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help me =(
i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!!
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Is this guy really worth possibly loosing your best friend? I would talk to her and ask her what she would think about you going out with her ex,esp. if she still likes him.
xoxo chels
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I would go for the new guy b/c if he has the same trusting issues then hes probably not going to cheat on you.. if he cares about you and is sweet and romantic then go for it. Also, if your best girl friend likes ur best guy friend then i wouldn't get inbetween that because its probably gonna start a fight between you two. good luck!
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go for the new guy! don't go after the guy your friend likes because you don't want to ruin a friendship over a guy. the new guy seems good for you. good luck!! send me something if you need more help or advice.
xox Kristen
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i think you should go for the new guy and let your girl friend get the other guy... the new guy sounds really nice and like you said he is everything you need... and you guys can prolly get over your trust thing with eachother... and you dont want to fight with your bestfriend... hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )
Kati
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Afcourse u should go for that guy that u met weekes ago....its seems that hes good 4 u and he wont cheat on u cause he understands how it feels to be cheeted on.So go 4 him,and u wont loose ur best friend that way.Good luck andd i hope i helped.
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Ana
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I think you should go for the new guy! If he has everything that you need in a guy then he's the one. Since your best girl friend likes your ex, let her just have him cuz you have another person to go to. You and this new guy both know what it's like getting hurt so if you guys were together, you wouldn't want to hurt each other. Hope I helped! If you have any other questions, just drop one in my inbox or IM me on AIM at fAbOlOuZ x kAy 8.
<3 Karen
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go out with the new guy! if you like him alot and he has trust problems like you, you both can learn to trust eachother
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well what I would do..is I'd go with the new guy. If your best girl freind has a thing for him then she should have him..also because he played you so hes obviously not good for you.
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one quote i've heard and i really like is "never let past relationships ruin future ones"...i'd go for this new guy..since you both are afraid to commit and trust eachother...both of you know what it's like to get hurt..so you guys wouldnt hurt eachother...that's just my opinion..hope it helped =)
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