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E-mail: motocrosshottie69@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alvin, Tx
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: kristinNalvin
Member Since: August 9, 2004
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Last Update: August 15, 2004
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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way? (link)
Hey... My boyfriend hangs out with alot of girls too... but you just have to trust him and trust that he really loves you and that he would never do anything to hurt you!... But sometimes I do get jealous and i get mad sometimes!... But i truely know in my heart that he loves me and not those other girls!... You just have to deal with it!... He has friends that are girls!... I have alot of friends that are guys!... We have a very trusting relationship!... Hope I helped!...


Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do (link)
I think that you should still be friends with her cause one of my best friends told me last year that she was bi... and I was just like ok... that's cool!... cause whatever!... that's her decission!... But like she would never hit on me cause we're friends... and she jus doesn't think of me or our other friends that way!... I hope this kinda helped you out!...


Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx


* a curious george * (link)
Well i think that everyone should wait until you're married... but this summer i ended up having sex with him... i just felt so right... but if i could go back i would have waited until i was married, cause your virginity is suppose to be somehing sacred and beautiful... and everyone knows that if you do stuff besides having sex it's gonna get boaring and then you are evntually gonna have sex... so i think you shoud just stay to kissing and makin out...
Because:
*I wanna give u a hug,
But a hug leads to a kiss,
And a kiss leads to a lick,
And a lick leads to a suck,
And a suck leads to a fuck!

But i can't tell you waht to do!... Do whatever you feel like... but just remember to think of all the consequence that come with each choice that you make...


Hey Caity...I went to party and I started talking to this guy Ryan at the time he seemed really cool so I gave him my number so we could keep in touch,we started dating and I got pregnet I told him and he told me he wasnt ready to be a father and i wasnt gonna keep it I felt really scared and i didnt know how to tell mt parents and what they`d think of me...Im 3 weeks pregnet now and Im only 16 I know i shouldnt keep it but apart of me tells me I should!Ryan still doesnt want me to keep it and he told me that he loved me and that he wouldnt let anything bad ever happen to me But if he loved me he would help me through this.What should I do? -Kayla (link)
ok.. first thing... you need to tell your parents that you are pregnet... Cause a couple of months ago my sister had a baby and she hadn't told anyone except her boyfriend that she might be pregnet... and she ended up havin the baby in our house... and she really put her life in danger and her baby's life... you really should tell your parents cause they we're kids once too... they might understnad... and if they don't oh well... they will eventually just except it... they can't change anything... cause what's done has been done... you can't change that, even if you do abort the baby... cause you will always feel guilty and sick of your self cause you killed a human being!... don't kill the baby... even if you don't want it... you can always have the baby then put it up for adoption... cause there are ppl out there that want kids but can't have thier own... there is someone out there that wants your baby... even if it's not you...

And now the boyfriend thing... If he wants you to get an abortion then i really don't think that he loves you like he says... if he loved you he would back you up 100%, no matter what!... it doesn't really matter if he's not ready to be a father... cause it's because of him (and you)that there is a babyinside of you... and he's gonna have to get some responseability and take care of your child... cause it's his child too...


i've been told i have an AWESOME stance at the plate when im hitting, but when the ball comes and i go to swing, i rotate my body and slap at the ball, like i dont watch the ball hit the bat i guess bc i turn my self, when i do that, i step out, which is making me a super pull hitter to the left side which sucks bc the teams are gettin used to me and know where my sweet spots are . eerr . but i guess what im tryin to ask is does anyone have like any advice on how to correct it . my cousin tried to help me but hes a guy so hes different then a girl you know lol . idk i just need some advice on how to make my swing more even . i guess im rotating my body, stepping out, and reaching for the ball . ughh . i hate it bc im hittin like little grounders RIGHT to short or 3rd and its horrible bc at the beginig of this season i was hittin triples and doubles all over the out field and now ima pull hitter right to short . ugh . so any advice will be overly apprieciated . (link)
When you hit make sure to stay back and don't lunge at the ball... (I use to have that problem)... And be sure to wait for the ball and watch it the whole time... Even when the pitcher has the ball in her glove and even after you make contact... But don't be running and watchin the ball... that's why there is a first base coach there... to tell you what to do... Make sure you aren't on top of the ball... (try to make contact right in the middle of the ball)... that's why the ball is goin down and your hitting grounders... and instead of stepping right before you make contact try stepping before the pitch lets go of the ball so then all you have to do is explode your hips... Oh yeah... I've been palying softball for almost 11 years so i know what i'm talkin bout!...




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