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~Should I???~


Question Posted Sunday August 8 2004, 12:19 am

Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



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GyMnAsT4LiFe440 answered Friday August 13 2004, 12:31 am:
dont do it. u always here bout teen getting pregnate non of then thought they would get pregnate but they did so if i were u i would just wait.

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Elementskater594 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 11:10 pm:
i personaly think your too young.but if you really want to you should. no one on this site should stop you from what you want or think is right. i hope you make a good decsion and if you have any more questions please put it in my inbox thanks!

x3 becca

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Lena answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 2:22 am:
WAY!! TO YOUNG!! wait!! til yer 16 like u planned or wait even longer! do u even think hes the "one"?

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xocutiepiesxo answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 9:27 am:
i think you should wait! thats the best thing to do! you are a little young! this might be something you regret in the end..so wait a while longer is my advice! =)

<3*Chelsea<3*

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lala88 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 12:05 am:
Yes, you are too young. Wait until you're older. It'll be even more worth it if you do. If you choos to though, use protection.

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cupidzxarr0w answered Monday August 9 2004, 8:06 pm:
yu shuld wait until uv`e been wid him a while... or wait till yu fall in love... becuz frum experience... its not good jus to give it up becuz u feel comfortable.. yu shuldnt to have sex yu shuld want to make love... yu`ll feel much better about it when ur wid sumome for a long tyme nd give that to them... becuz yu onli have ur virginity... u jus have to make sure who is w0rth havin it... so jus think is he the one yu want to have it... if yal.l ever broke up wuld yu regret it? wha if yu got pregnat at a young age wha wuld happen... u have to think about a lot of things before yu guys get into that.. yu have ur whole life for sex... -haley

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AllyKnows answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:48 pm:
well, in my opinion you are totally too young. But, it's also totally not my place to tell you that. If you love this boy and you know 100% he loves you and you definitly know he's not using you and that you really want to do it..then do it. Don't do it cuz everyone else is, don't do it cuz he wants you to, don't do it because it's the IN thing. But, I really think if you do it you'll regret it but it's your choice. Think about everything before you do it and make sure you use protection if you decide to do it. Be careful and make sure what you are doing is right. Good luck.

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TinahOfCourse answered Monday August 9 2004, 3:08 am:
Oh gosh. You're so young. I think that people should have sex when they think they are prepared enough to support a child. ANYTHING can happen. Not only that, you should ask yourself are you physically, mentally, emotionally, and stable enough to have a child? I think not, sweetie. I can tell by your age. Just because you both think you're "ready and comfortable" doesn't mean you should have sex with him. Honestly, you shouldn't even be THINKING about having sex with another boy. I say no.

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SeXzIxOBeBi answered Sunday August 8 2004, 8:30 pm:
ur way to young.. u need to wait till ur fully respondsible and no exactly wat to do! Hope i helped!

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ButterflyKissxx3 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 7:41 pm:
I honestly think your way too young. Wait awhile, maybe 15 or 16 if you can't wait until marriage lol. You don't know what "might" happen if something goes wrong. Hope I helped! <3

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ASKLane answered Sunday August 8 2004, 4:30 pm:
wAY TO YOUNG Wat hAPPENS IF accidentALLY SOME SPERM GET INTO YOU OOO I NO YOU WILL BE STUCK WITH A Baby AT THE age of 14 you wouldnt be ABLE TO GO TO SCHOOL YOU WOULD Have to cARRY around A Baby AND GO THROUGH Labor AY TO YOUNG DONT DO IT~!~!

SINCERELY asklANE

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Holly_22 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 3:16 pm:
I think you are WAY to young. I think when you get older you will regret it. Wait until you know you truly love this person. Hope I helped!

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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:54 pm:
Your wayy too yong. Why mess up your life? if you have sex you won't be able to stay in school,also that means you wouldn't go to collage. It dosn't matter how much you love your boyfriend or how ready you are don't have it!!!




xoxo chels

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JiJiGurli08 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:35 pm:
hell yea your too young. wtf are you thinking!?!?!!

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hottamale1812 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:15 pm:
to young!! ne thing could happen and u could wined up pregnant at 14! and if ppl find out mite call u something mean! i would say too young!

