hey im kelly im from MA my fav things to do r write, act, playu the drums, run xc and track, read, other stuff too. uhh i like to just hang aroiund with friends go places the usual, anyway send me anything if anyone needs ne help or advice. ill try the best i can to give you that.
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how can u make ur thighs n stomack smaller in a easy way? (link)
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i wouldnt exactly say you can make them smaller. you could definatly make them more in shape though by working out. your thighs you would probably have to go to the gym and use a machine, or start running. there are many workouts you can find either on google or excersise websites. even like www.bodybuilding.com, and in magazines. go to the library and get articles from old magazines. they usually have good health sections or work outs. as for your stomach, start by jogging in place for a few minutes or get your body moving and then do crunches. working out before gets your blood moving. also, try drinking water and less or gatorades and sodas which make your stomach more bloated. salty foods also do this. do crunches though, and its hard to describe but a thing called planks also helps flatten your stomach. check stuff out online and books though. good luck, if you need anything else ask.
-kel
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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?! (link)
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err i hate that so much. my friend does it too. theres a few options:
1) dont tell her who you like. keep it to urself and maybe she wont decide to do that. shes prob just trying to compete and show off which is really stupid.
2) talk to her. tell her how u feel, just say u want to keep her as a freind but sometimes u feel hurt becuz it seems like shes always trying to flirt with the poeple you like. tell her th
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
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12 or something, any age really tho cuz wen they r younger its not even really a relationship,its just a cute lil thing usually
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I know I'm not skinny, but I'm not huge either. I really want to lose some weight, but I know its completely WRONG to starve yourself. So I refuse to do that.. and I don't like all of those confusing diets. Is there any way to diet normally without getting complicated?? Help!! (link)
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the key to this is cutting calories from your diet. dont go crazy..all u havta do is fugure out how many u consume a day and try to cut down 500 calories. it can be hard..so maybe start out smaller. for example insitead of having a donut or bagel or something for breakfast maybe have some fruit or yogurt or something. just take out unneccisary things outta ur diet and exersise about 1/2 hr a day. if u manage to do this, youll start losing about 2 lbs a week depending on how many calories u cut. good luck hope i helped
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Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do? (link)
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talk to your mom. explain to her exactly what u just told me. how u like him alot and how hes a very nice guy and ud appreciate it if shed giv him a chance. if u dont want to say it to her face, u could even write her a note and slip it under her door. i am sure if u tell her calmly how u feel she will totally understand. good luck and i hope i helped
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what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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be friendly, nice and not too clingy. dont be shy and if u r pretend hes ur best friend or someone uk well. i mean whats the worst that could happen? also if hes sitting somewhere go sit next to him dont act like u r afraid to get near him but dont follow him everywjhere. say hey, talk to him online, the phone even or something and if things go ok just tell him how u feel. if it doesnt work out its ok theyre r plenty of others it just wasnt meant to happen. good luck hope i helped
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theres a hurricane coming and im rlly scared. we dnt have shutters. im going to stay at a friends house wut should i bring from my room.i want to bring evrything but i cant. i rlly need to noe hurry thanks (link)
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i will pray for u and im sure youll be ok bring as much as u can bring a few suitcases some really improtant items just mak sure u r prepared and the most important thing is u and ur family. im sure ur friend wont mind if u bring alot they will understand and who nos ur house might not even get hit. good luck tho sry i couldnt help much
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this is long but i'll give u the highest rateing just plz answer..ok i lived w/ my grandparents my
whole life untill my grandfather died and so now i'm liven w/ my aunt uncle and cousin.well i had to move in a diff house and go to a diff school where i didnt kno n e one. and this was just a few monthes ago.well my aunt and i have always had a really good relationship till i moved in here but a few things happened and she didnt trust me n e more.i have never had to do and house work in my life till i moved in here.now she exspects me to do chores every day..its really hard for me to do this and her daughter has done then her whole life and my aunt is always sayin how she does her chores and i dont and i feel really left out..u no i dont feel like part of the family.she knos this and that i fell that she treats her daughter better i tell her that all the time.she is always sayin how my cousin gets good grades and is a really good kid...i have no clue wat to say to her that will make her understand how i feel...plz help me.. (link)
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if i were you this might just be me but u should write her a note. tell her everything, how u r just getting over ur grandfathers death and ud appreciate it if shed make things easier and all that. actually, u should show her exactly what u put in here. print it out or write it over and giv it to her secretly. tell her u really want to make things work out and help but u feel out of place and that she wants u to reach her daugters expectations. im sure she'll understand and appreciate u talking to her. good luck with this and i am very sorry about ur grandfather :(
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okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop (link)
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talk to her calmly and explain how u feel, why, and just tell her u feel like shes accusing u for something u didnt do and that she can trust u and stuff. also, this prob means she is feeling a little lonely so u might want to invite her n ur other friend or just her and all hang out, have some fun and just becuz u dont c her u could still giv her a call or something. good luck hope she understands
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Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me. (link)
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try to talk to him online and get his sn or e-mail. if u cant do that and u r too nervous to call him n invite him to a movie or something find a friend thats friends with him and maybe u and a bunch of ppl and him can hang out somewhere. giv him hints u like him and tell him uv been thinking about him. find out who he likes. good luck
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I was wondering if you kept a journal? I do on my computer. If you do have a journal what do you write in it? Can you give me something out of your journal to give me an idea. If not that's ok. But if you can I would love it. But I think my journal is just plain boring. But please help if you can.
