly. God! Just someone please help me understand why this is happening to me?
Well, contrary to popular belif, looks arent everything. I'm sure you're very pretty and I'm sure guys have been interested in you before, but it all depends on how you put yourself out there. Guys like a chase not an easy catch. If you're throwing yourself out there and basically saying you'll take anything that will take you, its like a big red flag to guys that you dont have any respect for yourself, and that you just want a relationship just to have one and not for the right reasons. Also, things like this will attract the wrong kinds of guys to you. The ones that will use you and then leave you. Also, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Have you and your best friend ever disagreed on how cute a guy was? I'm sure you have. Just because you don't think they're pretty doesnt mean that they arent. You're entitled to your opinions but you shouldnt judge. That's not a very attractive quality to have. Guys want a compassionate girl who is genuine and nice and down to earth, not a girl who will pass judgement. You want your guy to feel comfortable around you to be himself. He wont if he feels like he's being judged. So you dont want to come off that way. I know you've probably heard this all before.. but you're still so long. Theres so many years to have so many dates and find so many different types of guys so when you're older you can decide the type of guy to marry, just let things happen, focus on being happy with yourself first, and find something you really love. Don't become dependent on a relationship for personal happiness. Because that will backfire in the long run.
hope i helped!
14/f
If I had to pick my 5 best features, I think they would be this:
(in NO particular order)
1) hair
2) boobs
3) eyes
4) legs
5) butt
1. my hair is dirty blonde (but getting lighter form the summer) with permanent blue and purple streaks (that you can barely see, they are so faded)
2. I am B cup, but I love my boobs.
3. my eyes change randomly from lightblue to darkblue to green to grey.
4. my legs are pretty nice, my thighs are a little bigger than I would like, but overall they're pretty nice.
5. my butt is a little on the large side, but it isn't fat. it's a nice kind of big.
WHAT ARE WAYS TO PLAY UP THESE FEATURES?
links are always appreciated.
thanks so much
I agree with Hannah. The other advicenators are quite rude. If you didnt sign all of your questions then they wouldnt know it was you anyways so whats the difference. A question is a question.
anyways..
Try parting your hair a different way. Like I recently figured out that my hair looks cute when i put it back in bobby pins but i take more hair from the right and bring it over to the left. Try things like that. Almost like a sideways poof.
You can get shirts that are flattering but not trashy. I like Shirts that are flowy at the bottom but tie just underneath your boobs. But be careful because some of them make you look pregnant. Also try different Neck lines.. like V neck or one that is wider or smaller. These can all change your look drastically.
Well I would try Brighter colored eyeshadows.. or even a colored liner and you can put it on the top part of your eye and then just use matching eyeshadow and black or dark brown mascara. Also for a simpler look.. use a skin tones sparkly eye shadow and skip the eyeliner and just use mascara just add a little blush and some simple lip gloss.. this creates and elegant simple look but its really pretty =]
Wedge heels are in for the summer and so are cute dresses. i say pick up some cute summer dresses that go down to midthigh or your knee and dress them up with cute wedge heels or adorable ballet flats. to make your legs look really toned and bring them out and show them off with the heels.
If you want to show off what you got on the back side.. buy some skinny jeans.. this will show off your legs and butt. Also try dresses that are brought in at the waist by like a belt or something because this gives you the 8 shaped figure
hope i helped! and ask as many questions as you'd like darling =]
what are the laws of driving in connecticut? like what ages can i get my permit, dive by myself and then with friends? stuff like that? can someone tell me what the rules are exactly or where exactly yo find them, dmv is so confusing though!
I'm from Connecticut too!
and basically the person below me said it all.
But make sure when you schedule your DMV appointment that you send in the application at least a month before you can actually get your license.. like 3 months after you get your permit because you will probably get your test date around 2 months after you send it in. Unless the driving school does it for you. Mine offered but for extra money.. so i made the appointment myself.
you can find the rules in the Connecticut DMV booklet you get after you get your permit.
Also if you take your test at New Britain or Waterbury or Winsted I think it is.. it's really easy! =] goodluck!
