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Hello!! I'm Angie. I am 14 years old and a female [obviously]. Well, I signed up for this site only for one reason; so I can help other people. I've always enjoyed doing so and I've been told I'm very good at helping other people. If you ever need advice, you can IM me any time or ask me on here! Thanks.


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I had sex with my boyfriend 2 nights ago (4 times)and yesterday afternoon i started bleeding in that area. I'm not supposed to get my period for another week .. and im still bleeding..

can sex cause u to start your period early?
or is it because i was having sex for only the second time and i got my cherry popped?

why am i still bleeding? (link)
It's most likely that your cherry has popped.. Thankfully, the bleeding from it being broken or popped won't last that long, maybe for only a few days. Don't worry, it's nothing extreme!


whats a orgy? how do you get one? (link)
An orgy is a group of people [4 or more] that basically have sex at the same time.


ok i'm dieing my hair blonde at the end of the summer. what are some good products for dieing your hair? (link)
Well!! If you're dying it blonde, there's most likely bleach in it, so really it's not good at all. But.. usually hairdye comes with a special conditioner, so use that and that'll help your hair look healthier and also keep the colour. What I'd suggest too so you're hair doesn't seem so fried is maybe some Pantene ProV. Or however it's spelt. That stuff works! Ha..But yes, just use the best conditioners that you can find or maybe that you already have and it'll make your hair healthier and more natural.


Can u get an orgasm while just being fingered? They other night i was being fingered by my boyfriend, and he asked me if I had just had an orgasm. I honestly don't know what an orgasm is or how to tell if i've had one...

Can someone please tell me how to tell if i've had one and how to tell when im having one? (link)
Yes, you can get an orgasm while being fingered.

An orgasm is a strong feeling of pleasure and by a series of contractions of the muscles of the "down there".

SO.... if you had those feelings, it's kind of like.. a tingly feeling and usually right before you "climax" [another word for orgasm], It's hard to explain actually.. it's like.. not exactly PAINFUL..but it almost feels that it HURTS but yet it feels good..does that make sense? lol.. But yes.. it's just this really weird feeling that you can't really control. So.. if you had what I've descriped above, than it's most likely that you've had an orgasm.

Hope this helps!



ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
Well, it's clearly obvious that you're not ready if you're asking about it. If you like him, you shouldn't have to do stuff with him RIGHT away. You may feel as if you're ready, but you just might not be. But just take it one step at a time. Kiss..and if you're ready for more, than do it. Just be careful about it and make sure he's the one you really want to do this stuff with 'cause some guys are assholes and they'll just do stuff with you and than ignore you. Trust me, it's happened to me. but anyways, you need to tell him that you seriously haven't kissed a person. And if you want to kiss him, than do so. Don't worry about if you're bad or not, it comes naturally.


im leaving town for about 2 weeks with my best friend and ive had a boyfriend for about 6 months and im gunna miss him so much while im gone what should i do before i leave with him to make sure we can make it through the 2 weeks without seeing eachother easily .. we havent really done anything to much we've made out and sbugggled and a lil bit more but nothing major give me some helppp please im leaving friday 7-30-04 (link)
Well, if you trust him, than you shouldn't think he'll find someone new or anything. If you really trust him, than you shouldn't worry. For the next 2 weeks, if you're able to call him up, than do it. Otherwise, if you can't get ahold of him while your gone, before you leave, maybe the day before or so, you two should really hang out and when you have to go you should tell him how you feel about him, and if you trust him, you should tell him that too. That'll make him feel really good and make him miss you even more! And maybe a wittle kissy too! :-p


my friends r still mad at me and i asked them why and they will not tell me the school year is coming up and i do not want to be without any friends i want to have friends and i want some of the same friends but they wont talk to me someone help me plz how can i keep them as my friends?
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I've had the same problems before. Just next time you see them, try not to get mad, just ask them nicely what you did wrong and why their mad at you. If they don't answer you or say, "you should know" or "Because!", than they probly don't have any reasons TO be mad at you. Friends sometimes get like that. Just try your hardest to get it out of them. If they're still not talking to you by the school year, then maybe you're better off without them! If this does happen and you still don't have them by the time school starts, you'll make new friends anyway.. All's I can say you do is try and talk to them and sit down and think of something that maybe you did do that might have pissed them off, if you honestly can't think of something, than you seriously need to talk to them and tell them how you feel.


im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
Hey. Don't worry, i'm bisexual. If my parents found out, they'd be shocked at first too. But they're not homophobic. But anyways, I don't think it's wrong to love someone so much but not ever be able to express it. Don't feel ashamed. The best thing to do is tell this girl that you like that you are lesbian..see how she reacts. If she reacts just fine and doesn't mind it, then you should tell her how you feel about her. She'll understand.


ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!! (link)
I also have a kid that continuously [sp?] asks me out and is all over me too. I know, it does feel bad since you have a boyfriend. You just need to sit him down and talk to him. Explain to him that you have a boyfriend and that you're not going to cheat on him and that's just wrong. Tell him if he likes you, that's just fine but you're not going to risk your relationship with your boyfriend for another guy. Just explain to him how you feel. Hope this helps.


I've decided to start using tampons because I get my period every two or three weeks and it lasts for a week and I dont wanna sit home for a whole week for most of the summer and do nothing. Well the other day I got my period so I used a tampon and when I took it out, it hurt. Is this normal? This question is to the girls so please help me out! (link)
When I first started using tampons, it hurt just a bit and to take out. So I suppose it may be normal. Also, at the end of your period when it starts to bleed a lot less, using a tampon may hurt to take out because it's not full with blood, and some parts or most of it is still dry. If this happened at the end of your period, on the last 1 or 2 days maybe you should just used pads so it's less painful. Another reason that it may have hurt you when you pulled it out is because since your new to tampons you're not used to it, or you could have inserted it wrong! I hope this helps!





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