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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do?
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dOn`t base wat u dO On ur aqe - base it On wat kind Of quy yOu are with - makinq Out with a quy.. isn`t really a biq deal - a kiss is a kiss and sum are bad and sum are qOod - that`z just how it wOrkz.. abOut yOu havinq sex sOon isn`t such a qOod idea - ur 13 ENJOY UR CHILDHoOD! dOn`t rush intO anythinq!!
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You shouldnt rush anything when it comes to sex! When you find the right guy then everything will just fall into place...but until u do then just go ot and have fun! Your 13 you shouldnt have to be worrying about all of that!
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Your only 13 and you want to have sex!? Your 13! I don't think anyone that age can handle the possible effects of sex-a baby and/or STD!!! Ok, you need to slow down, I don't care if you decide to have sex when your 16, I'm just telling you that you could realy mess up your life! Your still under 21! You have your whole life ahead of you-wait!
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What makes you want to do all of this?? Your still so young now! makeing out isn't all that bad but be careful because a lot of people would prolly start considering you to be a slut if they found out that you made out with a lot of guys. And with the sex thing, DONT do it until you found someone who you love and trust. preferably your first love?
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First of all you are too young to be having sex, even a year from now. Also, I see it this way, if you don't want to poop: you don't eat, if you don't want to get pregnant: you don't eat. Yes there are birth control and condoms, and they can be pretty affective, but abstinence avoids all of that stuff completely. But it is normal for a girl your age to want to kiss boys. You just have to be confident. Guys like confidence. Try not to think about what you are doing and just do it. After you kiss a guy once, trust me it will become easier and easier to do it again. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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If you're not comfortable with things that you want to do, no matter what you're feeling, it doesn't seem like you're ready. I think you should just wait a little while and see how things go...when you're ready. If you do have sex or anything, then you might regret it later on because of your current feelings. Just wait for the right guy...He'll come.
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I don't think you should rush things.You find a guy when you find a guy.Everything comes in time.So be patient.'N if you're only 13, I wouldn't be thinking of having sex the next year.Make a wise choice about that.Hope I helped!
-tori
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I dont think you should have sex in a year. Thats NOT A GOOD IDEA! Its a very very bad idea that could get you an STD or pregnant. Its just an all around horrible idea. Definatly wait tell your older to do that kind of stuff.
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I think you should wait until you've found the right guy and are ready to do things like that. Don't be afraid though, the right guy should like you for who you are.
-Kayla
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sweetie.... if you haven't found the right guy to KISS then i don't think you should he having sex at 13... you're wayyyy too young and there are so many risks to having sex... there is disease... and then the biggest thing that your parents could disown you for... getting pregnant. i feel that if you TRULY love a guy and you want to be with him in that way and you are sure that he loves you too then maybe, just maybe you could consider going all the way with him... but if you've never kissed a guy before please don't consider having sex with a guy yet for your own safety... and if you do find the right guy to kiss here are a couple of tips: make sure your faces are close enough so that you know where your lips are aiming and THEN close your eyes, do not open your mouth that wide because you might like eat his face, when you kiss a guy just like massage his tounge with yours... if you want to be a little kinky... try to nibble on his lip but not that hard because a guy tried to do that to me once and he bit my lip really hard and it started bleeding so if you do that PLEASE be careful and my boyfriend said it's called NIBBLING for a reason... so nibble do not bite!
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Youd shoudln't rush anything. 1. dont be afriad of being a bad kisser..maybe let him lead 2. have safe sex and only do it if ur ready and 3. wait for the perfect guy..dont jus find someone and do it you should wait..hope i helped!
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Your really young! If you are a bad kisser whoever your with might say it. You can have sex as long as you get on Birth control and use a condom. I think the best bet would be to get the shot. So since you haven't found the right person wait it out. Your only 13!
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you should defintally wait till' you're older, or people will think of you as a slut, i'm sure you wouldn't want that..
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You're young - you can afford to wait to do things with a guy. I mean, making out is fine, but sex is another issue entirely.
Kissing comes pretty naturally, so you don't have much to worry about there. Just don't use too much tongue...Lol
Sex can definitely wait 'til you find the right guy - or at least a guy you can really trust. Sex is a very, very intimate thing, and you've gotta really care about the guy - and be able to trust him. I urge you to wait until you're legal - the age of consent is 16 in a lot of places - so you can get birth control, and you won't have to worry too much about getting pregnant.
Wait for the right guy. He'll come along. ^_^
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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First of all I think that you need to aks yourself..Why do i want to do stuff with guys? I mean really why are you rushing it. If it is because you want to fit in or w/e that is NOT a good reason.
And you shoudl always wait for the right guy. And don't worry about being a good kisser, good kissing comes with expierence.
Hope I helped......Alina
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1. dont worry about being a bad kisser
2. dont have sex therefore you cant get pregnant
3. its a good thing that u didnt find the right guy yet (not to be mean or anything) but dont have sex at ur age. its wrong.
keep looking for the right guy, but dont do anything you dont want to do. -PA
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well..1 about the bad kisser thing, theres no wrong way to kiss..you might be a lil nervous just thinkin about it cuz i kno i was, but when it happens you'll kno what to do...2 i dont think you should start having sex until you're really ready..if you have any doubts about it..dont do it..and 3 when you're around guys..be yourself, never change for a guy..and soon enough you'll find the right guy for you..ya never kno..he could be the person you least expected =) -*kaci*-
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Wait...thats the key..It seems that your not ready
x0x Jamie Lynn
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you could just keep trying to find someone who is right for you , theres really no way to find out if someone is a bad kisser because alotta people do different things and when you have sex just make sure you always use protection and be careful so u dont get pregnant hope we helped .
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Don't do anything. Don't set a time table for yourself, these things will happen in time. Wait for the right person to come along before you think about doing these things. The first guy you kiss will likely be inexperianced as well, so you'll learn from eachother. Just take things slow. Don't be so eagar to grow up.
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Well, don't worry about doing this stuff within a certain time period, once you find the right guy, then you should think about that sort of thing, but no one is rushing you and you shouldn't be rushing yourself, because that's the sort of thing you'll regret later if you make a mistake, and not necessarily meaning a baby, but you might just know you did it with the wrong guy, make sure you really like the guy though, hope i helped and hope you find the guy of your dreams
Lizzy
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