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xogiggles37xo answered Sunday August 8 2004, 10:11 am:
personally i think ur too young... theres this tv show i watch. lol. and this 14 year old got pregnant and had to get an abortion. ever since all of that her life wuz harder. ppl would tlk about her etc. and guys thought of her as a slut and ppl that would wunna go out with her kept thinking things when she wuz around that guy that she had sex with that time she got preganant. that guy that wanted to ask her out she really likes. it wuz her first time having sex when she got pregnant. she got pregnant at 14. itz so young. but i dk if u wunna just kno there might b consiquences. alot of ppl cum on this site saying o im pregnant and im too young or o i think im pregnant if i am how am i gunna tell my mom. theres so many things that can happen, just realize that if u deside to it. <3 xogiggles37xo.

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dancer_freak05 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 3:19 am:
youll regret it later........wait until your older... sex is overrated anyways

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berrybum324 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:04 am:
yaa..if u luv him then go for it..it realli doesnt mater how young you are..uless u feel lik you are really ready to fuck him..just fuck him..and get it ovr with like its special but u s hudnt have to debate it for lik a year..just get it over with..itll b speciual if u luv eachothr..which it sounds lik u do..

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AskSpanky answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:53 am:
Well...if you are too immature to call SEXUAL INTERCOURSE 'it', then you are definitely not ready. If you have to ask, you are not ready. You are 13, YOU ARE NOT READY. I am 14, I AM NOT READY.

There is alot of emotional attachment to sex...more than people think. Think it over long and hard and if you are sure...if you go through with it, you'll probably regret it later on.

I would say no go, but it's your life.

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-wizerwordz- answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:38 am:
<font size="8">NO</font>
why the hell would you even be thinking about that at 13???

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TheNextRingo answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:57 am:
just a tad. Just think, if you're together for another 9 months, who knows you could be having a baby!

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blondie0911 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:57 am:
dear should i,
i really think ur to young because i am 13 too and none of the people i hangout with do that sorta stuff!!!! i would wait until ur like older and like really luv this guy!!!!!!!
hope i helped lOv blondie0911

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Taylor_mariee answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:56 am:
hey... oh my god ive been there realy dont do it wait until your positive hes the ONE!! your only 13 its way to young to be doin that or even thinkin bout that! if you need to talk IM me at brunetebarbie0x!
hope i helped
<3.Taylor

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JKeller77 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:53 am:
Well from a guys point of view i would say do it lol but if u think your ready for everything that will follow and ready for all the responsibilities and you and your bf are sure then i dont think it matter how old you are as long as you are both mentally ready for it and mature enough.

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LoStNcOnFuZeD answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:52 am:
I think sex is a very special commitment and it is nothing to joke about. You must be very very committed before you even think abotu having sex. Nine months is a long time but for a 13 going on 14 year old I think it is too soon. I'm going to be 15 soon so believe me I can relate. I'm not sure how educated you are on sex either because I know 18 year olds who still aren't even sure why a girl gets her period!!! But, I think you should definately hold off until you are older because you still have many more experiences to have before you lose your virginity. You shouldn't be pressured into having sex either. If you tell your b/f you're not ready or you think you should wait he should respect your decision. If he doesn't than there is somebody else out there who will. You might think you are comfortable having a commitment, but sex is a big deal and it ALWAYS changes EVERYTHING. Especially, if you're not 100% what you're getting into. Please take my advice and hold off until you are older, have more experiences, and are much more aware. Good Luck n God Bless ~*CaSSiE*~

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crystal200022us answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:50 am:
I honestly think you should wait. Make sure he's the right one but I recommend waiting until you're married. I was 17 when I lost my virginity. Luckily, I married the man I lost my virginity to but I regret the fact that we didn't wait until we were married because it wasn't as special on our wedding night. I hope this helps!
Crystal

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:49 am:
I think you should wait. I know it's haRd, but I think if you wait you'll cheRish it a whole lot moRe. Especially if you feel he is "the one" and you'll be togetheR "foReveR". If you Really do believe that, then theRe's no sense in huRRying is theRe? No, because you know he's always going to be theRe, so theRe's no point in jumping the gun. I thinking waiting would be of youR best inteRest. Hope I helped! =D

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Mel answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:43 am:
yes.

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bella627 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:40 am:
im assuming you're asking about sex. and i'm sorry but if you can't say the word, chances are you're nowhere near ready to be having it. 13 is so so young, and sex brings about a whole world of risks and responsibilities that you shouldnt have to deal with yet. honestly, if you're questioning if you're ready then i'd say no you're not. no one can tell you when to have sex. its a decision that's purely up to you. please just think about all the possible consequences before you make any decisions in the heat of the moment. i know you may think nothing bad can happen, but just seriously think about it.

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selectopaque answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:40 am:
If you can't even type out the word SEX without laughing and putting lol next to it, then your not mature enough to be doing "it"

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