Thanks!
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sry i didnt anser right away, i was on a trip. and yes i do keep a journal. i write things about my day and i honestly talk to it like it is my best friend, i describe everything and say exactly how i feel. i also love to write poetry and i have a ton of pages filled with poems i wrote that day, which u might like to do. u can also put pictures on your diary or cool backrounds and different colors. believe me ur journal wont be boring if u just let out your emotions there and say how u feel. even if someone else reads it and doesnt enjoy it i bet u will still like it becuz journals r awesome to have. good luck and im sure itll come out great sry if i didnt help alot
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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don't do it if you don't want to. Tell him you would rather wait a little longer or something. Don't do what you don't want to.
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Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea (link)
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don't do it...you will get in trouble
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thnx for the last advice im tryin crunches i just dont no what to do im starting to feel guilty eating (link)
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dont feel guilty. if u are working out then there isnt a point right? you need to eat or youll feel weak, sick, and get unhealthy. keep exersisng and stay positive. know that at least you put effort into all this, and know that you will see results and itll be worth it. good luck, and this will pass.
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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in a way i do, but then i dont. it all depends. you need to make sure that :
1) hes not just using you
2) you really love him ( u dont want to waste ur first time, u want it to be special )
3) u think of all the outcomes of ur decision
4) u really really want to
5) ur ready and if u do protected
6) u arent being forced into it
its really up to you, but do what u want just be careful and good luck
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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.
When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.
I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. (link)
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i can understand where both of you are coming from. your dad isnt used to this, hes seen youve gotten older and more mature, and he needs time to adjust. i think you should sit down with your dad, and explain how you are feeling. tell him you are up to having a family, and youd like his support. but dont forget to say u understand, and that together if u both try you can make things work out. u r seeking your dads approval becuz you love him, and you want him to feel happy and overwhelmed when someone that close to you doesnt feel the same way, you could feel guilty, or start to believe some of the things he said to you, which i am sure came from being afraid of seeing you and himself take on the responsibility. good luck with this all and congragulations!
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thnx for the last advice im tryin crunches i just dont no what to do im starting to feel guilty eating (link)
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dont. ik what u mean but its ok everybody has to eat, its your energy to live. ik it sux especially after u eat and you feel bloated and everything but to maybe feel better eat a healthier choice, after u feel pretty good knowing u chose that instead of something not as good for u. and if u love sweets (like me) give yourself a treat, trust me you can eat as much as u want if u exersise. just eat when u r hungry and stop when u arent anymore, dont leave the table feeling really full. if u do all this, slowly you wont feel as guilty anymore. and its ok to indulge on something every now and then..we all have to. and if u really crave a piece of chocolate cake and dont take it, usualyl youll overeat on it or something else later. balance out what u eat and if u still dont feel good run a little or do some exersise after u have a meal, you wont feel as bad.
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my boyfriend and mine's annaversary is coming up in a couple months and it will be 1 year. i want to do something really special for him or make him something that he'll always remember. but i dont want to make a scrapbook because everyone does that. i want to do something different. i would write him a poem but i do that all the time and he writes ones back to me so thats nothing new. if anyone has any ideas then please help me. (link)
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have someone take him out and when he comes back ( i dont kno how old u r, do idk if ud wanna do this..) but you could make him a dinner of his fav food, watch both ur fav movie, u can still giv him a scrapbook along with something else. thats kind of original and idk if u could do this either but if he likes a certain basketball teams or w.e get him tickets and one for u and go c it together, followed by a nice dinner. or take him for a walk on the beach..etc. go somewhere he really loves and that will mean enough to him, with u there n everything. or maybe an amusement park....lol u get the picture.
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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki (link)
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sometimes hard to get doesnt work. it depeneds on the guy, but alot of them will give up becuz theyll think you dont like them back. a good way to get him to notice is to be comfotable around him, if hes sitting somewhere then sit next to him, dont be all touch-touchy or follow him everywhere he goes, but say hey and IM him once in a while etc. whatever you do dont act like you are trying too hard, and be yourself. it sounds corny, but guys will notice if your acting different. if things seem to be going good, and you guys talk alot, then tell him how you feel and who knows maybe you will go out. good luck
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ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help
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i rate good!!! (link)
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be honest. tell him exactly what u just told me, except who you liked. i am postitive he will understand, especially if he is ur friend. just tell him u like him, but u like someone else too and you hope he understands and doesnt get the wrong idea. good luck, and dont worry about it.
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