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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx
* a curious george *
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Hey! Yea dat's good, wait cuzdat is a BIGG step!Do wut u feel is comfortable to u!! Therre's a lot of stuff well kinda, well therre's....hey juss IM me, or write to me N i'll xplain a lil more for u to understand! but therre's givin head, u blow or suk, hand job, massaging eachother, make out, kiss, or leaving eachotha stamps((hickies)). For him, he can go downtown on u as in eat u out, or finger, hey why won't u guys have dry sex! But honestly, think before u do things, cuz u neva kno u might lose friends, or get hatted on! so Every action HAS a consequence!!!! juss remember don't do suttin u don't want to!and especially if u pushes u into it, then don't!But be SAFE! Good luck!Need anything else contact me,my info is in my column! take care
-Phuong
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Well i think that everyone should wait until you're married... but this summer i ended up having sex with him... i just felt so right... but if i could go back i would have waited until i was married, cause your virginity is suppose to be somehing sacred and beautiful... and everyone knows that if you do stuff besides having sex it's gonna get boaring and then you are evntually gonna have sex... so i think you shoud just stay to kissing and makin out...
Because:
*I wanna give u a hug,
But a hug leads to a kiss,
And a kiss leads to a lick,
And a lick leads to a suck,
And a suck leads to a fuck!
But i can't tell you waht to do!... Do whatever you feel like... but just remember to think of all the consequence that come with each choice that you make...
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well i think its up to u but theyre are bad chances of getting pregnant and you dont wanna throw ur life away so id say juss let him do stuff to u and u do stuff to him but dont have sex juss yet
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don't do it! you know you'll regret it later. maybe not right after, but you will. i hate to break it to you, but you're not gonna be with this kid forever. your company alone should be enough. if it's not, then he doesn't deserve your company at all.
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HUH??? first off if you're a smart girl you will not do any of the above. You have youre whole life ahead of you, and trust me this person is not the love of your life. You will have plenty of other boyfriends as you grow up. Pls rethink this. You are ayoung girl, 13 is way tooooooo young to have sex. Sex isn't just about gratification, it also means pregnancy, STD's, and a bad reputation. If he RESPECTS you and REALLY LOVES YOU, then he would not pressure you. I beg you to stop
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If u feel comfortable doing that stuff, then go ahead. Its completely up to u. I had sex for the first time and I had only been dating the guy for a lil more than a month. We're still together too. If u really love him and u know he loves u.. then u should do what u feel comfy doing!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
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okay well good. dont have sex yet, you're way too young. wait like 2 or 3 years. but yeah if you want to do other stuff thats not sex, thats cool. so yeah go ahead give eachother oral, play with yourselves, i dont know.
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eh, this is your decision, 13 is a young age to have sex..you might end up regreting it later on. you should be able to be comphy doing other things with him before you make the move of having sex. its shows how ready you are going to be able to be. and if you do decide to have sex, be careful, and be smart.
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i no everone is sayin 13 is 2 young 4 sex and i myself agree. ne other sexual stuff i would say is fine as long as ur comfortable w/ it. but b4 u do nething juststop and think..... think of wat the aftermath mite b if u do it....think of the risks involved in doin it.and remember this quote and refer 2 it always "It is not out abilities that show tho we truly are....it is our choices" CHOOSE WISLEY!and tell me if this u at all plz thx
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you need to wait. ur almost 14......your still way too young. wait a while.
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NO WAY!I see what your feeling but take it slow, I know you have a lot of pressure on your shoulders,but your only 13 (going on 14!)!You shouldn't be even thinking about doing that yet, don't try it take it from me!Don't get pushed into the sex idea, if your bf really cares about you and your feelings, he would wait to,if he does not understand your feelings maybe he's not the right guy for you.But take it from me don't have sex yet, your too young ,you shouldn't even be thinking about doing that at your age.Consider the consequences of doing that.
(through your life always use protection!)
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well.. i think that u should at least wait to ur in high school to have sex but do all the other stuff u want with him! cuz i mean u guys look close and if he streets u rite then go for it girl!
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Hun-I don't mean to be rude or mean and I dont care if you give me a low rating, but you are wayyy too young! Wait until you get a little older. Your probably being pressured right now and THINk you want to do it, but inside you really don't. When your a little older, It's safer to make that decision. Also you'll probably have a bad reputation. I hope you make the right decision.
xox
casey
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omgosh! ok dear ur 13!!! WAY too young to be doing this kinda stuff! just think if u did go for it and then thats all he wanted from u and u 2 broke up and then he spread it around the school like what happened- i dont think you would want that reputation! just kiss for now and have fun dont feel like u have to rush into things!!
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no! dont do it. you may think you really like this guy but trust me, odds are you will end up not working out and youll regret doing it. Theres so much more to loose then your virginity, its half your purity, part of your innosence and just a part of you that youll never be able to get back. No matter how nice he is dont loose your virginity, and only do other stuff if your ready for it! dont let him force you
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Hey! Im 14 and I have already had sex, and it wuz a big step but everything turned out great, but its good that yew want to wait fer that "special moment" I think that it is totally fine that yew do other stuff with yer boyfriend..and 9 months is a great time to start! hope i helped! xo*
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hey i think that:thats preety good how you waited 9 months before you didnt anything so you have trust in your boyfriend. but anyway befor you go and have sex you should wait awhile like before you go and have sex you should do other stuff and see if he chagnes or somethin. like go ahead and give him head or hand job or anything but wait a little more before you go and have sex.. because thats a big step and you dont wanna do it an then him start actin werid. so you should like do that stuff first.. then see if he changes towards you then if not then go for it... i hope i help .. please rate me - nicicole..
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go with the other answers and SLOW DOWN! you dont need to be doin that stuff at 13...juss kiss and enjoy eachother..u dont have to do that sexually!!! =D
*jesikuh
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<font size="6">WHOA</font>
chill out girl, you're only 13, you should wait for the "big step" for at least a few years, if not more. even any other sexual stuff.
i'm not saying that there should be a set age for sex or anything like that. it's just IMMORAL. WHY DO YOU GET THESE IDEAS THAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING THESE KINDA THINGS AT SUCH A YONG AGE????? screw other people if thats where youre getting this from, they are complete idiots.
and what do you mean by you wanna be "able" to do stuff with him?? WHY?
and only <font size="7">13</font> <font size="6">DAMN</font>
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well you should do what you feel comfortable doing. bj's arent the easiest thing to do and alot of girls dont like doing them. but if you want to do something then just like give him a sexxi message or a hand job or something!
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*cringes* Please wait. Please. I'm begging you. I'm normally better at convincing people than this, and I know you hate people telling you are too young, but you really and truly are. If you do everything now, you'll have nothing to look foward to when you're in highschool. Trrruuust me. The girls that do all this sexual stuff now, regret it later,when that's all guys want. You want a guy to want you for you. Not what you'll do for him. I'm not saying that's all he wants from you, but guy's minds get clouded with sex, and it's not any better at your age. And...PS- Once you have sex...guys expect it. It no longer becomes a gift. It becomes routine at that age.
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