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My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month and we don't really live close to each other like a 40 min. drive to get to his house.. but I can't drive so.. I haven't seen him as much as I have wanted to but we talk on the phone alot.. (except for one night when i got totally blown off so he could go and play card with his friends.. which was deff not cool..) but now one of my guy friends is all like joking about stuff loving me and flirting with me and idk I feel bad cause he's a good friend but I know I like my boyfriend so much more.. yet the less I see of him and the more I see of my guy friend it gets really hard to handle sometimes and it's crossed my mind to dump my boyfriend but really think I might be starting to have stong feelings tords him... how do I get myself out of the situation with my guy friend without ruining our friendship?
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i would have to say. its your problem. you got your self into it. you might have a hard time getting out. well what i would do is.. i would ask your boy friend. ask him if he has ever had a friend hes reall close to and started liking them. n if he admits he has. then u should tell him whats the matter.. guys might have stupids minds..but they do have feelings.
xox Manda xox
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i think u should stay wit ure boyfrend nd not dump him for ure guy frend cuz sumtimes wen u go out wit a guy whos a really good frends wit u then in the end wen u break up ure frendship ends too nd i dont think u want that.. but still do wut ever u want to do
hope i helped
.;Keryn:.
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I don't know how to handle the situation with your friend, but I wouldn't give up on the distance relationship just because you don't see each other. I am an hour and a half away from mine, and at the most we see each other every weekend, but usually more like twice a month. We've been together almost a year, and we recently got engaged. We talk every night like you and your boyfriend. I would only end the distance relationship if something goes wrong.
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I used to be in one of those long distance relationships and it only lasted 6 months for me, till he jux stopped accepcting my callz. I know that they are hard, and to me, it really isn't worth the pain. I think you should give your other friend a chance. But if you have stong feelings for him, I guess stay him. But it wouldn't be long before he completely ignores you. Well I hoped this kinda helped. Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!
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If you really like you boyfriend the youll stay with him and try to see him as much as possible..and find out what he think about the "long distance" relationship...
or see which guy you like more, if you think that the long distance relationship wont work then maybe your better off with the one you see the most..just make sure that if you break up with your boyfriend that you wont regret it.. its a very sticky situation.
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Just sit you guy friend down and tell him something like "You keep telling me you love me and stuff, but you have to understand I have a boyfriend I really like and I don't want us to ruin mine and yours' friendship, I just don't see you like that..." Just say something like that and that you really like your boyfriend and you don't want that to get ruined. And you don't want you and your guy friends relationship to get ruined either. Hope this helps and good luck, if you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Just be honest with your friend, tell him you have a boyfriend and that you don't feel comfortable talking like that. And I think you may feel that way about your boyfriend because you haven't seen him. Long (or semi-long in this case) distance relationships aren't easy. Hope that helps.
~Laura~
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Juss be like i kno u may like me as more then a friend but i dont see u like dat i have a bf who i really like and i dont wanna mess it up so we are juss friends and nothin more!! good luck n e otha questions drop 1 iight~
.*.>> Caitlin <<.*.
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