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Hey! Well all my freinds are always asking me for advice so this should be more helpful. Umm I like to listen to music and watch movies..and hang out with my "clique"
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ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused! (link)
HES A LOSER!! if he can't tell people that he likes you then...whats the point I mean he tells you but then that means he would prolly be ashamed to go out with you


I have this guy that I liked about 2 years ago and he found out about it. Now, I don't like him like that (AT ALL!!!) How do I let him down easy, because I just broke up with a long time boyfriend and I know that he's about to ask me out. He got mad and said REALLY loud how I told him that I liked him when I mentioned that I didn't like anyone at the moment. THANKS! (link)
You should have told him in the beginning...cause he prolly has always liked you...but just tell him you know that was in the past so you actually dont really like him anymore.


theres this guy and we hang out in school or we used to schools out for now... well ya his exgirlfriend keeps iming mii saying he likes me. and shes like do u like him and i paniced and said no cuz i thought that wuz the best thing. i dont like going far with boys. im 13. making out maybe. i only made out once n that was in 5th grade. lol. i ended up thinking it wuz nasty cuz all his saliva was in my mouth. lol. but i dk i think that wuz cuz it wuz my first time. well the reason i said no is his exgirlfriend use to always make out in the hall way and i kno im not gunna do that. the 5th grade make out session was in front of one person. lol. and i wuz nervous evem with just one. well i wouldnt be able to be better then that you know wut i mean. he already had better then me so... well i paniced and i said i didnt like him that way and the other day the exgirlfriend imd me a chat invitation i took it and the guy wuz there. i freaked out. lol. my heart was pounding really fast. well ya i think i sounded really stupid in the hole conversation. i dk but she copied and pasted sumthing like he wrote it and it said dont tell karen i like her and karen lol thats me. but then he wuz like i didnt say that. {{no affence karen}} so then w/e. i dk wut does all this mean?? im really confused. in my opionn i dont think he likes me. (link)
You should talk to this ex girlfreind and say you know I do like him and you can tell him for all I care its his loss...and if you dont want to make out in front of people thats prefectly fine. You dont have to go around lookin like you need to be kissed every five seconds...and if you cant talk to her then talk to him...ask him you know is that true that you like me or something. Just go with your instincts on this one.


well, I like this guy, alot. and like, whenever I talk to him, I feel so happy. He makes me smile so much, its crazy. he has liked me before, and I have too. and we have gone out too, but broke up too soon. I'm to the point where I love him. I just love everything about him. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do either. I wanna ask him if hes willing to go out agian, or if he still likes me, but like, I don't wanna be out of random like, "do you still like me," or anything. so, what do I do?! (link)
You should just spill out your feelings and tell him and then you know maybe ask him if he feels the same way.. but dont be to forward with it cause you never know what might happen just kinda work your way into it.


i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP! (link)
The thing you have to do is really figure out who you like...like and love are two majorly different things. You say you love your boyfreind but you like this guy. Love kinda overpowers and you have to be loyal to your boyfriend. So either tell the other guy like..hey I have a boyfreind you know...or...go for him.


So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do? (link)
You should talk things out with her and just say you know do you still have the same feelings for me like you used to. Just talk it all out.


my personality is wild and punk, i love pac sun and shop there very often. i love being comfortable in what i am wearing, but also love top express myself through my clothes. what kind of clothes would make me look more punk? the question is pretty obvious, but no, i am not trying to be somthing im not..and i am not a poser. where can i find punk clothes?
will rate WELL (link)
well...bein a punk doesnt mean you dress in punk clothes..with just having the look..sorry but thats a poser.


anyone kno how to get rid of blackheads[ somethin at home] thanx (link)
put a reallllllly hot washcloth over them..they will burn off.


