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should i..?
Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed
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if you really love him then you shouldn't care what other people think about you and him and if you really love him and he really loves you then i think that you guys should stay together.
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hey! im goin out with a guy n hes not the same race as me so DONT b discouraged just block out and ignore all those folks cuz they probably wish they were just like you guys!
<33-britt
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screw the people. If you're happy with your boyfriend then keep it that way. Yea i can understand that it's prolly annoying hearing all of the laughs and remarks they're making, but you gotta realize that they're being really stupid and immature about the whole thing and you just gotta keep trying to brush it off. What remarks are they making exactly? Get back to me on that one...
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u shuldnt care wat ppl say juss dont take n e thing to heart and try n ignore them all with their rude comments who cares wat they think if use love each otha thaz all that matters!!!
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Caitlin*<3
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dont dump him! you love him n other people should focus on there lifes not you n ur boyfriends relationship the only reason there doing this is because they have free time n want to raise there self esteem.. if ur in love thats all that matters! People who make fun of you guys are most likely just jealous that they can't get a strong relationship that u have!
Stick in there.. n dont let anything anyone says get to u!
HoPE I HELPED!
arianna
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just ignore them! and just act like it doesn't bother u! becuz if they see that there annoying you with that they won't stop! so just keep walking and don't even look at them! just act like you don't even hear them! and they might stop!
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xoxo-ashlyn!
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Stick up for you man! When someone throws an insult at him, tell them that skin color has nothing to do with his personality. Say that your boyfriend is nicer, smarter, and sweeter than all the guys in your class. And, he'll kick their ass if they bug you one more time! =)
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If you Really love him.. you'd say to hell with what eveRyone else thinks!!! Who caRes!!?!? Just because otheR people can be so disgustingly ignoRant.. doesn't mean you have to let it get to YOU! Just keep youR head up and push foRwaRd!! Love him foR who he is... it seems like you have a good thing goin' heRe.. don't let otheR people take that away fRom you!! I wish you the VERY best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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dont listen to what they say! believe me, i`ve done it before and just ended up miserable without him. It shouldn't matter if he`s a different race! if you TRULEY love him then don't think anything of it. Next time someone says something to you just tell them "at least im not a racist b*tch" be mean if you have to, to get them to stop. But make sure not to be TOO mean cuz you dont want everyone to like, hate you
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never listen to what people say ,they will only push you to hell.if u love him stick to him
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If you love him it shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks. It's their problem and not your's. They are probably just jealous of the relationship that you have.
I hope that helps, and if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
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If you really do love him..race shouldn't matter...purple..pink..yellow..it shouldnt matter..if he makes u feel the way you do..then dont worry bout what everyone else thinks..they just might be jealous..and ur relationship must be so perfect..this is the only thing they can pick at..! GOOD LUCK!
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Well who really cares what they say.. if you love him and it doesnt matter to you than ignore them.. be yourself and don't do a thing! They can talk but you don't need to be a part of it!
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If you love him and u liek being with him you should ignor the laughs or put a stop to it!
Hope i helped...
RaTe Me!
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dont let that get to you. just ignore it. Who cares what other people think. If you leave him he will be all alone to face those rumors by himself. besides if he really means alot to you, you wouldnt let those things get to you....i hope i helped
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i think you should just ignore them , because its none of there business they arent the ones going out with him so it shouldnt bother you if you really love him
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hey hunn,that is so mean why should people care?dont let them bring you down.be proud of who u love.race is nothin but a color.dont let them get to you.just blow them off.you are better off with people who care about you and isnt bothered by ur reltionship..bye girl..if u need anything else drop it in my inbox..xoxojay
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wow.. thats horrible that people make fun of you and your man just bcuz your guy is a diff. race. Dont let what other people say get in the way. If you love your boyfriend you would stick with your relationship. Especially 3 years. Screw what other people say! Be true to your heart.
Love,
*j.a.a*
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well thats juss retarded people shouldnt give a shyt bout what race you too are if you lyke eachother and have been goin out for 3 freakin years then screw all the other people and if you do say shyt tell em to fuck off! haha but really dont take shyt from people cuz thats gay! racism is fuckd upp!
hope i helped~ if you have any other questions juss drop one in mah inbox~ rate mee!! thanx bye
<3.Taylor.Marie
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i i think u should stay wit him n if ur tired of every1 laughing at u u guys should tell every1 dat u broke up but rele dont break up
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it shouldnt matter what race he is, people are jelious because they want your man. you shouldnt have to worry about the laughs and jokes but its life and you will get throw it. you are better then those people because you are the one with your head high and not brakeing up with him because of them! good luck sweetie
*~*Crystal*~*
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im really surprised cause i thoguht eamkin fun of race was over .. if yooh love him it shouldnt matter tell every1 to fuc off if they dont like it cause i mean same race or noy their still a person .. so fuc peoples belike ilve him nd thas all that matters ..
i hpe i help .. [ . megan . ]
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Wow!! Those people are really immature!! Gurl it doesnt matter what race he is!! Like i said b4.. He can be purple all that matters is that you luv him!! I think that u should just pretend like u dont hear it.. Because it will make things worse if you tell them off because then they'll know it bothers u!! Good Luck with everythin Gurl!! Any other ?'s just ask me!! x0x
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STAY WITH HIM! just becuse u like a different race and other people think its funny is no reason to dump him. Believe me. People used to make fun of me bc i dated other races. But i stuck with him. The people that are making fun of you are stupid. I think interracial relationships are awesome. Don't dump him now. You've been together for what 3 years? thats awesome. STAY WITH HIM!
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Well, you're definitely more mature than the Middle Schoolers who make fun of you and your boyfriend. They seriously need to be quiet - they are being racist. Of course, you probably already knew that, and yes there are ways to stop them from saying that. Not one way is ever 100% effective though. You can never stop people to make fun of others entirely, unfortunately.
Here are some ways that will HELP them to stop, though:
1) Tell the principal or your guidance counselor - they are being racist.
2) Don't listen to them, if they see that they aren't getting on your nerves, they will stop.
3) BE MATURE, and don't stoop down to their level.
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Just ignore everyone else!! race doesnt matter just follow ur heart and u'll find the right road hunn! xOo im here for ya
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I don't think you should worry about what no one else is saying. It's not their relationship, it's yours. And if you love him like you say you do, you should have to worry about what other people think about yall. If he loves you just as much as you love him, then there's no problem! Good Luck and God Bless! Beebyes!
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thats really messed up for people to be doing that. dont listen to a word anyone says, the only thing that matters is that you truly care about him...if it still bothers you then tell all of them that..'i dont care..he's my boyfriend i love him'..or whatever comes from your heart.. dont let anyone get in the way of ur relationship!
x000o gina <33
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