I've gone to a small prep school since 6th grade and i just finished 10th. I'm only 14, all my classmates are 16 (i skipped 1st grade). i've been struggling with being younger for a long time. after 6 years at one school i am ready to re-invent myself. my mother is a teacher at the school i go to and i get free tuition because of that. all my classmates are really rich and i have a hard time keeping up with them when we go places ($50 on dinner, that kinda thing). also i'm younger so i'm not as strong-therefore not as good at sports as the other girls in my grade. i am seriously thinking about switching to the local public school and starting as a 10th grader. there are a few thousand kids going there and it has kind of a bad/rough rep. i only know a few people there. but i would get my chance to be the same age as everyone else and become a new person. i just don't know if i can handle it. what should i think about before making this decision? it's a big one because if i switch my prep school won't take me back. any ideas on how i should decide, or opinions on which school i should go to, or anything at all would be really really appreciated.
Hey!
I think that you should follow your instincts. I dont know where you live or how bad your public schools are, but I dont think anyone should have to feel uncomfortable at school. School should be a place where you can feel accepted, not different. Kudos to you for being so smart to be able to skip grades. I say go with your instinct, i mean it's only 2 more years if you dont like it.
but here are some pro's and con's
-Pro's of Public School
New People then the ones you've been with all your life.
Being in the same grade as everyone else thats your age.
Probably easier work ( im not sure about your workload at prep scool, this could be a pro or con)
I'm guessing less school hours ( i have a friend who goes to a private school and hes there ALL day)
Not having your mom in your school lol i have an aunt who works in my school and she knows EVERYTHING
New Experiences.
- Cons of Public School
You may not like the kids you will be going to school with. I mean in 2nd grade its easy to accept a new kid, but as you get older it gets harder to fit in.
Im not sure what type of college you want to go to or if you even want to go to college but you have a beter chance of getting into an ivy league school from a prep school
The workload may be too easy, you've described that you are an intelligent girl, maybe going down to a lower grade wont be good for you, you could get easily bored and relearn things you know.
The food is prob. better at Prep School lol
there are tons of things to consider. I couldnt possibly tell you which way to choose because its an important time in your life as far as school goes because as soon as junior year starts its SAT time and schools prepare you differently.
Like i have mentioned plenty times before, follow your instinct or talk with your parents about it, they know your town and experiences with prep school and how the public schools are.
Just remember, if you go to public school, have fun be yourself and make new friends and enjoy it.
and if you stay in Private School, well College isnt too far away, you could even wait a year after you finish highschool to travel or make some money then start college when kids your age would be too.
Well whatever road you choose goodluck to you. I hope it all works out.
byee =]
ok what are some good excuses to brake up with your boyfriend??
hey!
from personal experience, I've learned that when I give excuses and the guy really likes you that he will spend all his time finding away to get around the excuse. giving an excuse is like giving false hope for a future relationship so just keep it simple and truthful, you dont have to go into detail like "you have bad breath and B.O" because it isnt nesscessary to hurt his feelings, but you could say " I'm really sorry but my feelings toward you changed and I dont think we should see eachother anymore. We're much better as friends"
And of course hes going to try to talk you out of it, but at that point you just have to ignore it because guys have a way of making you feel guilty sometimes. So just keep your head up high. He'll get over it and dont be surprised if he doesnt talk to you or bothers you alot.
well good luck. I hope I helped!!
byee!
I have the urge to write a story for some reason, but I can't think of anything people would want to read. I'm thinking of like a chapter book, something I can make a summer project out of. But the problem is, I always have problems figuring out what to write about! I want it to be from the point of a teenage girl, something I can relate to being, and then have an interesting plotline that follows. Something about going through a hard time. It could have to do with relationships, but also something beyond that too. Set in the present time. So tell me, what would you guys like to read??
BTW, I am good at descriptive writing.
I will rate high and thanks so much in advance!
