Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
blondie0911 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:17 am: hey!!!
if u don't want to just tell him that if he really likes u he will understand and if he gets mad at u he just isn't worth it cause he really doesn't like u i really just think u should do wat ur heart desires!!!
hope i helped lOv blondie0911 [ blondie0911's advice column | Ask blondie0911 A Question ]
o023babygurl230o answered Saturday August 7 2004, 9:38 pm: If I were you I would just tell him that ur finally aloud to kiss so u want to start off slow. Your obveisly not experianced yet (not saying that in a bad way) so youl probly wanna do simple kisses on the lips then gradually get a lil more and more. If hes truly into you and cares bout you hell understand...Hope I helped sweetie! let meh no how things go [ o023babygurl230o's advice column | Ask o023babygurl230o A Question ]
KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz answered Saturday August 7 2004, 9:31 pm: well ask him if he wants to rlly make out or is it his brother that wants him to do it...tell him u wanna be in a relationsihp and u don't wanna just fuk around all the time...maybe he won't be all up tight about it and understand..hope i helped :] [ KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz's advice column | Ask KrAzZi_x0x_KrIz A Question ]
sweetx3nik answered Saturday August 7 2004, 9:29 pm: if he cares he'll wait if you don't feel comfortable. making out isn't a bad thing...just try and don't do much MORE than than, ya know? i've had my boyfriend for almost two years now...and we didn't makeout until around 8 months after we started going out. he was really nice about it too, like he would ask me if i was ready yet every so often, but just to be sure...not to the point where it got annoying. if a boy cares about you, he'll wait for you, too. just know that and follow your heart with what YOU wanna do..not what others want you to do! good luck...n please rate me! ;D [ sweetx3nik's advice column | Ask sweetx3nik A Question ]
x6xkelx9x answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:44 pm: don't do it if you don't want to. Tell him you would rather wait a little longer or something. Don't do what you don't want to. [ x6xkelx9x's advice column | Ask x6xkelx9x A Question ]
hellofro answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:30 pm: if you don't know how and that's part of why you don't want to tell him it's really not that bad
and all guys want to make out it's probably not because of his brother [ hellofro's advice column | Ask hellofro A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:18 pm: if you're not ready to make out then just let your boy friend know that. if he cares he will understand and not try to rush you. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
JamesBaybiGurl answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:58 pm: if you want to then go for it, i think yall should because it would make yalls relationship a little funner and plus its a lil over a month he should of got his kiss like...after 3 weeks, thats long but if ur not ready u should tell him how ya feel hun!
L0stiNaDreAm017 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:20 pm: Try talking with him (hard I know) and telling him that you want to take things slow. If he really loves you for who you are, he'll agree, of course...he's a guy and we won't wait forever (rolls eyes) But I see no reason why he shouldn't wait, me and my boyfriend didn't make out for 4 months after going out.
If he's still persistent, and you don't feel comfortable, than he's not worth it, find a guy who'll wait and is worth your time.
But remember, making out doesn't nessisarily lead to bad things like sex and stuff, as long as it's just kissing, it can be alright, but if you don't feel comfortable thats perfectly ok =) [ L0stiNaDreAm017's advice column | Ask L0stiNaDreAm017 A Question ]
Dont_Fall_Twice answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:18 pm: Talk to him about how you are feeling... If he truely cares for you he will 110% understand. Thats the best thing I can tell you.. If tell him how you feel :) Best Wishes -Britty- [ Dont_Fall_Twice's advice column | Ask Dont_Fall_Twice A Question ]
Chriso61o answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:17 pm: tell him that you dont want to rush into making out...if you guys are just alouid to kiss now you dont want to abuse the privlidge and take advantage of it..the more you do it the more your gonna get tired of doing it and want to try new things.. [ Chriso61o's advice column | Ask Chriso61o A Question ]
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