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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
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wow..not a good thing to do. You dont wanna be remembered as a skank :)
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Yes. It's another one of those Dating complaints. Although I know there are way too many of these, I'm afraid I'm going to have to contribute.
I'm currently dating a young man who is five years older than I am. (I am fourteen and he is nineteen, if that helps any.)
No one really knows that I am with him. I haven't told my friends nor have I told my family, of course. I don't want to be forced to break up with him just because my family believes the age difference is too much. *shrug*
Anyways...One of the problems in our relationship is...we have never met. We're dating over the internet. And, although this may seem silly and (that I know personally and who knows him personally and has met him) and ever since the first time I talked to him, I found myself attracted to him. He asked me out and we've been together ever since.
Of course...It all seems rather...odd. I've never had an internet relationship, before, and I've never had a relationship this serious. I've actually thought about my future with this guy. Marriage, kids, etc.
I really don't know that much about him, though. And he's hesitant to tell me very much.
Should I get out of this relationship? Should I ask him to tell me more about himself? Is there something that I need to do? I'm confused...And I know I don't really have any specific questions. I just need advice.
Thank you. :) (link)
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if i were you, i'd get out of the relationship. if he's hesitant to tell you what's going on..then there is something wrong..i dont mind the age difference..i myself am with a whole buncha older guys, but it's your choice..just stay safe doll :)
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Hey, well my dad had a problem with smoking cigs years ago, and I caught him smoking again about 2 months ago. He told me not to tell anyone so I didnt. Then about a month and a half ago my brother went into the garage and found a pack of cigs. (They were my dads) I dont know why but I said to him, "Those are mine, dont tell dad." I told my dad about it and he said to keep that story. My brother again found more and I took the blame. I didnt feel right about lying to my brother and I thought he has a right to know, so today I told him about it. I feel bad now because my dad might get mad. Do you think I did the right thing? I'm not sure. (link)
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you totally did the right thing. You're dad's being a loser by having his daughter/son cover for him. that's PATHETIC. It's good that you told your brother b/c you're sickof lying to him. :)
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It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo (link)
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my sister had an abortion 3 years ago, so i'm not one to judge anyone else if mhy own sister did it. I dont think your chances are less likely to concieve a child again. If you wanted to, you could have a child, but it might be just a tad harder now.Good Luck and God Bless You.
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i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!! (link)
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one quote i've heard and i really like is "never let past relationships ruin future ones"...i'd go for this new guy..since you both are afraid to commit and trust eachother...both of you know what it's like to get hurt..so you guys wouldnt hurt eachother...that's just my opinion..hope it helped =)
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well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me (link)
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doll,she could get in a lot of trouble for calling you and starting with you. That's illegal so you could tell the cops..and dont let one dumb girl get you down...stay in the same spot and dont worry. She cant do anything to you.
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Does anyone know how much clothes normally cost at Forever 21? I'm going there for clothes this weekend and I just wanted to know how much money to bring in advance. (link)
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It depends on what you buy. It goes from about $5-$45 depending. After a while it just gets expensive but you dont realize it. I usually spend like $150 but i get a lot of clothes.
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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want?? (link)
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If I were in your situation, I would tell her. I've done that before and I always somehow felt guilty for it, but after I told my friend she wasn't mad at all. I totally stressed over nothing! She just told me that she didn't want it getting in between our friendship b/c I'm with her brother and it never did. We're still cool and she doesn't care that I'm with her brother :)
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Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous* (link)
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Sweetie, you are exactly like one of my friends. She's about your height and weights about the same. Don't worry it! Believe me, its only because you're short...and dont try and lose weigt either. When you're a teen and you're still developing everything, you need all the food and nutrients you can get! You're beautiful and you shouldnt care how much you weight..I'm 5'7" and I weight a lot more than you..so dont worry! if I don't, you shouldnt ;)
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