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does havign sex for your fgirst time really hurt as bad as people say it does...lol... (link)
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um..if your cherry isnt already popped then yes it will..the first couple times it does, because it tears ur skin (ur cherry)and it stretches it out...and if you wear super tampons, and you thot that they hurt when you took them out, you're definatly gonna feel pain during intercourse...but its not forever, just the first couple times...hope I helped!
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ok..so i've been going out with this guy for a few weeks, and he's a really great guy and all..and all of his friends say that he's crazy about me. but i dont think i exactly feel the same for him. he seems more on the friendish side. i dont want to lead him on or anything, but i dont want to hurt him. i also dont want all of his friends to hate me.what do i do?!
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Uhmmm...Talk to him..and tell him how you feel, if you really consider him as a friend more than a boyfriend, then it would be better to break it off before he becomes like...madly in love with you. And explain to his friends what the deal is, and talk to them about it too! I hope I helped you, Good Luck!
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Aight well listen up because im only gonna type this up once lol . Well see i Like this girl as a friend as as more see i like her even more now after i spent more time with her over the summer. But she is like in love with some gay guy. She wolnt look at ne other guy she belives that most defanetly that is the one but yet the two wolnt go out even tho they like each other and idk if she wants to be with him. All i want to know is how can i make her happy?
Singhed-- Jimmy (link)
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hmm...Talk to her about it, if you really believe that this guy she likes isnt for her, tell her how you feel about it. She will listen to your opinion, and respect you for talking to her about it. If she doesnt want to be with him, she wont be...unless she's stupid. But I hope I helped you, Let her know how you feel! Good Luck!
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Aight well look i really like this girl ut she likes sum1 ese but she dosnt want to admit it and that guy loves her to death. She says she dosnt want to get hurt or hurt him. Well see thats all fine and dandy, but when i first asked her out was a while ago (like near christmas) she said ya that would be awsome, but she turned me down because she just broke up with my friend. Then i ask her out and she had a boyfriend. Now i tell her i like her and she says she likes me but why wolnt she date me instead of him?
sighned-- Antsplague (link)
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Hmm...Maybe you should talk to her, tell her how you feel and let her know that you care for her. If she still turns you down, maybe she's not the right one for you. But keep trying, she mite have a place for you in her heart! I hope I helped, and dont give up!
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how do i tell my freinds that i am goin away i will miss them but it is for the best of everyone i geuss i am weird and i think i am goin to by in a very peaceful place soon if not by some one but by myself to bad i could never fall in love ......farewell i am locked up they wont letme out .. (link)
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Hmm...If you were going away I would let them know gently so they dont cry too hard! and have a going away party! But I know you're not talking about that....so where is it that you're going? And I'm sure you could fall in love, if you gave it time...but, if I didnt answer your question right...IM me at o0x0bite me0x0o and I'll help you some more...Hope I helped! I care about you, so dont do anything stupid!
-Lynz-
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theres this girl who mean alot to me even tho she dont like me and that is cool and i want her to listen ot me but she wont she just brings up stupid shit like when i said i hate her and i hope she dies i didnt mean it i was just pissed i wouldnt want ne thign ever ot happen to her i neeed an answer on how to get her to listen to ym appoligy i even know im a dick and i shouldnt be so mean if she reads this i swear to god i am sorry for what i did and i wish you would just accept my appoligy and fogive and forget it plz help me find out what to do
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Hmm...It sounds like you were pretty mean to her, If it was me I wouldnt forgive or forget because I hate to be called names...It just hurts my feelers, but thats me. You could maybe give her some space for a while to let her cool off a bit. Wait until school starts, and if yall have classes together, just start out talkin small, and then some. I hope I helped, good luck!
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Why do you have a advice column...does it make you feel good to know people want your help? Just wondering. (link)
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Yes it does...Cuz I feel needed...thank you for asking...who asked you?
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i have a problem of keeping a thought during class, i often daydream and get off task, and im always forgettin himework, is there anything i can do to fix this? (link)
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There is a possibility that you have ADD, I went to my therapist to see what all was wrong with me and they asked me all these different questions, like, do you have a hard time keeping task? Do you daydream? Do you forget things you were supposed to do? and I said yes to everyone of those...So, I have ADD, So go to your local doctor, or get a therapist, and get some medications to help that!
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Well my stress is coming from my family life and my relationship with my boyfriend. I don't know why I get so stressed out, but it just happens...like I just cry about things that I should not or usually would not cry about. I am not even sure it is stress that is happening to me, but I think it is! I try to tell my mom not to yell at me so much b/c I just don't know what is wrong with me but she just keeps on about things that I don't feel like hearing about. I get yelled at when she is stressed and that makes me stressed. My boyfriend...I don't know, maybe it is my family life problems that makes me stressed with him but we get in fights often and I just can't take it anymore. I mean we do love each other and can make it through the bumps that we come accross, but yeah! Sometimes I just want to kill myself. I hope I have explained myself better...what should I do and what is going to happen in the long run? Thank You (link)
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1st off...Dont kill yourself!!! There is nothing in your life that is so bad to make you kill urself! Well It seems like you have depression. Talk to her and tell her not to yell, but talk. And maybe try to understand where your mom is coming from. Have you talked to your boyfriend? Because having someone to talk to is always good, like a best friend. In the long run, if this happens everyday your grades will slip, and later on you will fall into a deep depression. Talk to your mom about going to see a Therapist...I go to one for Anger Management which goes with Depression and that ties into Anxiety...So I am on Zoloft, ask about that if you go to a Therapist! I hope I helped and if you ever need to talk, or if you need to talk about finding a therapist, IM me at o0x0bite me0x0o.
