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hi im 13/m. i think i am a woamn trapped in a mans body. i want to get a sex change and then date other women. so basically i want to be a gay trans sexual. i also like to do it to animals sometimes. i used them for practice. how do i explain about my sexuality to my family? (link)
um tell them but dont fuck any more animals.


is it ok to shave your private down there (link)
yea theres nothing wrong w. it


Hey its dave.... my love life sucks. I've only had one girlfriend that made me happy. As of now i'm in love with this girl and idk if she likes me the way i like her, but i reeeeeeally like her and i think about her too much. I'm a real emo person, and i want to ask her out, but i'm afraid of the outcome, cause if she says no i'm gonna be all sad and stuff, but i'll eventually get over it. I have no idea what to do (link)
yeah my love life sucks too .. i never had a boyfriend but thats besides the point, hmm .. idk thats the thing about love, it hurts .. so y'gotta try but if it doesnt work out find someone else and im sure you will .. and ynever know she might say yes dont think so low but if she deosnt just move on .. life goes on ^_-


ok i talk to this kid online.. we've never met before but he is soo cool and we flirt and everything and i kind of have feelings for him. i'v never even seen a picture of him before and he's never seen one of me.. but thats kind of one of the great things about it. we cant judge eachother on how we look or woah i cant like her, shes ugly. ya no wut i mean? is it weird to have feelings for someone like that over online? would it be weird to have him as a "boy friend" ?
please help so i can stop wondering! (link)
well thats a good thing, it means you like him for his personality ^_- and not for whats on the outside, so no of course its not wierd to like someone over the computer, but to go out, thats the idk kinda part, i mean ya could but you never will "see" eachother if y'know what i mean, but its not bad at all that you like him bc ive liked people over the internet just bc they're personality can relate to mine!


i have this friend and she is really annoying but she is my best friend and if i am not her friend no more shell be so upset what do i do (link)
y'gotta tell her that you feel shes a little annoying but don't make it sound like you dont wanna be her friend ,you might get into an argument but every friendship has its up and its downs .. just dont ruin your friendship over annoyance..


i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
omg sounds like me .. i can't find anyone for me .. and i think of myself as a ugly freak .. but you gotta wait for the right guy ... and y'cant really rush love ^_-


CAN DILDOS GET YOU PREGNANT? cause i use dem a lot. and i aint gettin mah period and i aint getting mah period. and im gettin phat. like a baby phat. yeahz. i relle need yo help pet-riina. (link)
nope they can't get u pregenant, bc they dont have sperm in them so nopee you cant


i have a small penis. what should i do? i dont want my boyfriend to make fun of me. (link)
he shouldn't love u for the size of it, so if he makes fun of you he doesn't really love you like you thought he did..


im a hermaphrodite. (i have both a wainger-dainger and a vagina.. and boobs =\) and ive been going out with this guy for a long time and he thinks im all girl. but i cant hide my ding-a-ling. and she wants to start doing "stuff" besides feeling me up. i really need your help.

- should i get my schlong cut off?

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well, either that or you tell him the truth and see how he takes it =\ those are your 2 choices to get it cut off or just tell him the truth and he should love you no matter what..


ok heres the senerio .. i really really really like this guy. but the problem is .. i really have no chance with him. since the day i met him, iv liked him. hes so funny and nice and everything and he has a girlfriend. go figure. were not even the same age which also decreases the chances. i dont know what to do to make him like me. i really feel like i love him and i just wish he felt the same. is there anything i could do to make him realise how much i really like him and for him to like me too ?! (link)
you can't really make someone like you .. they have to like you on their own, and if he has a girlfriend i'd stay out of it bc then she might get the wrong idea y'know? but maybe if they ever break up one day you should tell him that you like him and see if it works out, if it doesn't, then sorry =\


ok, so im inlove wit dis girl dat's one of my sisters best friends and she says she likes me n'd all but i dont kno cuz im really in love with her .... yeeah .. help ?

