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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

dont dump him! you love him n other people should focus on there lifes not you n ur boyfriends relationship the only reason there doing this is because they have free time n want to raise there self esteem.. if ur in love thats all that matters! People who make fun of you guys are most likely just jealous that they can't get a strong relationship that u have!
Stick in there.. n dont let anything anyone says get to u!
HoPE I HELPED!
arianna

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ok, im going out with someone, and they always say they love me, but i dont really feel that way, and i want to dumb them,but not have them be mad at me, or any of there friends, is there anyway of doing that?

Just tell her ur not ready for a relationship n that you'd really like to be friends n try starting a relationship later.. i think shes moving a lil to fast if you ask me! N if shes mad she wont be mad for that long cause she'll have to get over it sometime..
Hope i helped!
ask me for more advice if u need it!
Arianna

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wuts better... viagra or enzyte?

um.. idk try both of them! I've never used them so i wouldn't know but try both of them n see which ones you like better!
Hope i helped..
Arianna

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can you answer these: 1. whats cyber sex and what do you say during it? do? 2. whats oral sex? is it just talking? what do u say?

Cyber sex is having sex over the internet... n u just pretend like ur actually having it! But oral sex is like a hand job n blow job fingering n like eating out.. thats what it is..
Hope i helped!

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well i have a small penis.. and im embarassed to do anything with girls. i always think theyll be like wth is that! in the locker room everyone taunts me and calls me slimjim.. does this matter to girls?

-jim

it depends on what kinda girl it is.. if shes a fake girl then she'll tell everyone bout it! Or if shes truelly into u she wont care at all.. it all depends on what kinda girl it is!
Hope i helped!

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no i need a technique.. my bf says he is happy with what we do but i want to give him mor ehtna i have.. his bday is coming up.. please give me a technique.

-veronica! thanks alot hun!

just suck it slow the go fast then move ur tongue around.. hope i helped!

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yeh im with sally.. how DO you give a good bj

-veronica

um u kinda just.. idk like suck it.. u have to find ur own way to do it.. its really hard to rescribe u just do it.. im sorry
Hope i helped!

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Okk I have really small boobs, and i just wanna know what kinda things to wear to distract people **guys** from that.. i mean im comfortable in my body but all my friends have like Huge boobs..soo what do i do?? help!! i rate high!!

its okay if u have small boobs trust me they will prolly get bigger.. if u want guys to not look at them or make them look bigger then just wear a padded bra until u think they've gotten bigger.. n wear tighter shirts! xOx Arianna xOx

Hope i helped!

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have u ever just wanted to kill urself? and have u ever gotten REALLY close...but the one thing thats stoping u is u??.. i need ur hlp... help me just pull the trigger!!!!! PLEASE!!?!?!

um yea i've wanted to kill myself but trust me its not worth it! So just do something that makes u happy hang out with friends n just talk to someone bout it! Trust me it works!
DONT KILL URSELF!

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how do u give a good bj
-sally

um i cant explain it.. u just do it! sorry..

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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-

Sounds like there all jealous.. i went thru a relationship like that and i gave him up for my friends n it was a huge mistake! Dont give him up for ur friends ur friends are supposed to be there for u thru thick n thin and not care so much on who ur going out with they need to quit being jealous n listen to ur thoughts n feeling!
Good luck!
Hope i helped!

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I was havin a great summa wit this kid named tim but he was my frendz cuzin and he lived in PA and was just visiting. He was so great and like my dream guy that i had been lookin for for a long time. he would hold my feet to keep them warm, play with my hair, adn id just sit on his lap and wed talk. Neways after about 2 weeks he started likin a diff. friend and since we werent officially going out he started going out wit her and i bawled my eyes out and couldnt eat the next day cuz i was so depressed. Now we still talk a lil and the thing is is kinda still like him and i dont know why. hes supposed to come down next summa for the whole summa and im afraid they mite hook back up (they broke up now tho). If i hook back up wit him everyone down here would b mad cuz they hate him for what he did to me. I dont even think he would take me back neways but i cant hepl but miss him.

Im going thru something like that i miss my ex so friggen much i love him with all my heart but i think the best thing to do is move on.. i mean u'll hardly see him i mean over the summer u can u know flirt with him and stuff and possibly kiss but why go out if ur just gunna break up at the end of the summer?
Hope i helped please rate!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi --

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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas?

Be yourself n dont let anything get in the way of that!

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My birthday is on Nov. 2nd. and my b/f's b-day is on Nov. 4th. so should we celebrate it on Nov. 3rd? Or have 2 seperate celebrations? What would you do?

