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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-
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Sounds like there all jealous.. i went thru a relationship like that and i gave him up for my friends n it was a huge mistake! Dont give him up for ur friends ur friends are supposed to be there for u thru thick n thin and not care so much on who ur going out with they need to quit being jealous n listen to ur thoughts n feeling!
Good luck!
Hope i helped!
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WELL FIRST ask your bff " s why they ARE Mad AT YOU THEN SIT THEM DOWN APOLOGIZE and do ALL YOU Can do to mAKE THEM NOT Mad AT YOU anymore then explAIN TO THEM THat you hANG OUT WIT YOU BF all the time becuz they werent there for you
sincerely ASKLane
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I dont think your friends are much of friends. Maybe you should try making new better friends that will be there for you... Hope things get better -Britty-
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if all your friends tuned on you then there not really good friends. i think that all you can do is say sorry and then be with ur boyfriend untill their not mad any more and if they stay mad i dont think it wuz worth being their friendz in the first place. i kno theyre ur best friends but best friends make u regret ur friendship wen they get mad at you. it might be hard but u might have to get used to it. say sry as many times as u tlk to them untill their not mad at you. i dk this is a hard question to answer. i hope everything goes well. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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fuck them. hwy should you have to kiss thier asses and beg for thier friendship? dont you see what you are doing to yourself? they are porbably laughing at you behind your back. they dont care about you if they are putting you through this shit. stick with your bf and find some new friends. ones that dont make you beat yourself up and make you feel like you are doing something wrong when you're not. fuck them! i repeat FUCK THEM!
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Don't worry about it, they might come around, and if they don't try and find new friends.I mean if they won't be your friend again they were never your true friends.Your bf sounds like a nice person, your lucky to have him.But make sure you always have time for you bf and your friends.
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maybe you should tkae a break from your bf because your girl friends are the ones who are always gonna be there for you....its not right to let a guy interfear with a friendship between 2 girls
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I hardly understood any of that...
...but...uh...what did you do to make them mad? Well if you can't befriend them again, they aren't worth your time.
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okk well if they hate you for having a boyfriend thats kindamessed up they should b happi that your happi..i meen its great thatu wud sacrifice the one person that s there for u during this for ur grls..but thats not necessay..i meen seriously..why do they hate you now? do they even have a reason? but when you get older and everything riends dont always last..i meen neithr do boyfriends but like if you believe you have found love thn it shudnt realli mttr..ur friends shud b happi for u . and every good friendship has its up n dwns..no mttr wat..
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ive had this happen before too...i had a bf at the time when it seemed like no one else was there and everyone seemed to turn on me... things will clear up tho. people forgive and forget, juss hold on! everything will end okay! it always does...juss try and be nice about everything...and try and talk to ur friends a lil more and explain to them why your talking to him more...hope it goes well =D
*jesikuh
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Hi i say you talk to your friends...even if they wont listen invite them over one day and just be like look guys we need to talk about all this. and it sounds like you hang with ur bf more then ur bffs so maybe they are mad about it since you guys have been friends for soo long and all the sudden you dont go to them anymore but to your bf and they feel like they lost you. i would suggest you hang with ur friends a little more and get back ur trust with them and with ur bf just tell me since you can tell him everything. be like look i need to hang out with my friends a tat more and i'm use he will understand. i hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
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tru friends will never turn their baQs on u... if they do they were never friends to begin wit... dont worry about fake people like that and move on with your life... now that u dont have to worry about them... u can get to know other people
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Well, if you don't know why they hate you then I would find out. Otherwise, really I would get some new friends, I mean they couldn't have been that great of friends if they turned their backs on you. I'm really sorry that they did this though. It's never easy when you're world is turned upside down in such a way. Take solice in the fact that making new friends will be easier when school starts back up again. Good luck, I hope this has helped in some small way atleast.
-The Knight Owl
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