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I'm an 18 year old girl who has had a string of bad relationships. I'm seeing this guy, who I really care about and love spending time with. The only thing is that every time I feel myself getting close to him, I pull away because I'm scared of getting hurt. I've been hurt in the past and used to self harm and was very self-destructive. I want to be as involved in this relationship as my boyfriend is but I hate feeling vulnerable. (link)
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well never self hurt yourself nothing is worth it, you mAY OF Had bAD RELationships in the pAST BUT IF YOU LOVE THIS GUY THEN DONT HOLD anything bACK BECUZ YOU NEED TO BE WITH PEOPLE THat you mAKE YOU FEEL GOD
SINCERELY asklANE
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I'm trying to lose a little weight and I'm hungry right now. What are some healthy snacks I can eat? (link)
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Carrots, celery , grAPES all fruits,
lANE
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Me and My guy friend make out alot and its getting boring..Is there anything we can do to spice it up..Can you give details on how to do things too! I rate good! (link)
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Take some cloths off put A MINT IN YOUR MOUTH and see how mANY TIMES YOU Can pASS IT Back in forth in both your mouths
lANE
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
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DONT LIKE YOUR COUSIN I REally dont think he likes you but you never know but it is kindA UNUSUal
lANE
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i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me? (link)
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blink 182, switchfoot, story of the yeAR ,
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I do gymnastics and there is this really mean and stupid girl there,I hate her.My friends at gymnastics always hang out with her, but what they dont know is that this girl always talks about them really bad behind there backs. I try to tell them but they just say I am being a *icth and that I just want them to hang out with me and with no one else.This girl is starting to get on my nerves and ruin a great friendship. Sombody pppllleeeaaaaasssseeee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xXask_me_anythingXx (link)
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get A Tape recorder AND ask the girl whAT SHE THINKS about ur friends AND RECORD IT
Lane
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i have this crysh on one of my friends. I haven't seen or talked to him in a long time. Well todea he and I were im-ing each other. me and him have a lot of jokes that no one else gets because they are like inside jokes. i know i flirt with him alot but some of our jokes are... interseting... (they aren't sex related but we do have sum bout kissing and such.)Is he flirting back or is he all bout friendship? (link)
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i think he is flirting ASK HIM TO GO OUT WITH YOU
Lane
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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money (link)
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put up some flyers sAYIN THat u hAVE Have been sertified for bABYSITTIN PUT YOUR age AND YOUR NUMBER and put in thAT YOU LOVE KIDS
Lane
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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~
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wAY TO YOUNG Wat hAPPENS IF accidentALLY SOME SPERM GET INTO YOU OOO I NO YOU WILL BE STUCK WITH A Baby AT THE age of 14 you wouldnt be ABLE TO GO TO SCHOOL YOU WOULD Have to cARRY around A Baby AND GO THROUGH Labor AY TO YOUNG DONT DO IT~!~!
SINCERELY asklANE
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What is the fastest way to get a 6 pack? (link)
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GET ON OF THOSE THINGS YOU JUST HOOK TO YOURSTOMach
ASKLane
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ive always liked older guys and older guys have always liked me, but im not talking like guys two or three years older im talkin that the oldest guy ive been with was 26 and i was 14. im 15 now and im into a guy thats 20 and hes into me, but there is no way we can date with my parents being in the way but i dont want to hide it cause i had to do that with the 26yo and it didnt work out well. but i can't wait till im 18 bc hes moveing next march, i dont' know what i should tell my parents so theyd let me be with him.. any suggestions? (link)
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DONT LIKE OLDER GUYS
asklANE