- joe (link)
you never know, she might like you and she might not, idk the best you can do is tell her that you like her and see what she says =\


okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
you shouldn't break them up .. but you should tell him how you feel so at least he knows that you both have feelings for eachother .. that normally happens best friends of the opposite sex tend to like eachother, if he breaks up w/ his gf then sure go for it .. but don't rush him to break up w/ her or anything, he'll make his move when its time ^_-


well i'm 13 and this kid that i rele like and i think likes me back whos like 14 said that he would go out wit me but he wants me to do "stuff" wit him....i dono if thats tha only reson he wants me to go out wit him but he makes it seem like he onle wants to for dat "stuff" wat should i do? (link)
well if you really think he only likes you to do 'stuff' with him then defintally don't go out w/ him .. because boys will say anything to get something out of you, it could be a couple "i love you's" just to make you wanna go out w/ him for shit like that .. dont fall into their traps >.


ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that? (link)
that doesn't mean you're ugly, and y'never know someone might like you but is afraid to tell you .. think of yourself as you .. you don't need to be cute or hot or w/e .. just be yourself and if it's not good enough for other people then to hell w/ them


Hey ok...my friend goes out with this boi well ne wayz ok twice he had tried to like flirt and be like i love you with me but my friend found out and she took it out on me and like wanted to beat me up and each time we got through it well i used to be like her BEST friend but were close but still not that close..well anywayz..now we started talkin again as friends and he was tellin how much he liked me and he loved me more then i would ever kno...i mean i said i love him back and i mean im confused because i dont want me and my friend to be messed up again but im movin like 30 min away ne wayz but idk wut to do...HELP pleaz! (link)
well you shouldn't flirt w/ him back if you know its gunna mess up your friendship .. never do that to your friends, remember friends come before guys no matter what, and shes going out w/ him so don't try anything flirty bc she`ll take it the wrong way and get into another fight w/ you and you wouldn't want that to happen..


ok heres the deal.. this girl that iv been reele good friends with for like a year.. is mad at me. i dont even remember wut i did. i think it was just cus i was fighting with her best friend.. [ who i was good friends with also ] and so i think my friend kinda tried to find a reason to get mad at me.. like out of something little that i said, she would make it a crime, if you no wut i mean? i try talking to her and telling her i wanna be friends but when i try to im her.. she just ignores me and never answers. when were friends, we have great times and i love her like a sister. out of our whole friendship i think this is just the secund fight weve had and its a really stupid one too cus i didnt even do anything ! please help.. i dont no how to get herto talk to me or anythingg (link)
tell her how much you care about her and tell her how you don't wanna loose her as a friend, im sure she'll understand if not, then it was never meant to be a friendship =\


im going to this water park but i have my period so i should wear a tampon but how do i put it in nd what kind do i use? help ASAP (link)
you should use applicators, idk if you ever did use them before but if its your first use the applicators, you have to sit down while you put them in and kinda on a slant so it goes in right


this girl who im pretty good friends with in my opinion is mad at me. i really want to be her friend still but im not sure i can do anything about that because i dont know.. it all got so big, over one little thing. we get in more fights though then i do with my other friends and im tired of it. i dont know if i really want to get back into a friendship with her if this is going to continue but i love talking to her when we arent fighting. i dont know what to do. help? (link)
you should defintally talk to her, tell her that fighting over something so little is interfearing w/ your friendship, and i bet she would understand if you just talked to her, and try not to have any reasons to argue w/ her anymore, try to keep a good friendship ^_-


I really like this guy and he really likes me. The problem is, he lives about 3 hours away. So if we did go out I wouldn't be able to see him very often. I talk to him on the phone and online everyday. I'm thinking about just asking him out. Do you think our relationship could last? (link)
hmm, you kinda got a situation .. if ydid go out then you can try to see eachother more often .. if it doesn't work out you can be good friends and still like eachother theres nothing wrong w. that .. but it would be hard if you cant see him if y'know what i mean =\


i need some help. I'm in a fight with my best friend and i don't wanna become friends with her again, but now all these people like her and they're all turning against me because i won't be friends with her..meanwhile shes the one who said she dosen't wanna be friends again. She already had 3 of my friends turn against me and now i don't talk to them anymore. What should i do? I don't want more people turning against me cause of this (link)
if those 3 friends of yours were really good friends, they wouldn't have left your side like that .. if you don't wanna be friends with her then i can't make you, but don't play her game if yknow what i mean, dont turn people against her bc it will just make you look bad as well, try telling those 3 people how you dont want to loose them over a fight .. and if she doesnt wanna be firends w. you don't worry you guys will become friends again ^_^




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