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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer.
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Hey man, your friends that are girls are totally jealous. As in, "hey, when was the last time you said that about them"? As long as your remarks are neither insulting nor degrading, keep up the good work and tell your girlfriends to hang out with a guy who likes them that way if that's what they want.
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ill admit that girls DEFINATELY look too, but guys r usual the ones known 4 usin girls just cuz the have big boobs or a nice butt or sumthin. yea girls do use guys, but its more common 2 c a guy usin a girl. as long as u dun go 2 far wit the comments it shouldnt b such a big deal.
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I'm not really sure why your friends would care. And you're right, girls say stuff to their friends about guys all the time. It's just the double standard- we want you to look at us, but you can't say anything. We're weird like that. Usually I'm flattered by that kind of thing- you know, if someone whistles at you- but then again I've never had anybody yell out stuff about my butt, etc. We really don't make sense with this one, so all you can do is keep the thoughts to yourself...or ask them what they thought of her. Girls always have opinions on other girls.
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Hey hey!! I dont think most girls get mad just about compliments...we get mad when guys say somethin that is disrespectful like "oh i wanna hit that!" Or somethin stupid like that...just be careful what you say...
xoxo Alicia xoxo
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idk y ure girls that r frends do that.. maybe they like u or sumthin.. idk.. i would only yell at my guys if i was goin out wit them and everythin but if theyre just frends and they just make lil remarks i wouldnt care really.. hope i helped
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We do say stuff. But we're not so bold about. We don't make sounds or yell down the street and stuff like that. We share the comments between ourselves. Girls don't like when guys just blurt out sleezy comments. But if you say what you are saying is not untasteful, then maybe your other friends who are girls are just jealous. There is nothing wrong with looking and liking what you see as long as you are a gentlemen about it. Hope I helped! :)
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girls are selfconcious, and they dont believe that they're that hot, cute or pretty. just dont be like "Wow, that girl is hot" right infront of her, and if so, say it in a better way like "that girl is pretty", and dont look seductivly, or pevertedly. some girls dont like it and they feel the only reason why you seem intrested it because you like their physical appeal.
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Some girls don't look at guys and say stuff to their friends - me, for instance.
Some girls also really just don't like to be hit on, or commented on, especially if they have an attachment. I get little remarks and usually end up flicking the guys off because I have a boyfriend, lol.
You can't possibly tell by looking at a girl if she has a boyfriend or not. If she does, chances are she won't want to be commented on.
Hope I helped clafiry!
-Siren =)
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It's a compliment and notting bad. Just keep at what your doing. I'm sure the girls later will say in there head "WoW! I'm a hottie". HeHe! I get compliments and stuff and I like it. YeY!
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i think that its perfectly fine and i dont mind if someone said anything about me i think its a compliment
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When I'm with guy friends that do that, I joke around and make fun of them, all good naturedly. I don't see why you should stop looking, and a small comment isn't bad.
Maybe your female friends can't take it because they're jealous. Or, maybe they're just a little over sensative about those things. Maybe you should just learn to keep those things to yourself when your around certain friends.
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well if ur single, then i dont know why you would be gettin yelled at...who knows, that lil comment could be the start of a great realtionship... and everyone wants a great relationship. But if u have a gf, as a girl i would be really mad. I mean you have a girl that you can look at, so you should be satisfied. once again if ur single i dont thinks its a bad thing, unless ur not showing respect...that should get you yelled at.
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Believe it or not, girls in general don't like sounds being made at them and a guy yelling 'hey baby' doesn't really attract us to you. Why do you get yelled at for that? Well because its rude and dispite the fact that everyone likes compliments, you'll always get a negative response from a woman. We also don't really liked to be gawked at. Yea sure, we say stuff amongst ourselves about guys we see, but you see very few girls yelling out car windows like idiots telling guys they are hot. Theres the difference. There are better ways to interact rather than staring at a person. Instead of staying at a distance, go up and talk to a girl instead of yelling things or staring, that way a girl knows you are actually interested in talking to her.
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Wow, thanks for the one rating. I didn't take anything personal. Its not really my fault if you don't properly clarify what you are saying in your question and I'm not a mind reader. If you want accurate answers, provide something a little more detailed then 'making a sound'.
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To be honest, whenever I'm out with my friends we always look at guys and then we'll mention to eachother what we thought of them... The difference is that most guys will make some obnoxious comment to the girl so their friends just so they look cool or something, and that's just annoying...
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Cause men say vulgar things when they look at women!!!! Seriously.. when girls see a hot guy in the mall, they dont scream out their opinion. they say it quietly to their friends, not the entire world. thats why you get lectured!!!!!!
Amber
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It's fine to do that, girls love attention. But if you do it in a disrespectful way then girls do get angry. Nobody has the right to yell at you for looking if your single though.
-Kayla
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haha good question..prolly cuz gals dont like guys just to notice their body..they want them to like their personality i guess!! but there are some girls out there who like it when a guy whistles when he walks by!! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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its cute when its a sweet comment but not some caveman grunt about our ass, just keep it sweet and you won't get yelled at =]
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depends on how u do it...if u mean it as a compliment then its good...but if u do it in a rude way or sumthn then its kinda disrespectful...jus b nice n ull get good replys most of the time!
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