This guy likes me, and I kinda like him, but he isn't the cutest guy (if you know what I mean) I want to see if things will work out between us but I scared of what other people will think/say. What should I do? (link)
If you like him then go for it. It doesn't matter what everyone else says.


ok our school theres basically 2 groups. preps and punks. and we dont get along. i consider myself a punk. and i try to be nice to the preps but they just like call me a slut and a druggie! i am not a slut. my friends know that i aint. and i am not druggie i dont even smoke. but the preps got it in their heads that i am. and they wont leave me alone about it! and the preppy guys think i am "hot" and they always ask me stuff like "ur so hot why do u hang out with the druggie guys?" well u do cuz a/ most of them arent druggies b. they are super respectful. but i just dont get why preps are so mean to me and my friends. i mean we are nice to them and they are just total jerks (i would use other chioce words) and now we are jerks back to them cuz they are to us! even the teachers are unfair to us cuz we dress different and skate. how can we get this whole thing to stop? its soo incredibly dumb and how can we get the teachers to stop? we cant report to the principal hes worse than the teachers. (link)
Well first of all you dont "try" to be a in the punk group. Either you are or your not. Its all in the heart. You dont just put on some clothes and say hey look Im a punk...(this type of stuff gets to me) but you really cant do anyhting with the teachers or principal


Hey! well i'm a colomnist too...VBabi13! but i need a guys opinion too!anywayz....well my ex, we were off N on since like 7th grade, N we freshmens now. i guess u can say we have a history...we broke up N stuff, but i guess we don't actually go out, we look like we do or we act like we do! I kno so much bout him, cuz he opens up to me, N i feel like i can do the same thing back. goin out or not we still friends, we talk, but lately we haven't! I dunno why, i think the last time i talked to him, he wuzn't happy, his voice, juss drifted, i knew suttin wuz wrong but he kept on sayin "nothing"!!! We were pretty intimate, N we did both say to eachotha ((when we dating)) "i love you"...but all in all, u odn't forget your first love,right?well i think, personally, we still have strong feelings for eachother! well my question is, do u think he would have a lot of interest in me like when we wuz dating, N do u think goin out again would last longer?N what we have for eachotha, is it real?i can't stop thinkin bout wut we had N did,N i miss it A LOT! does he?
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I think I am perfect for answering this question. Me and my bestfreind went out a lot..on and off. We are freinds now but everytime we went out it didn't last very long. And we were totally into eachother. Well personally I think It's just good to be freinds for a little while and then see where things lead. If it was meant to be you'd know it. Hope I helped.


i think i love my best friends girlfriend, what shuld i do? (link)
Well if thats your bestfreind then you should really be chasing after him/her. You should just be happy for them hope i helped!


Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do? (link)
I know how hard this is trust me. Well I think you should just walk up to her and say Hi and strike up a conversation about anything.


i went out wiht this kid for ova a year and he cheated on me 8 times. i have a huge issue with trusting poeple becuz i am constantly afraid of gettin hurt. . i am way over him now, but i like my bestfriend =( he went out with my bestfriend[a girl] and she still likes him too. But, a few weeks ago i met this guy, he is truely amazing. he is everythin i need from a guy, he is sweet, romantic, trusting and he cares about me. now i have a big problem with trust and so does he bc he has also been hurt in the past. should i give up on my best guy friend and let my best girl friend have him, [bc i dont wanna fight wiht her] or should i go for the new guy? Help please!! (link)
well what I would do..is I'd go with the new guy. If your best girl freind has a thing for him then she should have him..also because he played you so hes obviously not good for you.


I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help! (link)
Even if she made you promise you should still tell an adult. If she hadn't of kicked him then she could have been raped. You seriously need to tell someone.


Hi,I'm Charm & am 14. I have been with my boyfriend, Gregg for 5 years. We are only 14, but we are in love, it was truly love at first site! Anyway,When we both met, we promised eachother to stay virgins, until we got married, we know we will!Gregg is so romantic, he is always leaving cards in my lockers saying I love you and always hugs me and one time on our 2 anniversary, he gave me a fake rose, before i asked him y a fake one, he sed it was because fake one's last forever, like our love! I love him so much, but we kissed before ,but never made out, u no. we wud kiss on the lips, like a peck or something, but never actually moving our heads or something and we really want to make out, but how will I no wat to do? Help, I need to no how to kiss him. (link)
If you want to kiss him..then wait for a really romantic time when he kisses you..and just go for it!...its really not that hard.


how can i get a guy to like me? (link)
well..to get a guy to like you you should just become really good freinds with them. Flirt a little bit. And have a good time hanging out.




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