I think its wonderful that you want to write and spread your creativity through words. I love reading books, so inspiring authors are people I look up too, but anyways, I'm going to tell you to go with your feeling. i know it may seem hard, but think of your dream life. Then narrow it down to whats realistic but still great, so say your dream life is living on a yacht in Hawaii, well just make it more real by making your character live in something like a mansion in California. So basically take your dream life make it something that other girls can relate too and then add in typical highschool drama. Or more serious drama, like family members dying, drunk driving, aids things that are real and people would be interested in reading. And if your looking to write books other then drama, then create a fantasy world, think back to willy wonka etc. Use your whole imagination, idk make ducks purple, things like that. For example you could have a boy find watch that takes him to another world. (just an example)
Well anywayss, I hope I helped. And good luck with your writing.
Just remember, its all up to you, you get to make up people and have them be exactly how you want. Have fun with it!!
what would be a good age to start shaving your legs? i don't know what age my child should do it. i forgot when i started. and if the hair is pretty noticable would 10, 11, or 12 be good? i need ranges.
i rate.
I think it depends on the girl.
Personally, I didnt start shaving my legs until my friends did. I'm sure your daughter will be more then anxious too when her friends come in with no hair and she still has it. Just make sure she knows to tell you when she wants too so she doesnt end up cutting herself ( one time when my mom was 13 she cut her leg so bad shaving she needed to go to the hospital =/ ) Soo it's important that she knows what shes doing
I say anythime between 11-13 is a normal time to start shaving your legs. Or if you're judging by grade, 6th or 7th grade seems normal.
hope I helped
k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!
As said before me by these other people, Padded Bras and Push up bras always work for me. I mean, stuffing is obviously not the way to go, you boobs wont grow 2 sizes over night, and gosh no implants are not even an option at your age.
Thats another thing, you're only 13. You're not even dont growing yet. I dont know if you've gotten your period yet but girls arent done growing and developing until 2-3 yrs after their first period. So dont sweat it, you'll fill out and even if you dont get to be really big like some of the girls you see, just remember that your boobs will look right for your body ( plus there no back pain involved either)
Just worry about having fun and enjoy life, the more you worry about the little things the less enjoyable it becomes.
hope I helped =]
how does a girl in high school become popular?
What is popular anyways? I mean who really determines Popularity these days anyway.. yea so what people nkow there names.. but its not always for good things... and even if people have tons of friends.. 1/2 of them are crap talkers and arent true.. I say stick with who you are... keep the friends you have.. and if you hear good stuff about someone and you think they sound cool then go for it and try a friendship out with them...If you just simply want more friends.. then just do more activitys get involved... but being popular is overrated..
There is no real popularity.. and in the long run it won't matter... just be true to yourself and you friends.. and have fun..don't let highschool peer pressure tell you what you should and shouldn't be... have fun.. these 4 years are the most fun in your school career :)
I'm a breakfast, lunch, dinner type of girl. I try not snack inbetween, but I find that many times, after lunch, a few hours before dinner, I am SO hungry...does anyone have some really nutritious snacking ideas?
Fruits and Veggies, but may I add that when some people eat fruits they buy canned fruits.. and not all of those are good for you. Indeed there are some good ones.. but if you buy caned peaches for instance, if they are in thick syrup, all of the sudden its no longer good for you. Also if you are to eat carrot sticks and prefer dressing, try to stick to low fat, or it will take the healthy right out of healthy snacking. Its kind of like when your eating a chocolate covered strawberry, most people seem to thing that since theres a strawberry its not bad for you, but the chocolate will overpower it. Thats basically the same with any food, the thing that seems to be bad for you over powers things, unfortunately thats how we have to live lol.
But if you feel hungary inbetween meals, don't even worry about it. By keeping a little something in your stomach at all times, it keeps your body on a good cycle, and it makes your metabolism faster. Your actually supposed to have light snakcks every 2 hours, so your body keeps functioning right. And if you haven't had weight problems in the past, then i wouldn't worry to much if I were you. Just continue making the right eating choices and you should be fine.
When you go to the gym, is it best to do say---15 minutes on the treadmill, 15 on the bike, and 15 on the elipitical, or is better to do 45 minutes straight on one of them. And how often should you switch up your routine? Should you do the treadmill 3 days a week, the bike 4? Or just treadmill all through the week? Some info here please!