I would have a huge party with ur boyfriend that'd be awesome n really cute! rent out a place and get a dj and invite a whole bunch of people .. or just go to ethier one of ur houses and just have an awesome party there!
-Hope i helped!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi

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okie well i go to this camp n im 13 the oldest kid there n there is a camp consler who is 18 he is going off to colledge n befor camp ended i always talked to him n we got to no each other relly well n well he is soo awesome at camp he use to pick me up n like beat up on me not like rele mean he would just put me on the ground n sit on me n stuff like that n i rele like him n yea thats kinda a big age gap i tell himi love him like luv ya kinda stuff but is it grosse that i like him??? or is it oki

i rate well

Its okay that you like him but ur right theres that huge age gap..i think u really need to find someone around ur age group! I mean flirting with him is awesome.. cause lOl flirtings fun but like hes kinda older then u so i wouldn't get ur hopes up or anything! Juss be really good friends wit him!Please rate.. hope i helped
-good luck!

-- SeXzIxOBeBi

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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

ur way to young.. u need to wait till ur fully respondsible and no exactly wat to do! Hope i helped!

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My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!)

OKay im going thru the same thing! But see both my parents smoke.. u needa sit him down and tell him what hes doing to himself tell him what happens long term with smoking n if he doesn't stop after that u just need to start throwing them out! I dont like the fact that my parents smoke ethier its nasty! N just seeing the cigerattes kills me.. tell him hes ruining his lungs and urs and the surrounding people! U needa explain to him.. trust me i needa do that to! Please rate! Hope i helped!
Good luck!

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so theres this guy, callum and he is just the sweetest guy ever! he is nice to me and cares about me and my feelings. but i course, i go for the older guys (he's 15 and im 13) anyway he's telling me how much he likes me and i like him too but my mom has a prob with him bc when i was talking with him on AIM he asked if i've given bjs..infront of my mom..aight i saw him today and i just about melted. he had just got back from soccer pract and he taught me some moves. i dont know if i should date him or not. my mom said not until im 14 which is in 4 months but i cant wait that long. my brothers says hes a flirt (what guy isnt) and is bad news. i dont really care what my brother thinks. what i care about is how can i get my mom to lettme go out with callum and what else should i do like make him like me more even if we stay friends?also do u have any flirt technichs that i could use?

Um well ur mom is a big deal in a relationship so if ur mom doesn't like ur boyfriend it'll be hard to go out n stuff.. what u need to do is just explain to ur mom why u like him and explain to her what u feel for him! U like him alot and u dont wanna lose him do u? Ur brothers opinion doesn't matter at all.. its ur heart not his! To get him to like u more- all u have to do is be urself totally and not fake.. trust me being fake doesn't get u anywhere at all.. and just be nice to him n stuff!Dont make urself look to much of a slut but looking pretty is a must.. theres a huge difference between a slut n looking pretty member dat! But for flirting teachniques.. i dont kno what to tell u.. flirting isn't like... planned out it just happens! So just do what ur heart desires..
GOOD LUCK!

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Okay well my boyfriend has been acting a lil Weird lately. He for some reason hasnt been being very nice to me. I mean when i talk to him on the fone he is so mean to me. He makes fun of me and stuff, its crazy. He tells me he is just kidding around but it doesnt seem like it at all. Then the first time we went out he always told me he loved me and stuff. He doesnt anymore. Im not sure why...does he really like me? I mean I love him and i wanna tell him but when i try then he just hangs up. Wuts going on?? Can u help me. I love your advice so plz help!! -Cutie T-

Trust me i went thru the same thing my x boyfriend used to make fun of me and i used to get really pissed cause i couldn't tell if he was joking around or what so i just took it as if he wasn't kidding although he told me he was. It seems to me as if he doesn't like u and is going out with u to go out.. sometimes relationship ships can be confusing like that. But trust ur best judgements and stick with him if thats what u really really want.. but why would u hes making fun of u and u dont need to go thru that!
STICK IN THERE BABE!
good luck!

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Arianna help me!!!
ok so im currently dating this guy....we went out then broke up....now we are going out again....but i think hes gonna break up with me again cause i like one of my really good guy friends too.....i like my bf and all....but i just can`t get over the other guy.....what should i do? 13/f
SO CONFUSED!!!

maybe u loved this other guy and cant get over him? maybe u should take some chances with this other guy and see what it turns out to be.. dont go out with people to just go out with them it doesn't work trust me i've done it! So stick with ur heart and what ur heart tells u to do!
-good luck babe!

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