Member Since: July 25, 2004
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Last Update: August 3, 2004
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this guy ive been dating w/ for a few weeks now.. but he acts like he doesnt even know im his g/f.. he NEVER calls me, and when he does he's so quiet..i havent even heard from him in over a week..its pathetic. id call him but im just thinking this is a bad relationship. should i break up with him? (link)
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Maybe try talkin to him and see if he really likes u and if u rly like him then maybe he cud try talkin more..maybe hes shy in relationships.. hope i helped
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I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play? (link)
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Only play if u want..u shudn't feel pressured or forced to play..i mean if u wana play maybe start practicing down at the park or something..It's no ones right to tell u that ur guna play only do it if u want
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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
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show the kid whos boss. Maybe pretend to pick up the phone and say im calling ur mom if u dont calm down and maybe he'll stop..also maybe put something on tv he wud like and he'll get distracted by the tv and watch that..also try putting him in his room if hes too out of control
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hey, if you have cut yourself on the arm really deep 3 times and your parents found out so you cant do it again, you do on your chest a couple of times because you really need to but it was only a couple of times and you feel like your gonna die if you feel relieved after does it mean ill end up killing myself? is it a major thing? like do i have serious problem here? ive only done it a couple of times but i cant control myself not when i feel like i really need to. help? please? anyone? (link)
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Cutting is a bad thing to do but it does relief pain...maybe try seeing a therapist for easier ways to relief pain..Cutting yourself will kill you if you take it to far and keep doing it. Try stopping cuz im shure no one wants you dead..My opinion is it could be a problem..hope i helped` Sara
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What do i do...theres this guy whos one yr older than me and he is the most gorgeaus guy ever! but he likes this grl who doesn't like him (i've talked to her about it) and i rlly like him...b/c theres more to him other than his good looks...i want him to be mine rlly badly but i dun know how to tell him b/c he might think im stupid...how do i tell him how i feel...help me!! i rlly like him (link)
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Maybe find a day to hang out with him and you can try telling him how you feel and you'd like to be with him. If he likes you too he should understand and maybe it will work out and you could hook up! hope i helped
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Okay im not fat now but i want to lose weight in certain places likes my butt because most ppl like big butts but for some reason i dont n the other place is my tummi i sorta kinda have a belly but thats onli after i eat but then if i eat dinner i will then when i wake up i dont have it and the last place is my thighs so if u guys have ne exercise other then go to the gym that well help me out alot thanks! (link)
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Maybe try scrunches and situps..also try walking more and swimming..that might help
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Okay-- there is this kid.. who liked me for about a year now. Every time he's signing off. .he says *iloveyou* an if i dont say it back, he gets all pissed and says stuff liek "Wat you dont love me anymore" so then i feel like i have to. Cuz one time, he cut himself because he heard that i had started to like someone else. hes one of my best friends.. but idont want anything more. And i reallly REALLY dont want to hurt him. .. help.
~ dont wanna *love* (link)
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ahh this is kinda tough..well if hes guna hurt him self maybe ttrry and tell him u only love him as a friend and u dont want anything between u to change and u never want him to hurt himself..and if he cared for u(which it sounds) then he would understand that he is kinda keeping you from seeing other people...hope i helped..goodluck
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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Maybe try talkin to ur dad about ur boyfriend and find out why he doesnt like him. Also tell ur dad what u feel about ur boyfriend and ur happy with him. Maybe say dad if u want to see me happy then let me be with my boyfriend who makes me happy! hope i helped and good luck talking to ur dad
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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Depending on if your ready or not. 14 is a young age to get pregnant thought but have sex whenever your ready and you've found the right guy
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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Youd shoudln't rush anything. 1. dont be afriad of being a bad kisser..maybe let him lead 2. have safe sex and only do it if ur ready and 3. wait for the perfect guy..dont jus find someone and do it you should wait..hope i helped!
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well you see i really like this guy but he really likes my friend but just has a crush on me but this girl he really likes only likes him because hes there and liking her but he doesn't realize it but i really like him. are there any ways to get him to like me more or make him see what shes doing? i mean they've went out 3 times and she dumps him for another guy everytimebut he still goes back for more!! plz answer me! thanx (link)
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maybe tell him how u feel and hang out with him more..also tell ur friend that she shudn't stay with him if she keeps dumping him and running back to him tell her she needs to find someone she can stay with
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Well i puke whenever i eat sumthin or drink something..Sometimes i totally just do it on purpose..My mom thinks im bulimic..I think im fat and i want to become anerix or belimic or both..What should i do to loose weight and if i should do that..? (link)
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How much do u weigh? if u rly are that fat maybe try a diet or do sit ups and crunches cuz puking will not help it will only make u sick
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hey. i have REALLY short legs. &its really annoying. i know this sounds weird, but is there anyway to make them longer? i just hate having such short legs because i can't find pants! if you help me i'll rate you! (link)
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I dont think u can make them longer..maybe if u have a lot of calcium ur bones will grow..heals also help and maybe get ur pants hemd
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Hey everyone. I'm a 16 yr old female and I've been living with a weight issue all of my life. Both of my parents were big people and of course I ended up the same as them. I've been teased a lot my whole life because of it, people do it without realizing how much it hurts. Right now I'm about 5'7-5'8 and weigh about 190lbs. I really want to lose weight but every time I try, I can't keep up the motivation. I try not eating junk food, I don't drink soda, but I still cant manage to lose the weight. I walk a lot, but the problem is I guess that I don't have people that are behind me in this. My mom keeps buying junk food, and if it's here I'll end up eating it and feel bad for it afterwards. I really need help in doing this alone but I don't know how. I'm hoping someone can help me before it gets worse. I'm hoping to lose a significant amount of weight maybe before next summer. I rate also, thank you so much. (link)
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Maybe u should try swimming more and maybe crunches and situps..also try a diet maybe the bread diet or the atkins diet or the dr.phil diet..maybe even the burning cardiact diet..also try eating even more healthy..hope i helped n good luck
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im leaving town for about 2 weeks with my best friend and ive had a boyfriend for about 6 months and im gunna miss him so much while im gone what should i do before i leave with him to make sure we can make it through the 2 weeks without seeing eachother easily .. we havent really done anything to much we've made out and sbugggled and a lil bit more but nothing major give me some helppp please im leaving friday 7-30-04 (link)
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If u two are really inlove and trust eachother i dont think theres any worry about either of u cheating on eachother..maybe a way to get thru it wud be bring something to remember him by..hope i helped
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whats a orgy? how do you get one? (link)
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orgy is an orgasim and u usually get one when u have sex or masterbate
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does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help! (link)
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maybe a trampoline might help
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would it be bad to be a pimp for halloween??? (link)
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no
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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only do sutff u feel comfortable doing..and if he loves u and respects u then he wudnt rush into anything..also tell him ur not ready if ur not
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so i had sex with my boyfriend and stuff .. anyways .. a day or two after we did ithe got really sick .. and then he got rushed into the ER .. they said it was either std .. or UTI .. and i was the first person hed done it with .. and .. but i'm checked.. then he told me that like .. he could've gotten it from like .. lumberjack days .. idk something with a dumpster .. he didn't exactly tell me the whole story.. but ..the doctor said that it was probably something to do with the dumpster .. because of all the germs and stuff .. but now, he doesn't wanna hang out with me. He says he still loves me and likes me and stuff .. but he's not gunna do anything with me anymore. He thinks i'm diseased .. what should i do!? (link)
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Maybe get tested again and proove nothing is wrong with you..and if he loved you and hes a good boyfriend then he shud trust u!
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