When i went to the gym.. the lady that worked there told me that you should lift weights every other day and then do cardio the days your no lifting. I say start off easy, 45 mins on one of those machines is a long time if your just starting to go to the gym. Work your way up..The Eliptical is known for burning more calories.. but its not the calories that really matter.. its the tone and definition. So I say left weight.. or if you don't want to do that, then walk on the treadmill at a very steady pace every other day and then on the days your not lifting or using the treadmill go on the eliptical or bike.. maybe starting at 15 minutes and then working it to 20 and so on. It also matters on the speed.. you don't want to overwork yourself because then it will become to hard to go on any machine and you will feel very sore.
Hope I helped :)
Goodluck at the gym.. I think its awesome that you want to be in good shape and that your doing something about it :) Instead of just thinking about doing something about it :)
To all you guys...what do guys like for valentines day...like in general? i have no idea what to get my guy...like chocolate? flowers? hats? what? please help!
I suggest getting him something that comes from the heart.. Like say if your dating him...Maybe some cologne that smells nice.. or make a photo album scrap book thing that will show all of the memories you too have had... and add litle things in it like A paper cut out of a football if he likes football.. things like that. Also chocolate works.. every guy LOVES chocolate...or invite him over on that day.. give him a box of chocolate and then watch movies together.. or cook together... Just make sure whatever you do that its from you heart. that makes it 20x more special. He'll really appreciate it. Its the thought that counts..
hope i helped :)
goodluck on valentines day ;)
ok this questions are all about my birthday party they ARE seperate questions but they relate to my up coming birthday.
I think this year im going to just take a few people out to a place to eat or invite a bunch of people and tell them to bring like 20 - 30 dollers. ( its my 15th birthday btw )
1. what are some good places to go to eat ex: applebees. and that doesnt cost like 100 dollers by the time ur done eatin! but isnt like a fast food place! likk mcdonalds.
2. how many people should i invite
3. should i just go out to eat and then home and have cake or what?
thanks! and tell me if you think this is a good idea!!
Hey! Thats so awesome! My birthdays this Sunday and im getting kinda stuck on party ideas too! lol.. But in you case.. I think that you should just stay in for your birthday and have some friends over... A really good idea would be To watch movies all night and share funny stories...
You could invite them over around dinner time and maybe have BBQ or have pasta or sumthing... then have a cake and celebrate... then you could all watch Movies till like 10-10:30 (( soo all the boys can go home at a reasonable hour ;)..)).. then you can have some of your closest friends sleep over after... or you can have your best friend sleep over the night b4 and you too can go out for a birthday breakfast and then do the rest of your day with a party etc. I don't think making your guests pay for food is a good idea.. that would mean they would be paying to eat and then a present etc. thats alot of money. It may be your birthday but your still the host! And when you have a party at your house it allows you to have alot more people because then that way You can have 20 people and not have to wait for 20 meals to be cooked. etc.. then you won't have to worry about transportation from the resteraunt to your house for cake etc. . o yea Pizzas a good idea for food 2! =P
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!! I hope u have an awesome birthday!! and i hope its alot of fun ;)
Hey i got an interview in an 2 hours i need some last minute advice can anyone help me out???if its helps its going to be an interview for coldstone creamery (its an ice cream place like a more expensive one)
Well.. interviews are very important and since this is a more expensive place it prob. pays more soo this is why you need to do your best!=) and make sure they pick you over the rest! ;) You need to know how to make an impression but not bad one! lol.. Heres some tips that I hope help!;)
1.)Smile... employers like good attitudes with all there employees
2.)Wear something conservative... Keep yourself pretty classy and covered up. ((remember no one want to see to much skin at an interview))
3.) Shake their hand when you first meet them.((this will show them that your respectful and that you care))
4.)Keep eye contact throughout the whole interview ((It shows that your interested))
5.)Don't bite your nails or play with a pen etc. Make sure your very attentive.. otherwise they might think you're not easily distracted.
6.)Don't be afraid to ask questions about the job that you might have. ((It shows that you're assertive))
7.)Turn off all cell phones,pagers,beepers etc. You do not want to be interupted in the middle of an interview.