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Kay im almost 15 female...i met this guy bout 3 1/2 years ago...we went out a four times (in tha 3 year period)n he played me 2 times...n tha other time i broke up with him..n tha last time...about 10 months ago he broke up with me bc things were two complicated...well tha whole school year we were on n off friends...he was tha first guy who ever told me that they loved me. And sumhow i noe in his own way he does...well now im not sure were we r at...we have been talking online ALOT flirting n stuff n we talk on tha fone alot two! well he lately we have been really close...n online we were talking and he had said that he really missed me n wanted us ta kick it soon n stuff n he had told me he was sorry bout everything in tha past n that he wants to be with me...well b4 earlier in tha year he would NEVA come ova to my house bc him n my mom dont exactly get along to good...well two nights ago him n his step brother came ova just so he could see me..they stayed fer about two hours or so...we kissed...n then later we made out just a lil bit..n we flirted infront of everyone n we have sooo many inside jokes but yeah...n he would keep tickeling me bc he noes all my tickleish spots n then he had his arms around me n was playin round n kept hittin my ass...it was all in fun n i had alot of fun! then they got picked up by one of there friends...he called me later that night at like midnight n we talked fer an hour or so...he use to neva call me...him n his step brother are 15 and 17...they went up to their grandparents cabin this weekand unsupervised so that kinda sux fer me but he called me twice y-day which he usually doesnt do...i really think he has changed butttttt....my friend stephanie thinks they r guna hook up..she is like obsessivly crazy for him and it is so irratating..im not sure what to do tho?!!?should i trust him n try to be with him or should i try to just forget it... Plllz help XoXo (link)
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well just ASK HIM WHO STEPHanie or me
sincerely ASKLane
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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :) (link)
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if you dont wANNa hAVE SEX IT IS FINE I agree with you , youshouldnt hAVE SEX TILL YOUR Married your your won person dont be peer pressured ABOUT SOMETHING YOU DONT FEEL RIGHT about doin
sincerely ASKLane
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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas? (link)
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find people who hAVE THE Same interests thAT YOU Have ,
sincerely ASKLane
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ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks (link)
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GET THERE SN FIRST and ASK EM OUT ON THE INTERNET THEN ask him if u could meet up with him AT SCHOOL LOOK EVEN THOUGH YOU DONT Want me to tell you this i personnALY THINK YOU SHOULD JUST FLat out ASK THE GUY I MEan you live one life tAKE CHances
sincerely ASKLane
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Okay, I have a problem with sweaty armpits. I'm sorry if this seems gross, but it's becoming a big issue. I always have to wear black shirts to hide it, but school is starting on Monday, and we have a uniform (a baby blue t-shirt) I don't want to wear a jacket, because I'll get really overheated! I even tried switching to men's deodorant and nothing changes! I'm really embarrassed about this... I don't know what else to do! Someone, please help me! Thanks sooo much, in advance!! (link)
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ok well wen ever you stART TO FEEL THE SWEat go to the bATHROOM and pAT YOUR armpit with A TOWEL OR SOMETHING
SINCERELY asklANE
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i didnt know what category to pick , but i had got braces 3 days ago , and my teeth hurt so bad , i called my doctor and he wont b in t'll monday . can neone help me with some tips to releive the pain . it would b a big help . thankk you soo much!! i'll rate u a 5 , nethng will help riyte now (link)
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OK I Have brACES and when i got them they hurt ALOT TO SO JUST ASK YOUR MOM OR Dad to give you some ADVIL OR TYLENOL IT WILL REDUCE THE Pain AND DRINK SOMETHING THat sATIFIES YOUR Taste
sincerely ASKLane
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Hi I'm Brittany! I go out with a boy named Michael and we have an awkward long-distance relationship. My best friend is in love with a boy who is friendly,cute,and popular. Lately she has been telling me that he likes me. I like him. But I could never go out with him because she really likes him. What should I do? (link)
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WELL I DONT GET IT BECUZ YOU Said your friend is goin out wit him but he likes you AND SHE TELLS YOU THat he likes you if i were you just go out wit him if u wANT TO
SINCERELY asklANE
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hi im a cheerleader and i havent had a bf i wunt 1 how do i get 1 to lyk me and wut do bf and gf do in the muvies??/ (link)
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well u should be ABLE TO GET a guy becuz your A CHEERLEader but how to you seduce him visuALLY BLOW KISSES at him ALWays smile when he looks AT You tell your friends to tell him you like him then tell him yourself then ASK HIM TO THE MOVIES and you will see for yourself whAT Happens AT THE MOVIES
SINCERELY asklANE
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ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do?????? (link)
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BEFORE YOU Walk up to A GIRL PRactice wAT YOU are gonnA Say
sincerely ASKLane
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