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Just in case you wanted to know more about me.. I borrowed this little survey thing from xHeartxofxGoldx's column... Name: Jenn
Age: 16
Eye color: hazel
Hair color: brown
Location: CT
Best friends: Katie, Sarah, Autumn, Kristi, Camie, Jess, and Duncan
Grade: 11th
Status: single (due to the lack of worthy guys at my school)
Favorite bands: Dashboard Confessional, Queen, The Beetles, The Farewell Address, Hoobastank, Story of the Year, Yellowcard, New Found Glory, Switchfoot, Ryan Cabrera, and Ashlee Simpson (wierd huh?)
Hobbies: colorgaurd, odyssey of the mind, swimming, movies, music, writing, reading, giving advice to my friends (lol)..
Favorite colors: umm.. light blue, pink, and purple...
I only give advice if I know it'll help you, so if you think I can help, leave one in my inbox!
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i think i am pregnant what do i do i am only 13
You should definetly tell someone. If its not a parent, tell a teacher, or an aunt or uncle you trust. They can help you buy a test and make sure, then they can help you through the whole thing, like telling your parents, and what your options are.
Whatever you do, don't ignore it and pretend its not happening, because it won't just go away.
i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx!
This guy sounds kinda like a dog, and since you live far away from him he probably won't break up with his girlfriend for you because she's 'convenient'... also if he cheated on her with you, what makes you think if you got together he wouldn't cheat on you with someone else? So my opinion is to just get rid of the creep and look for a better guy that you can trust...
hope I helped!
ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice!
Eww, definetley not, smoking is a gross habit that you shouldn't pick up.. It puts you at a higher risk for things like lung cancer, heart disease, and emphysema. It also gives you yellow teeth and nails, bad breath, and premature wrinkles... If I still haven't convinced you visit thetruth.com...
I totally get that you want to fit in with your friends but remember, just because everyone else does it, doesn't mean its the right thing to do...
hope I helped!
Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *
(I will rate you!)
If you don't feel anything at all, you should probably just break it off, because its not fair to you or him if you stay in a relationship where you don't feel the same way about him as you first did, and if you break it off with him you have the chance to meet someone new that you could have strong feelings for...
hope I helped!
my friend Jay invited me to this party saturday night then a few mins later he said that I might not be able to go bc this girl that I don't along with will be there. But if i did wanna go I will have to ask this other kid. But me and this other kid aren't really friends. he's just planning it and the party is at jay's. So should I go?? Jay is afraid the girl will start stuff with me and there will be a huge fight. sry if this is confusing but thanx for the help
If you really think there might be problems with this girl, then you probably shouldn't go, because you don't want to contribute to an akward situation at that kids party, or Jays house, but if you think you can get through the night without any problems then go for it!
hope I helped!
Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer.
To be honest, whenever I'm out with my friends we always look at guys and then we'll mention to eachother what we thought of them... The difference is that most guys will make some obnoxious comment to the girl so their friends just so they look cool or something, and that's just annoying...
my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me..
This is a pretty big problem to handle by yourself... Your friend is heading down a path that can only lead to bad things. You should let her parents know whats going on, because no matter what anybody says 13 is way too young to be sexually active.. You also may want to look into the statstics on teen pregnancy and STD's and then show her the risks, it might help...
hope I helped!
I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....
What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...
my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....
Please help me!
I wouldn't use kool-aid on your hair if I were you, If tou just want temporary color for a few hours, I would suggest using the spray cans, because those are guaranteed to wash out..
hope I helped!
hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P
I think you should tell Matt and see how he reacts, because if he acts the way you think he will then the obvious choice is Tyler because he seems more mature, also I don't know how strict your mom is when it comes to dating, but if you explain to your mom that Tyler is very nice and treats you right, she might just agree with you...
Hope I helped!
Hi she I met this gurl at a place called Teen Camp , but see we became really good friends practilly best friends, but she lives in TN. My other friend who used to be my best friend is made at me bc all I talk about is my other Best friend..... What doI do???
PLZ HELP
Why isn't your old best friend one of your best friends anymore, is it just because you met a new friend, or did something happen there that made you guys stop being close? In any event, when your with your old friend, its kinda rude to constantly talk about your "new best friend," your friends probably feeling left out. Why don't you introduce your two friends and try to get them to be friends, so when your talking about one friend to the other, they can know what you're talking about, and feel included...
Hope I helped!
i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
If you haven't had sex, its not possible for you to be pregnant, that being said, don't worry about your period, for the first 2-3 years it might be very irregular so you could have it one month and then totally skip it the next. Also the 28 day thing is more of an average, everyone is different.
hope I helped!
I am 17 f and my boyfriends friend always wants to talk to me about sex and he always tells me how much he loves me and needs me in his life but he knows that i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend is like his best friend I dont know what to do cuz I like my boyfriends friend but only as a friend do u think i should tell my boyfriend what his friend is saying to me? or should i just let his friend talk to me the way he does?
Tell your boyfriend's friend that he's putting you in an akward position everytime he talks to you about sex or tells you how he loves you. Ask him to stop, and if he doesn't tell your boyfriend about it, because he isn't being a very good "best friend"
Hope I helped :)