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i really like this kid..and he knows that i do..and every time my friends mention me around him he blushes (thats what they said)..and on the last day of school all he did was stare at me and he told my friend he would talk to me..but when the bell rang he ran right past me. just last week my friend called him (im to shy to even talk to him) and he said he doesnt like me and wouldnt go out with me..he also said that he just broke up with someone..(thats not true cause he told my friend he was single) but it seemed like in school that he was always looking at me..i really want him to like me too! What should i do?

He seems like he likes you. The only way you really can tell is to sit down and talk to him. If you can't tell it to his face call him up. Tell him how you have been feeling the whole time. As I said I do think he does like you. :-)

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hey..im 13..5'4..and wiegh 140..is that fat? is that y guys dont like me?

You really do need to lose some weight. You need to get down between 105-115 lbs. You need to eat healthy and work out. So don't worry about boys right now. You will meet someone! Your only 13!

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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer.

It's a compliment and notting bad. Just keep at what your doing. I'm sure the girls later will say in there head "WoW! I'm a hottie". HeHe! I get compliments and stuff and I like it. YeY!

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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant?

Nope, Your on your period. Your lucky! Next time stay safe! Use a condom and get the shot or something. Just in case I would still take the test to make sure your not pregnant.

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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do?

Your really young! If you are a bad kisser whoever your with might say it. You can have sex as long as you get on Birth control and use a condom. I think the best bet would be to get the shot. So since you haven't found the right person wait it out. Your only 13!

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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex?

It depends on you really. When you feel like your ready go for it.

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Is this poem OK?

people always tell me i'm not like others,
i don't fit in with the preps and am not like the brothers,
I like to listen to Aerosmith and P.O.D,
Is there any other way i should be?
I don't have a certain way to dress,
For someone i hardly know to impress,
I don't watch movies about cheerleaders,
And i hardly go to the movie theatres,
I just am myself and no one can change my rep,
Except maybe good old johnny depp

That last verse was a joke

Pleez rate the poem 1-10. Thank you
Lizzy

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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!

I think you you should talk it out with him. I'm sure he wants to do the same exact thing as you. He will come around. :-)

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hey i like this guy ALOT and i dont know if he likes me but um he is going into 10th grade and is frickin hot!! i dont know what to do! should i ask him out?! PLEASE HELP ME!

Yeah you should totally walk up to him and be like "Your really hot" and then be like "Do you wanna hang out this weekend?" or something like that. I'm sure he would be like "Yeah Cool". Have Fun!

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hey im 13/f and me n my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and right now hes away on vacation but a few days ago my mom saw the hickey that was on my neck and now yesterday morning she said she doesnt want me to see him anymore..i cried all morning and the afternoon and then i wrote her a note explainin why i think she should let me stay with him..she didnt write back so should i just keep going out with him anyway or break up with him? i love him alot!!

So I think you should try to stay with your Boyfriend. Make sure if your having sex with him to use a condom. Still your 13 so you might be better off to wait. If you ever get a hicky like that again you can use makeup to cover it up. So you should talk it out with your mom. She might understand. Good Luck!

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hey people!i was wondering if anyone heard jet's new song. if ya did please tell me the name

CoLd HaRd B*TcH :-)

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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*

Awww, So cute! I think he is totally shy and wants to take it slow to make this work. I think he totally cares about you. I would just take it slow. Plus if you think of it when you both do kiss you will want to do it even more.

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i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on?

I know how this feeling feels like. You need to try talking to him just one more time. You never know he could be thinking about you too. If he isn't interested try to find another guy your interested in and see if he likes you back. I know this is hard but this is how dating works. You will meet somebody someday.

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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't.

Your normal weight! I'd say to just eat healthy and walk like 30 min a day.

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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how?

Sorry to say you can't tell your dad to divorce her. Also think!, Don't you want him to be happy? If I were you I would talk to your "Stepmother" and tell her how you feel. You both might be able to come up with some type of agreement.

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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do?

All you really can do is talk to him. It should help you both get closer. :-)

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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!

You can get tested when you wish.

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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?

You need to stand up for yourself. Really you could talk to them and be like "even though thats a joke it kinda bothers me". They might stop!

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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!

Where were your parents? If they are there then talk to them. If he does this when your parents aren't home its time to call 911. You don't know what he may do next.

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hey i wrot to u before about the guy i like and everyone said he likes me and hes been keeping up the flirting but hes also sending sum but not all of the signals to my sister wut shud i do ? please help ASAP
thanks Kate

He appears to like you. Walk up to him and tell him how you feel. :-)

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