i am so confused. i have written just about the same thing a lil bit ago, buts its not working. and i need help.
*i really like this kid, but he really likes my friend and just has a crush on me but he really likes this girl (my friend) and she only likes him because he likes her. but i truly like him and he doesn't even realize what shes doing to him. but theyve went out 3 times and shes broken up with him for another guy and yet he keeps going back and i wanna tell him what shes doing but its so obvious and i wanna tell her i like him but yet i don't!! WHAT DO I DO??
*so confused
LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:37 pm: tell yer friend how yew feel..and ask her to bakk off for a while so yew culd get a chance. If shes a real friend den she'll do it and yew culd get yer chance on account of he has a crush on yew..But if she doesn`t den forget her!`nd If yew dun want to tell yer friend den make up sumthyn and sai omgg dys girl relle likez him 2 and she knoes wut yer doing and yer making her relle mad so i think yew shuld juss stop. y'knoe sumthyn creative like tht. Hope i helped ya :) rate me plz. [ LaDiixDeE4Ya's advice column | Ask LaDiixDeE4Ya A Question ]
c_r_y_s_t_a_lt_e_a_r_s answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 1:13 pm: OKeyy,...look if you trully like this guy and he likes your friend out of pleasure you need to tell your friend to back off because your not usin` him and hes soo stuck on her bkuz he won't go to you that happened to me once, this guy broke up with me 9 times and i kept goin` bakk to him and this oother guy trully liked me and i eventually went with the other guy because i was tired of getting used. Tell the guy why hes soo blind and tell him you really like him for him not just because you like him. He should listen and if not hes not worth it babe!
tell me if this helps!!!
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XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:47 am: all you can do is let him know why she likes him without hurting your friend..i mean if she was really a friend knowin u like him she wouldnt date him anyways..but maybe he just really likes her so he goes bakk..maybe he thinks shes playing hard to get..let him know u like him and she doesnt..then let nature take its course..you cant make him do anything..
BaBii_Dancer answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 2:28 am: Man you got it bad!! You really care about him and you don't want him to get hurt. Your friend only likes him because he likes her. Well, then she probably won't mind that you like him. Tell her the situation. If she really is a "friend" then she should understand and she would try to help you get him. You really care about him and I think that you should tell him. And if he doesn't feel the same way then it is his loss. I don't know what guys are looking for these days...seriously.
girdy_goo15 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 2:26 am: dear so confused,
well my friend is doin the same thing rite now.
so just tell your friend how you feel for him.
if your friend is truly your friend then she'll understand. but you could also go and talk to him. so both worked for me but i wish u the best.
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