8.)Say Thank you with a smile,at the end of the interview. :)
-Hope I helped-
xoxo Good Luck I hope you get the job!
My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.
Okay so if talking hasn't worked then its time to get the facts.... download pictures of effcts of smoking...
such as Dirty yellow fingernails..
yellow teeth
Bad Wrinkles when your 20...
Show him a picture of a healthy lung and a smokers lung.. thats one of the things that scared me never to smoke...it was truly sumthing u would lose your appetite over...
then get a smoke smell on your clothes and let him smell it.. see if he likes that smell.. i bet he doesn't.. its disgusting...
then its time to get down to business with the facts... try talkin to him one more time.. but this time have info to back everything up...
such as..
The Effects of Smoking
Smokers who have heart failure can automatically eliminate a major source of stress on their heart by quitting. Each puff of nicotine temporarily increases heart rate and blood pressure, even as less oxygen-rich blood circulates through the body. Smoking also leads to clumping or stickiness in the blood vessels feeding the heart. People who quit smoking are more likely to have their heart failure symptoms improve.
If he says something like "I just can't quit its 2 hard..." then give him some of these
Keep busy doing things that make it hard to smoke, like working in the yard, washing dishes and being more active.
Fight the urge by going places where smoking isn't allowed and staying around people who don't smoke.
Avoid situations that tempt you to smoke, like drinking coffee or alcohol.
Find a substitute to reach for instead of a cigarette. Try a hard candy.
Don't give up if you smoke a cigarette. Just resolve not to do it again.
Remind yourself that you're likely to feel better if you stop smoking.
Tell family members and friends that you need to quit smoking and need their support. If your friends smoke ask them to stop w/you.
Also include when have ur 2nd talk...that it causes cancer and heart problems.. and most people who start smoking at that age don't live past 30... i know you said for me not to tell you to talk to him.. but the only way for him to really understand is if you keep talking.. you can't give up on that stuff!
-Hope I helped-
Good Luck...
xoxo
Can you give me the best study tips? My friends always brag about getting honor roll. i want to get it too. Thanks soo much!!! xox
Hey.. Its awesome that you want to get on honor roll.. your education is really important! I have some tips that I hope help.
1.) Never study in front of a television! thats bad because then you pay more attention to that then your studies!
2.) Don't do homework in front of a television.. same thing goes for homework as it does for studying..
3.) Don't have music on or anything that can distract you when your studying.. make sure your in an enviorment where its easy to concentrate on only your studies..
4.) don't wait for a day before a test to study! Cramming is not good.. its much better if you study little by little and then reveiw each day..
5.) Have a study buddy that you know you won't get distracted to do other things.. invite over a friend that you know will focus too. And then test eachother on materials that you worked on in class..
6.)Don't Be Afraid to ask the teacher for extra help. Your teachers are there to help and if you do't understand something then ask for help.. they will be more then happy to help!:)
7.) Participate in class... don't just sit there and dread the class.. actually participate and get involved with what your doing.. that way the teacher sees your working hard.. that way if you do, do bad on a test then they can see how hard you have worked and how much effort you had and maybe you can get a retake ;)
8.)Don't pass notes or talk in class.. that can distract you and you might miss out on something important...Keep anything that you can doodle on out of sight..
9.) Put away pens and pencils unless you need them for school work.. this will keep you free from doodling on notebooks etc.
10.)When you get home from school do your homework right away... don't wait because then your less focused and its easier to want to rush through it later on or forget it if you wait.. but if you do it right when you get home that leaves you the rest of the night as your own..:)
11.) Have projects done at least a few days before there due that way if you wanted to change or improve something then you would ahve the time to and make it just like you want :)
Well I hope I helped.... and i really hope you make honor roll!:)
Good Luck...let me know how it goes if u want! lol
-xoxo
School is starting REALLY soon and I'm soooooo freaked out. Everyone considers me the "shyest girl" at school and I don't have many friends because people think I have nothing to say. I want to be more open with people and be myself and not care what they think!! I ALWAYS CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK. That's what always gets in the way of everything, and that's what makes me shy. I'm soo scared of school because I'm not very popular and people tend to pick on me because of my weak voice, and "shy qualities". It's not easy to make friends. One of my biggest problems is also that people tend to think I'm STUPID because of my shyness quality - which I'm NOT - I get honor roll!! How can I make people think I'm smart, that I have something to say, and that there's more to me than what they think...MUCH MORE.