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I have been under a lot of stress latly. What will happen in time, if the stress keeps up? (link)
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well, I cant fully answer that question unless I know what kind of stress. Give me details, what is causing you stress. For example, changes in your body, too many expectations, communication breakdowns, family breakups, keeping up with whats popular...
Stress is an emotional feeling caused by the pressures of everyday living. Its unavoidable, its normal, everyone experiances it! Too much stress can drive you nuts! Its common to react to stressful situations in a negative way, espesially if you dont know what to do. here's some examples of what can happen when you're stressed out...
1)No intrest in school.
2)Arguing with family and friends.
3)Being the ultimate perfectionist.
4)Hiding from reality.
5)Uncontrolled Emotions
Try to figure our how much stress you can take, when your brain feels like its on overload, take a break. relax. use positive methods to get a grip on stress.
If this didnt answer your question, ask me again, with details and the reason why you're so stressed and i'll give you more answers! I hope I helped & I hope you get over all of your stress issues!
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OK I really need help. I am trying to find great deals on jeans, but i want them to be a little lose and not so tight. Where is a good place to find jeans like that?!?
~*Jersey gal*~ (link)
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JCPennies is a good place, also Dillards, lol, Wall-Mart...lol, it depends on what size you are, if a 3 is too tight, go with a 5
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I just found out that if you have anal sex that if you have anal sex then your not a virgin! is that really true? and..i wanna no if a guy cums while his penis is in a gurl (during anal) can she still get pregnant..and if the girl gets cum on her front side and doesn't whip it off right away can she get pregnant? hurry I need to know!!!
PLEASE I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!! (link)
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lol, i told you that you couldnt get preg. on AIM stacie! lol...You cant get pregnant, and you dont lose ur virginity, you can only lose your virginity if the penis enters the vagina!!!
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Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong? (link)
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If you're having discomfort then maybe they're not in far enough. Maybe you should use a smaller tampon. I never had discomfort when I first started using tampons. Some times your vaginal canal is too narrow for tampons & it just takes longer for your body to get used to them, but if there is discomfort over 3 months (about 3 periods) I would see a Gynecologist or stop using tampons and use sanitary pads.
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Umm...I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and he says I am controlling him, but I don't really think I am the one controlling him...if anything he is controlling...but I can live with it...how do I know that I am being to controlling or how do I loosing up and let him have his freedom(if he needs it)...I mean when I look in the direction of a guy he thinks I have fucked him...what should I do...I really love him and would do anything for our relationship. (link)
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If he indeed needs his freedom, maybe you two should spend some time apart. Sometimes too much time is bad, you tend to annoy eachother and need your space. To maybe not control so much, on a friday night, when he is watching tv, or playing video games, or hanging with his buds...Go out and spend some time with your friends, dont insist that he spend all his time with you, he's a guy, and needs to be "macho" and to a guy, hanging out with your girlfriend all the time, isnt exactly the coolest thing! And when he thinks you are cheating on him, he is probably scared to lose you. But I hope I answered your question, and good luck!
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Ok, I looked up all the symptoms for yeast infections and I all them things have been happening to me too. Ya know, well, I have been like feeling pain during intercourse and burning down below...and I was wondering...if I have a yeast infection can anyone else get it from me? (link)
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Although Yeast Infections are not Sexually Transmitted Diseases they can occasionally be spread from one sexual partner to the other. however, the partner of someone who has a yeast infection does not automatically have to be treated.
You may want to go see a Doctor or Gynecologist, to get some medicine for this, it can be very irritating and painful! If you do not see a doctor, the yeast infection can get worse
Some girls may react to certain dyes or perfumes in soaps, bath gels or lotions, sanitary products, and laundry detergents. When the reaction causes irritation, that can set the stage for a yeast infection. Your best bet is to steer clear of perfumed products and to use mild and fragrance-free products when possible.
To help keep your vagina clean and dry, try switching to all-cotton underwear and make sure you carefully dry off after you shower. If you can, wear cotton underwear to bed or don't wear any, and always wash and thoroughly dry your underwear before wearing them. Don't lounge around in a wet bathing suit after a swim in the pool and avoid jeans or pantyhose that are too tight.
I hope I helped you in anyway!
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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Yes, Personally, I would not have sex until I was out of all the schooling, because I have way too many goals for me to screw up now, from diseases, and pregnancy! But If they feel that It is the right person, then it is ok, as long as they use protection!
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um... my boyfriend we have been dating for uh 2 months.. and thats durign the summer ... im afraid when we get back to school in like 5 days hes gonna think im flirting w/ other guys... but the thing is IM SO IN LOVE W/ HIM... i mean we r like perfect for each other...and what am is supposed to do stay away from my guy friends.. cuz iono..i love him to death and if i lose him iono i think i might die...ya noe?
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I'm positive you wont die! but, it may feel like you want to. Assure him that you wouldnt cheat on him, and maybe pay a little more attention to him during school, and not as much to your friends...maybe he'll see that you love him as much as you do and that you wouldnt cheat on him, if he suspects that you're cheating on him. Tell him the truth, if he doesnt believe you, I guess he isnt the one because a relationship is BASED on trust, and if you dont have trust, you have nothing. I hope you and your boyfriend have a happy relationship & that everything is ok when school comes around!
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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It is possible, when you're pregnant, sometimes you have "spotting" which is a very light period. I would get a home pregnancy test, I reccomend EPT, for the best results.
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There have been questions about hickeys on here, but what exactly are they? (link)
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A hickey is actually broken blood vessels beneath the skin. It's sort of like a bruise, if you got hit with a baseball and the impact broke the blood vessels. But instead of being caused by a foul ball, it's caused by the other person's mouth.
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OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
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Tell him that you dont like him like that and to give you some space, if you dont want him to talk to people, dont have him over...plain and simple!
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