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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do??
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yeh um.. its kinda like how ever u feel ur comfortable with.. in my eyes, i think making out is fine n all but sex at 13 is taking it too far.. im the same age n like a 16 yr old -_- nd if he wanted ta go that far, i honestly woodnt cus idk im just not like that and woodnt do sumthing like that at my age.. but like i sed making out is one thing and isnt bad at all.. hope i helped? =/
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If I were you I wouldn't do anything with him. If he only like you for that I'd dump him and move on, hope I helped!
-Kayla
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hmm .. if he only likes you for a blow job and that shit don't do it .. but y'know guys will say anything just to get "stuff" aha .. so you gotta be careful = i think 13 is WAY too young bc im 13 and i'd never do that .. just make the right choice, if i were you i'd say no .. he could be using you .. =
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you do what you feels right and what you feel comfortable doing! If he wanst you to do stuff that your not comfortable doing then just say your not read!! If he is a good bf then he will understand!
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--i think u should do what u think! no one should influence u on what u do! if you SERIOUSLY think u are ready to do these type of things with him then go for it.. just dont do something your not ready for!
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You should probably stay away from sex, ur just a little 2 young. Hes not, u r. Besides that, I dont c a problem.
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13 is really young to be doing anything sexual, you should just take things slow with him. and if he doesn't respect your choice to move slow then forget him, you don't need a guy that pressures you into doing things you don't want to
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only do sutff u feel comfortable doing..and if he loves u and respects u then he wudnt rush into anything..also tell him ur not ready if ur not
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Well, it's clearly obvious that you're not ready if you're asking about it. If you like him, you shouldn't have to do stuff with him RIGHT away. You may feel as if you're ready, but you just might not be. But just take it one step at a time. Kiss..and if you're ready for more, than do it. Just be careful about it and make sure he's the one you really want to do this stuff with 'cause some guys are assholes and they'll just do stuff with you and than ignore you. Trust me, it's happened to me. but anyways, you need to tell him that you seriously haven't kissed a person. And if you want to kiss him, than do so. Don't worry about if you're bad or not, it comes naturally.
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Well, sorry hun, but if this boy wants you to do all this stuff that your uncomfortable with, he sucks. if u want to make out with him or give him a blow job, do it, but be smart about it! maybe u should talk to him about how your feeling and how much experience you really have had and what he expects you to do. you can do with him what YOU want and what you feel comfortable with.
xoxo
ali
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okay heres my lovely advice! i think that being 13 isnt to young for anything if u feel that u have found the right guy and tht u use protection for EVERYTHING ... sex may be a ellittle to far for only being 13 but everything se you could do isnt to bad.. for example making out and giving a kid a hand job would be perfect to start thing's out with guy.. because if u go right for giving him head and stuff.. he might think that your "easy" and dont want an acual relationship.. so take it slow and see where that gets you! hope i helped!
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katie
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Theres never a barrier between people u love of being "too young" its really up to you and how you feel when ur with this guy..giveing him ur kiss is about a big of deal as sex-b/c u want it to be great and special when usually its not!! Kissing is a big thing and if u have doubts about doing it or wanting to do it then dont. If this guy wnts a blow job from you and to make out then he probbably just figures that ull have sex with him if u do all of that with him, u see my point?? Well what i would do is talk it out with him and tell him when the time is right i will but not now-or if u feel it in your gut(a feeling that cannot be described) Just lean in and give him a peck on the lips, just for starters. Then walk away or something so he wants more of what he got-then like u know the next day do it twice (peck ont he lips) and do it until u get comfortable with kissing him and then u will be more comfortable to make out with him-the best advice i could give to u is to be yourself and follow your heart!! hope i help u and goodluck!!
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You should do whatever you are comfortable with. And if you want to make-out than go ahead and od it. If you feel nervous tell him and if he is that expierenced he will be able to help you out a little. After you get the hang of it than it's a piece of cake. With the sex issue i say you wiat..just b/c of the age differnece.
But just do w/e you are comfortable with!
Hope I Helped........Alina
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dont let him force u into n e thing..! wen ur ready to make out n kiss n do stuff then go ahead.. but it seems as hes just lookin 4 sumthin else.. but u do wat u feel lyk ur ready to do! but dont let no 1 force u into n e thing.. n dont wry about not noeing wat to do.. cuz sum guys lyk gurls tat havent done much.. but sum guys dont .. just b careful.. gud luk.. xoxo angie
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whatever you feel comfortable with and what you are ready for is what you should do.
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Well, me being someone that started to young, I think a few kisses and hugs and stuff like that is always fine no matter what age. But full out sex and blowjobs and anything of that sort should be wated for.I had sex with my ex at the age of 14 and it was the worst mistake I have ever made! After we had sex we couldn't stop, that became the only reason we saw each other. So, my adviec for you is to wait for sex, kissing is fine, but just tell the guy that you would like to wait for marriage for sex. If he gets pissed then hes not the right person in the frist place to be doing things like that with anyways. Hope I helped alittle!
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its sounds to me like your not ready for anything other than making out .. to be completely honest i think you should rethink and be sure hes really not just using you first - but dont worry about him having more experience than you .. if he truly cares he will help you feel more comfortable in how you kiss which isnt really a large problem .. i think you should wait off a little before you get into oral sex - it could hurt your reputation very badly and cause you a lot of stress - see where time takes you and remember there is nothign wrong with making out or kissing but make sure he really does truly like you xox good luck!
<3 alyssa
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