well.. for one... think about who you want to be friends with before you go and try, because some people aren't even worth your time. Also.. try coming back with a new you. A new style, personality, habits etc. On the first day just smile and say hi. I know it will be hard...but you will have to practice coming out and saying Hi to people you don't know. Or if you recognize someone from a class you had last year then just say hey weren't you in my chem. class last year? or sumthing like that. that should strike up a conv. and get things going.. then maybe they can introduce you to ppl etc. Also if you want people to see your smart a good thing to do is raising your hand in class to loosen up. That way your only talking to the teacher and classmates can your smart and maybe someone can ask for your help. Another way of opening up is at lunch. Sit down with some kids that you maybe recognize or a new group and just say hi. Ask how there days been as a good conv. starter or you can talk about the horrible lunch food! lol..that always works.. I say just loosen up a bit and when people make fun of you don't take it...Let them know just who you are and where you stand!...Also flirt with anotherr quiet guy lol.. that way you don't feel any pressure or anything lol...;)
-goodluck-
i hope i helped
xoxo
wut should i do if i was molested bye a family member more then once but cant tell ne one cuz they wont belive me and i dont want to brake p the family?
O my gosh sweetie! You NEED to tell someone.. and i mean you NEED too !!!NO one EVER should have to go through that.. and the fact that its reoccuring makes it worse! did you already start school? If so then the counsler at your school would be the best thing to go to if you don't feel comfortable telling a trusted guardian etc. .. About splitting up your family.. if its your father then they might take you away from your home until you able to go back to a safe enviorment where hes not around.. if its an uncle brother maybe even an aunt sister.. then im pretty sure you would be able to stay at your house. They would only be protecting you from harm... Don't worry about splitting up your family.. you safetly comes first.. and you don't want to be in a family where you can't even feel safe.. If your other family members love you then they'll understand and everything will work out... i promise...
if you ever need to talk then just give me your sn or something and i can im me...
-I hope EVERYTHING works out for you.. and im sorry you have to go through this.. if you need anything.. im here-
xoxo
i have a boyfriend and i havent talk to him since the last day of skool, which was 2 months ago. in the beginning of my summer vacation i told one of my friends who was going to summer skool with him to give him my cell phone number. so she did and he said he would give me a call. but he never did. and today and yesterday was this special thing at my high school that i had to go to, and i saw him there and he didnt even come up to me and say hi to me. and i cant stand seeing him. i'm not so much mad i'm just really hurt cuz i really like him alot and i've missed him alot during the summer, and i've never known a guy who's as sweet and kind as him. i was thinking of breaking up with him, but one of my friends told me to wait, and to see what happens when skool starts. and everytime i think of breaking up with him i feel really bad cuz i'm afraid that i'll never have anyone like him again. what should i do?
O my my! ... Well think about it.. do you really want a guy who is ignoring you and who you haven't talked to ALL summer!? I mean..he could have changed completely..a kind and sweet guy.. thats def. how you should be treated but ignoring you is not being sweet and kind.. I know that your b/f was prob. really cool in school and stuff.. but that shouldn't make up for ignoring you for 2 months.. who knows he could have cheated on you or done things that you don't know about.. you can't really hold a relationship for 2 months with no communication.. i know it will be hard.. but the best thing would be to break it off (((for now))) wait until school starts then see how he acts.. if he acts better and you get all of the ?'s that you have for him answered.. and they better be good answers lol then the choice is yours wether you want to start things up with him again...And trust me.. there are tons of guys out there!!!! TONS!! there will be many BETTER then him... hes only the beginning.. you'll def. find someone better that your happier with....
Any guy that is worth your time will give you as much of his as you need :)
-hope i helped-
xoxo..
sry i responded so late.. i was on vacation :(