LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:40 pm: I think it is too young, but technically it is not based on age. It is based on maturity. If you feel you are old enough and responcilbe enough to deal with the complications that may come along with sex, like pregnancy and STDs than you may be ready. But I doubt any 14 year old is ready for any of that stuff. Also, if you do decide, remember to use protection! Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
volcombabe answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:39 pm: you're physically mature, so therefore, you're able to have sex. but that doesn't mean you should. if you have an extremely strong relashonship with this person, you could, but first I'd check into things first, like results and outcomes. and don't use the pill, go for the rubber. make sure the male in the relashonship has one, or a few, condoms, and make sure he uses it right. [ volcombabe's advice column | Ask volcombabe A Question ]
Pink_Flamingo answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:22 pm: Yes, definitely. A 14 year old should not be having sex. 14 is to young to have to deal with the consequences like Pregnancy and STDs. There's no guarantied birth control. [ Pink_Flamingo's advice column | Ask Pink_Flamingo A Question ]
Tori_Dori answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:20 pm: Only if you think you're ready, don't just have sex cause everyone else is doing it.But in some ways...yeah, it is too young to have sex.Hope I helped!*rate*
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
Kaylax3 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:07 pm: It depends, if your ready and have find the right person it shouldn't be but you always have that chance of becoming pregnant at a young age so you may want to wait.
Sara8047 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:59 pm: Depending on if your ready or not. 14 is a young age to get pregnant thought but have sex whenever your ready and you've found the right guy [ Sara8047's advice column | Ask Sara8047 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:53 pm: It depends on the person. When I was 14, I was too young. I wasn't ready.
The only person who can tell if they're ready is the person. If they can take all the risks and everything, think everything over and decide that it's a good idea, then they may very well be ready.
I have a friend who lost her virginity at 14, and she was ready. Some people are ready sooner than others. *Shrug*
I would really urge the person to wait 'til they're legal before have sex, but it's not really a HUGE issue.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Just_Being_True answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:46 pm: Personally, I think that it is too young...but if you have found the "right" guy and you feel ready than go for it!
Just make sure that you use protection!
knowitall answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:39 pm: Yes, Personally, I would not have sex until I was out of all the schooling, because I have way too many goals for me to screw up now, from diseases, and pregnancy! But If they feel that It is the right person, then it is ok, as long as they use protection! [ knowitall's advice column | Ask knowitall A Question ]
Sagittarius03 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:36 pm: in my opinion, yes, but i know people who did it when they were 12. so whatever floats ur boat is right. just go with the flow, but dont do it b/c u think you have to, or ur forced to. make sure the guy isnt using you and uses protection. its the most sacred thing that u have, and you dont want to lose it to a guy that doesnt even care about you. you want it to be special. -PA [ Sagittarius03's advice column | Ask Sagittarius03 A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:35 pm: to me yea but tahts just me! lol *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
babycakes9357 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:31 pm: I lost my virginity when I was 14 and im fine so i dont think that your too young..Its really all about what you feel inside if u find a guy that u are comfortable with and treats you right and that u can be with for awhile i would do it-u will know when the time comes wether or not u want to do it...hope i helped got ne other questions ask me i can help [ babycakes9357's advice column | Ask babycakes9357 A Question ]
MiZOreo24 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:20 pm: Umm yes...i dont mean to sound like a mom but... 1. When you get married and your in the bed with yur new hubby your goin to think of the time you did it when you were 14 with wats his name and u want yur first time to be special not to do it for pleasure but to do it for love
2. if this guy goes and tells his friend your going to get the reputation of a slut And be known as the one nite stand
3. If he really loves you he'll wait till the nite of your wedding
HoPe i helped i dont want to sound like a snob just wanting to give my opinion [ MiZOreo24's advice column | Ask MiZOreo24 A Question ]
x6xkelx9x answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:14 pm: in a way i do, but then i dont. it all depends. you need to make sure that :
1) hes not just using you
2) you really love him ( u dont want to waste ur first time, u want it to be special )
3) u think of all the outcomes of ur decision
4) u really really want to
5) ur ready and if u do protected
6) u arent being forced into it
its really up to you, but do what u want just be careful and good luck [ x6xkelx9x's advice column | Ask x6xkelx9x A Question ]
Lizzy answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:12 pm: Personally, i don't believe in premarital sex, but you want to make sure that you found the right guy, in that case age would just be another number
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hismndrismxO answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 8:06 pm: it depends , alotta people start having sex around that age but you have to think of the consequences you may have to deal with. If you do have sex you should make sure its with someone you really care about , and make sure you use protection.
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