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ok..i have a boyfriend right now but theres this kid that really likes me and it gets really annoying cause hes always saying how much he likes me and even though i have a boyfriend he still asks me out and stuff and it makes me feel really bad what do i do?! help!!
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i would tell him to piss off or something like that..and tell him ill only be your friend.. becaues theres no way ill be dumping my bf just to go with you that may sound kind of rude but you need to let him know that and hopefully that will get the point to him because he needs to know when its okay to hit on you and when its not and right now its not-trix
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well tell the kid the truth.... but let him down easy and if he doesnt go away... call the cops... no not really (lol), if he doesnt stop then tell him to stop asking u out n u dont like him n that way.
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Simply tell him..."Listen right now I have a boyfriend and I really like him. I don't want to ruin this so back off." And if it doesnt stop u need to go to an adult...to some extreme this could be harassment. Hope this helps... Much Love.KeLL.RaTeMe.
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Ok talking to guy about his behavior is a great idea. If you can avoid slamming the door in his face, that would be good because you never know if you might really want to be with this guy someday. I know it sounds weird and unlikely, but you could need his friendship in the future.
If he's hanging around every corner, meeting you at lunch and on the bus, then you need to get rid of him completely. Every once in a while is ok, but constantly hounding you is not good.
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Hey hun,
wat i think u should do is to tell this guy that he REALLY needs to back off! and that if he doesnt ur gunna get ur bf to talk to him! guys like that get scared shitless of bf's!! also jus b like hey i hav a bf i love him wer not breaking up get over it! u dont deserve to feel bad cus of this kid! anyways good luck with the dude! hope i helped! write me sumtime!
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I also have a kid that continuously [sp?] asks me out and is all over me too. I know, it does feel bad since you have a boyfriend. You just need to sit him down and talk to him. Explain to him that you have a boyfriend and that you're not going to cheat on him and that's just wrong. Tell him if he likes you, that's just fine but you're not going to risk your relationship with your boyfriend for another guy. Just explain to him how you feel. Hope this helps.
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Hi, you need to take him to one side and have a quite word in his ear. Private, One-to-one. Explain to him the situation and that you are happy with your boyfriend and are uncomfortable with the situation he is putting you in. Be polite and sensitive but at the same time definite and assertive so he's left quite clear. Do it now, theirs no point putting it off, good luck!
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tell him that you have a boyfriend and you are happy with him. keep saying no and maybe try avoiding him. please send me a message if you need more help
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Do you like this kid? If you don't then tell him nicly to back off. Tell him that you have a boyfriend an you like you BF very much. Say that you like this boy as a friend and nothing more. If he can't except that, then he is a stalker! Then just agnor him, he will get the picture eventually!
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I think you should nicely say that you are in a relationship right now.. although its sweet of him to ask you don't like him like that and you won't go out with him now...
hope i helped
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Try not to be too harsh on the kid, but be firm with him. Look him straight in the eyes and tell him that you've got someone and there's no point in asking you out because you're not breaking up with him!! He should understand, and well, if it hurts his feelings, well, it's life, he'll get over it!!
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Tell him you're sorry but you cant because you have a boyfriend that you like very much and you dont want him right now and tell him that maybe if you would ever break up with him he might have a chance, not saying that he would just tell him that so hes off your case or something
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