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anal sex

Question Posted Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:22 pm

I just found out that if you have anal sex that if you have anal sex then your not a virgin! is that really true? and..i wanna no if a guy cums while his penis is in a gurl (during anal) can she still get pregnant..and if the girl gets cum on her front side and doesn't whip it off right away can she get pregnant? hurry I need to know!!!


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Peeps answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 4:03 am:
If you engage in any sexual act you are not really a virgin. When you go to a doctor's appointment you have to tell them you've been sexually active. You can still contract A LOT of STDs and STIs through anal or oral sex, believe it or not. More frightening, you can even control things like herpes and HPV through mutual masturbation, as these viruses can live deep under the nail bed.

You CAN get pregnant from anal sex because it is easy for the sperm (cum) to slide down from the anus and enter the vagina. Many, many women get pregnant each year from this sort of thing. It is also risky because your partner may put his penis into your vagina after ejaculating, pushing his semen and your fecal matter into your vagina.

Fecal matter does get on and INTO the penis when engaging in anal sex. The penis is being forced into a hole that has fecal matter so it is obvious that some may wind up being shoved into the penis' little hole too.

Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are HIV, anal cancer (seriously), typhoid fever, and various diseases associated with the infectious nature of fecal matter or sexual intercourse in general. Among these are: Amoebiasis; Chlamydia; Cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; Giardiasis; Gonorrhea; Hepatitis A; Hepatitis B; Hepatitis C; Herpes simplex; Human papillomavirus (HPV); Lymphogranuloma venereum; Pubic lice; Salmonellosis; Shigella; Syphilis; Tuberculosis. Using condoms will decrease these risks; however, they do not protect 100%.

Physical damage to the rectum and anus are serious and hemorrhoids, anal fissures, and rectal prolapse may occur. Damage is more likely if communication is poor or if technique is clumsy; condoms do not help protect against this sort of damage. Basically, if you don't know what you're doing or you end up doing something wrong by accident you may end up in the emergency room having surgery or stitches.

Small tears that can happen during anal sex can easily become infected. The membrane inside the rectum is VERY thin and fragile so it tears very easily. Even if there seems to be no complications the tears can be very irritating and can become inflamed later on. It doesn't matter how "gentle" your partner is, your will probably suffer some tearing and possibly even some bleeding. It can also become uncomfortable for you to pass a stool afterward.

It is also very easy to get a vaginal infection from anal intercourse if your partner enters the vagina after being in the anus because of the fecal matter that has been left on the penis. Even if he knows not to enter the vagina afterward, he may accidentally slip. The infection would be bacterial can actually do major damage to you--rendering you infertile. Really, anal sex is more likely to result in an infection than vaginal sex would.

As a note, the vaginal infection could be something simple like a yeast infection, but is usually a bacterial infection. If left untreated, these sorts of infections can cause serious problems later in life and can also render you completely infertile.

It's also common for urinary tract infections to occur after anal sex--in men and women. Yes, they are curable but they can become serious if left untreated and are, overall, rather uncomfortable to deal with. Condom usage would help your partner to avoid this complication but cannot protect against STDs or the above mentioned dangers associated with anal sex.

Incontinence has also been reported from engaging in anal sex. Basically this means that the anal sphincter loosens up from the activity. This also means that anal leakage can become an issue for the receiving end. It also may mean the inability to completely control your bowels when needed.

Many girls on here claim it hurts a lot. There really isn't a way to make it not hurt because it is endangering your body. Your body sends signals of pain because it is being HURT and you do not want to hurt your body. Serious problems come out of things like this--wanting to do something special with a partner and winding up on a hospital bed for a week while the doctor tries to sew them back together properly.

So, the penis pushes into the anus and will ALWAYS have some feces on it when removed. The thrusting motions will help to push the feces into the small tube of the penis, where it may set up a nasty infection. This usually requires a hardy set of antibiotics to kill off the infection. With all of the thrusting going on (especially for couples who do not have much experience with anal sex) there is a good likelihood of anal, vaginal, and urinary tract infections for women as well.

Doesn't sound so good, does it?

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jbdreamer answered Saturday July 31 2004, 9:56 am:
Hello, anal sex is sex. Why do you think it has the word sex in it. So no you are not a virgin. How do you think gay people have sex? Would you say they are still virgins because they haven't had "boy/girl intercourse"? No.

No you can't get pregnant from anal sex, but you can get bad infections if you don't use a condom.

