[Name * Kayla]
[Age * 12 Almost 13]
[Status * Taken]
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okai well i got this cousin or second cousin and i dont knoe if its ok to think hes cute or not.....because when I see him i dont kno i think hes cute is it wrong to think that some1 in your family is cute? i dont want it to be disturbing but i wanted to knoe if its wrong to think someones "good lookin" if theyre your 2nd cuzin or just cuzin...pleasee help (link)
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Nothings wrong with that but you just can't go out with them or anything. I always say how cute my cousins are and tell them I love them. As long as you don't do anything like in relationship wise its fine. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
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Well if he does this stuff with you and he has a girlfriend what happens when you guys go out and he does it with another girl? I would tell him how you feel and if he really likes you the way he says he does he would go out with you. Hope I helped a bit!
-Kayla
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I live in a pretty big house and we have this room that like no one goes in beacause it is like a guest room and we rather never have guest... so when i was walking home from school one day i past a pet store and i absolutly loveee animals so i bought 1 dog 3 cats 2 hamsters and 15 fish... w. all mii money i got for mii conformation.... i dont know how to tell my parents about this.. do u have any ideas how i can tell them or how i can stop buying so many pets. signed Animalfreakx (link)
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You should tell them, when they find out you hid it from them you'll get in even deeper trouble. After you tell them talk to them about what you should do. Hope I helped.
-Kayla
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Omg...my best friend and I were absolutely fine until her old best friend came along and started complaining to her why they weren't best friends anymore. Today they are going to talk about it. I don't mean to be selfish or anything, but I don't want the relationship between me and my best friend to change! But she admitted to me that she might end up being best friends with her old best friend too. I REALLY don't want that. I don't think that it will work out with me having one best friend and her having two. It's hard to explain why. I've been stressing about this just about a week. Please help me! What should I do! (link)
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I think you should let her be friends with her old best friend. If she starts acting different you should tell her how you feel. Hope I helped.
-Kayla
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I really like this guy and he really likes me. The problem is, he lives about 3 hours away. So if we did go out I wouldn't be able to see him very often. I talk to him on the phone and online everyday. I'm thinking about just asking him out. Do you think our relationship could last? (link)
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If you truly love this guy, the relationship could last. Talking on the phone and online everyday deffinetly helps. Just try and see him and talk to him as often as you can and it could just work. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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alriitee..i`m c0nfused ab0ut my boyfriend..he says he l0ves me, but i haven`t talked to him in a while...we`ve been q0inq 0ut f0r ab0ut a year n0w and he d0esn`t call me..hardly ever unless i tell him t0. we talk 0nline and stuFf and we`ve d0ne s0me stuff 2qether and its qreat..but i d0n`t kn0 if he`s shy 0r what. but whenever i d0 talk t0 him he`s always happy t0 talk t0 me and stuff, and i`m always happy t0 talk t0 him and he say`s he l0ves me and all, but wh0 knows-- s0meone help. thankS in advance* (link)
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You should probably tell him to call you. If he loves you he'll understand.
-Kayla
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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help (link)
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Kiss her! Maybe shes too shy to kiss you, if she likes it you guys can do it more. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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Whenever i meet a new guy we always end up being pretty good friends. we get close and i feel so comfortable around them. this constantly happens and i can never get a boyfriend. what should i do? (link)
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Just tell them how you feel.
-Kayla
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im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are? (link)
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I'm also 12, and truthfully I haven't had sex either. They aren't lying they're just ready to have sex now. Don't do it unless you feel ready. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
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I think you should tell him to dump his girlfriend if he really liked you. But then again if he cheated on his girlfriend who says he wouldn't cheat on you? Hope I helped.
-Kayla
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it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me.. (link)
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You should probably be outgoing, but not to open and scare boys off. You should also try talking to more boys and even flirt a little. I hope I helped!
-Kayla
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how do you rate other peoples columns? if you tell me and i understand it i will rate....5's!! xox Emily
((i just picked a random catergory)) (link)
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When you get an answer back from someone there will be numbers 1-5. You click one of those numbers depending on how good there answer was, 1 being the worst, 5 being the best. You can also write things like "Thanks for the advice" and such. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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im a sophmore in high school but i moved and im starting a new school and i dont know ANYONE!!!! im sooooooooo nervous....i was jw if anyone had 2 do this?!?! (link)
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I moved this year to a total new school. For the first 2 months everyday I would cry. I would constantly say, "I WANT TO MOVE BACK" but now I have tons of great friends, a boyfriend, and a house a love more than anything. Truthfully, now I would never move back. Hope I helped.
-Kayla
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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old? (link)
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Well if you truly love him no. But then again, hes 4 years younger and not as mature.
-Kayla
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My boyfriend acts like he*s two different people, When we're on the phone, he's funny and happy and lovable, then when we see each other he's moody and we get into arguements! I don't know whats wrong with him, he just acts so weird! Can you help me?? I'd really appreciate it! Thx! x0 (link)
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You should tell your boyfriend how you feel. He'll understand, if not, you weren't meant to be.
-Kayla
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I have crush on this fine guy...lol...and he never seems t really notice me...and we used 2 be friends in 6th grade...so he knows me, but we havnt talked for 2 years and i feel sad...What should i do? (link)
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You should probably start up a conversation with him. Become friends again and then tell him how you feel.
-Kayla
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i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.
*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
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You should tell your friend how you feel, if shes a good friend she'll understand and most likely tell your crush good things about you.
-Kayla
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its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?
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-britski- (link)
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Yes, I've felt the same way, its probably something that happens naturally. Just talk to him about it, tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same.
-Kayla
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so i had sex with my boyfriend and stuff .. anyways .. a day or two after we did ithe got really sick .. and then he got rushed into the ER .. they said it was either std .. or UTI .. and i was the first person hed done it with .. and .. but i'm checked.. then he told me that like .. he could've gotten it from like .. lumberjack days .. idk something with a dumpster .. he didn't exactly tell me the whole story.. but ..the doctor said that it was probably something to do with the dumpster .. because of all the germs and stuff .. but now, he doesn't wanna hang out with me. He says he still loves me and likes me and stuff .. but he's not gunna do anything with me anymore. He thinks i'm diseased .. what should i do!? (link)
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Your boyfriend is probably nerveous about the whole situation but if he doesn't want to do anything with you and thinks your diseased you should dump him. If he truly loved you he wouldn't be afraid to do stuff with you and would care more about you. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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If I were you I wouldn't do anything with him. If he only like you for that I'd dump him and move on, hope I helped!
-Kayla
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