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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me..
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Wow, only 13! Do her parents know? They should be informed! Try to tell her the side effects- pregnacy and/or STD or AIDS/HIV!! If that doesn't work, get her parents involved!
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Wow, 13 is really ypung to be having sex at all. Tell her she needs to cool it because she can get pregnant or even worse get an STD or HIV/AIDS. Let her know, that by being so easy, she is putting a bad name out for herself. Guys will not respect and just think they can get it whenever they want. Let her know you care about her and you just want the best of her. If she doesn't change her ways, then I think you should call your friendship quits, because you too will get a bad rep, even if you are being a good girl. Good Luck! :)
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OK. I think that what you should do is tell your friend all the terrible things that could happen..like gettin pregnant and like when shes 30 years old, shell be in the hospital for smoking and even sexually transmitted diseases! You should also show youre friends what people have wrote about her and what u should do! NOTHING CAN HURT! If everything keeps up, maybe you should ask a doctor or even a parent for help..HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!
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2 years a go, when i was in 6th grade, i used to dress like a slut too, i hung out with people that DEFINATLY weren't virgins, and who smoked just about anything. I've never done anything though. Now i've changed, i met a new friend who i'd listen to music with, and now she's my best friend. she saved me from everything i hate now. ive stopped dressing that way, and i've made tons of new friends that are like me now, and it was all within a year. i dropped all of my skanky friends, but i did it without communication. my life's a lot better, and now i'm actually getting boyfriends which i didn't get when i dressed slutty. give her a little time, and dont fall for her acts. if you cant handle this, and she won't listen, let someone know, or you might just have to make new friends.
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I kinda have a friend like this too.. you just have to sit down with her and talk about it... if she doesnt want to change than theres really nothing you can do to change her... its who she is
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just tell her that in the long run if she stops its going to be very helpful and people would probably more people would respect her more
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you really just gotta sit down n talk ta her.. theres reele no other way ta get it through to her.. make her understand how much she means to you and the fact she broke her promise really made you upset and u just want her ta stop wut shes doing before it takes her down the road where she doesnt wanna be.. hope i helped <3
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..i had the same prob..in a diff way only my friend was 14 and she had sex with a 36 year old..i lost all respect..and i thought that she was the best..but i moved on and found better friends..soo if that could happen for youi..go for it..! xO Mandie =)
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well u cant always juss tell her bc sometymes they dont listen. you need to let her now how important your guys friendship is n tell her i am not wanted to hang out wit a person who is acting lyke this breakin our promises. and tell her if she keeps acting lyke this then tell her that i will not hang out wit her... but then tell her that i will talk to you n still care for you but i am not going to be hanging out wit you as much! then juss see what happens! please rate meeh!
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You have to accept the fact that thats how she wants to be. But if you feel this is hurting her you should show her how bad it is to smoke and to be doing those things and what can happen if she continues to do it. Hopefully she will listen to you and stop what shes doing before she gets hurt.
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Well ur friend could be at a point in her life where she needs to have boys in her life like boys that will have sex with her. She shouldnt be doing this because she is young and maybe the boys r just using her for the sex cuz they know how she is. To get her to stop dressing so slutty maybe u could talk to her and if she doesnt listen and keep her promises to u then she isnt a real friend.
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This is a pretty big problem to handle by yourself... Your friend is heading down a path that can only lead to bad things. You should let her parents know whats going on, because no matter what anybody says 13 is way too young to be sexually active.. You also may want to look into the statstics on teen pregnancy and STD's and then show her the risks, it might help...
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Wow, that's a tough one. Your friend does need to stop smoking ecspecially if she's only 13!! And she gave "it" up already? Wow. Well I think you should tell her what smoking does, all the side effects and everything. How often does she dress slutty? All the time or just when she's with guys?
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You cant make your friend stop doing whatever she is doing. This is who she is and you have to accept it. But at the same time you should really talk to her and try to make her understand that what she is doing isnt right, and she could really end up hurt or in trouble. If youre that worried about her, talk to her parents or a trusted adult. Hope I helped.
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