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BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday July 31 2004, 1:49 am:
Having anal sex doesnt de-virginize you. It just makes you gross. There isnt really a way you can get pregnant in your ass, BUT, anal sex can rip a very thin tissue that seperates your urethra and anus, so too much butt sex can cause uncontrolable pooping out your vagina. FUN FUN FUN. And if cum gets on the front side..even if you do wipe it off, can still cause pregnancy. When a girl is moist the semen can grab on and swim their way up to baby making land..GOOD LUCK.

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hellraiser answered Saturday July 31 2004, 12:11 am:
no, u can not get pregnant if a guy cums in your ass. and it depends when the cum was on your frontside did it go in your vaginia? if it didn't then no u can't get pregnant.

hope i helped

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icey0990 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 11:05 pm:
your still a virgin until u have vaginal intercourse...

just like sucking a dick doesnt mean you lost your virginity..the same goes for anal sex.

Its unlikey but yes u can still get pregenent.

use lotsa lubrication and a condom during anal..its safer,feels better with lube, and is cleaner wit a condom

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:25 pm:
well, in the christian religion, any sex (regular, oral, or anal) is considered sex and when you have it you are not a virgin anymore. if a guy cums in a girl during anal, she cannot get pregnant. and if the guy cums at all during vaginal sex, she can get pregnant. even if he doesnt cum, theres something called pre-ejaculation fluid, and you still can get pregant from that b/c it sometimes contains sperm.

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russianspy1234 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:39 pm:
even if you whip it off right away from the front you can still get pregnant, but no you cant get pregnanat from the back. stds are still a possibility though.

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xevilpenguinsx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 12:26 am:
no and yes

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kevin1986 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:42 pm:
Having anal sex is just as much as having oral sex. If you believe oral sex is sex,anal sex should also be considered sex. You can only get pregnant if some of his cum drips in your pussy. No other way. If you're careful and none gets in,then no,you can't get pregnant from anal sex.

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chelc answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:15 pm:
ok look... the only way your not a virgin is your not one from your ass anymore... and you cant get preg. from doing that ... trust me .. when the guys cums in your ass theres no way lil swimmers can goo all the way up to your eggs ... besides before then youll have to go to the bath room and theyll be dead before they get there... so dont worry your safe that way...

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DrAnqel answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:13 pm:
don't worry sweetie, you wont get pregnant from anal, you should always "clean up" after having any type of sex, because, umm, that's gross, but there is no way to get pregnant from having anal sex, I know this for a fact, don't listen to someone who tells you that you will get pregnant because you wont, if you're that paranoid about it though, because you probably are and should be, then take a pregnancy test just to confirm, but I'm sure that you aren't pregnant. hope i helped -Dr.Anqel

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babycakes9357 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:09 pm:
Well anal sex is called anal sex for a reason and it is sex that just means ur not a virgin to anal sex...Yes u can get pregnant during anal sex because its still sperm being released inside of you..The only way that u can get pregnant when the cum is left on u is if it gets into ur vagina and the sperm swim up to your uterus (not likely) also sperm die when they come in contact with oxygen..So if he cummed inside you when u have anal then theres a good chance that you could be pregnant my advice is to get a pregnancy test if you dont get your period but if its only been a day or 2 since uve had sex then go get the emergency pill from your docter but do it like tommorow b/c it only works within 72 hours* or 3 days! hope i helped let me know

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x0sTucK_in_ParaDise answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:04 pm:

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volcombabe answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:02 pm:
yes you're not a virgin. hint there is the word SEX. and no, you cant get pregnant. its anal, theres no way "fishes" can reach your eggs.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:58 pm:
Okay, it depends on how you view virginity. It's an opinion thing, kind of. If you think you lost your virginity because of anal sex, then you did. *Shrug*
If semen gets near a girl's vagina, it's possible for her to get pregnant, even if she wipes if off right away. Semen can swim, remember.
I hope I helped!
-Siren =)

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knowitall answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:53 pm:
lol, i told you that you couldnt get preg. on AIM stacie! lol...You cant get pregnant, and you dont lose ur virginity, you can only lose your virginity if the penis enters the vagina!!!

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LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:43 pm:
Yep, its true, technically, you are not a virgin. Also, you can not getting pregnant from anal sex, even if the guys does cum in you. but you shouldn't do that because you can get an infection or a strange odor from him doing that. And you can't preganant if the semen is on the outside of you at all.

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