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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way?
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Well it depends. First of all, in my opinion boyfriends should be hanging out with their girlfriends. Is he someone you can trust easily? Or does he have a reputation for not being the greatest boyfriend. Why don't you just talk to him and tell him that you're worried that whenn you move, since he`s hanging out with all these girls he'll loose intrest in you.
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personally, i would feel jealous,and self concious. I would tell him how I felt.. Like saying. I dont like the feeling of you hanging out with other girls while im away and such. If u can't do it to his face, theres always the phone and the computer. Once you get it out and on the platter, it should come easy to talk about it to his face with him. Hope I helped u!
XoXo Ange**
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yes u should... have a talk wit him but dunt let him think ur tryin to end it b 4 u go.. let him kno its gettin u kinda worried.. and jealous try to pravent a fight.. just try to win him back but dunt b to ovice
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I would feel the same if my boyfriend would be hanging out with different girls while I would be moving, it's normal. But, if you trust him that he won't do anything and you love eachother, everything should be fine.
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ok your going out with him until you move in 5 weeks so your not planning on having a future your just goin out wit him just to live the moment. i can undertand why your jealous, but u dont plan on being together later, so it really doesnt matter. if you want, talk to him about it and be like "can you just not screw up for the rest of the time we r goin out? then you can do what you want" if he thinks its not worth it then forget it and break up with him.
x*o*x*o hope it helps-ami*
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to tell you the truth you should feel like that becuz its the truth...
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i think that is it perfectly natural to feel this way about your boyfreind hanging out with other girls. it is just human nature, so dont worry about that. But, if you really do feel that he is doing something wrong, then talk to him about it. he mignt get mad at first. but you never know. then again he could just be making new freinds. i hope all that made sence! hope i could help!
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Feeling like he'd loose an interest over you because he is hanging out with other girls shows that you are a slight bit insecure about yourself, and the relationship. Make sure that he is "just" hanging out with those girls and nothing more. Then build your confidence up...there is no reason to feel so insecure.
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any girl would feel like that!!! but you gotta trust him and if he really likes you and respects you then those other girls wont make him act any different towards ya!!!
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Hey... My boyfriend hangs out with alot of girls too... but you just have to trust him and trust that he really loves you and that he would never do anything to hurt you!... But sometimes I do get jealous and i get mad sometimes!... But i truely know in my heart that he loves me and not those other girls!... You just have to deal with it!... He has friends that are girls!... I have alot of friends that are guys!... We have a very trusting relationship!... Hope I helped!...
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It's normal to get jealous when you have a boyfriend. Thats the bad part of a relationship huh? lol. I hate being jealous, but it just takes over us sometimes. But, I think you should try talking to him and telling him how you feel. He should understand. Just be like "I know I've been away for about 3 weeks and that I'm moving in about 5 months, but I thought we promised we were going to make this relationship strong til I move, but you've been hanging out with girls and its getting me really jealous..." Just say something like that and how you feel about this situation. Hope this helps!
xoxo Kourtney
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