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So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do?
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Unfortunately, you can't really do a lot about her changing feelings - if they have indeed changed. The only thing you can really do is talk to her. Tell her what you've just typed - that you've noticed her teasing you and that you think she might be losing feelings for you. Some people push their significant others away so that <i>they</i> don't have to initiate the breaking-up. I don't really think that's very fair, but the only way you can figure out what's in her head is to talk ot her, and be honest with her. Hopefully it's something that can be worked out, but if not, at least you went through with it now instead of waiting for the relationship to drag on longer.
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all you can do is talk to her. be honest and just be assertive.
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I think you need to talk to her and ask her what she wants, see if shes teasing you on purpose. If she makes you feel bad about who you are then you shouldnt be with her. You deserve better. Good luck, and my best wishes. -holly-
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i think ur gf cares about u but if she teases u i bet she just wants to know what u have to say but gurlz tend to do that i know i do that alot but i bet she still loves u as much as she did and if it bothers u then tell her most likely she will stop.I hope i helped good luck :)
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ok if u really luv this gurl first find out wat she wants if she wants another guy let her go 4 awhile eventually she realize how much u luv her and shell b back
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Just talk to her about it. Tell her how much you care about her, and talk to her about the comments she teases you with. She doesn't deserve 100% of your love and care if she's losing interest and not giving back to you what you give to her. Tell her you're worried about losing her because of her apparent lack of interest, and if she has a problem with your concern... screw her.
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Thats cute you love her! She may be trying to make you jealous and see how you react when she mentions another guy in front of you. But, I think you should try talking to her and telling her how you feel and just be like "You know I love you alot, but sometimes I feel like I'm not what you want anymore, that you dont love me anymore either, and I just want to know if you still do love me..." Just say something like that and how you feel. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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well...maybe she does my advice to you would be to ask her why she always talkes or "teases" you about other guys and if she likes you any more and if she doesn't...then as much as u love her u gotta let her go...u seem like youra really nice guy and u'd be wasiteing your time on this girl if she doesn't love u when u could be spending time with some one who does
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Well I girls are another story man, no joke. The tease may be some "blunt" thing to her, but to you it could mean one of many things. I have been seeing a girl for about 2 1/2 years now, nearly all of high school, and she went through a stage like that too. My best advice would be to be there for her, but watch out for anything out of the ordinary. Like if she teases about one certain guy, and then she talks to him a lot, well there's an obvious. Good Luck.
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I think that you should talk to your girl about how she feels. Tell her how you feel about her teasing you about the other guys and that you're getting the impression that she doesn't like you so much nemore. See what she says. Tell her that you love her with all you have but if she doesn't feel the same then maybe you should consider ending it. Most people have a hard time deciding whether to listen to their head or their heart. Most ppl pick the heart. But, always remember that your heart can lie to you too. You must follow your heart while you trust your own instincts. good luck and remember that everything will work out for the best. ~*»»CaSSiE««*~
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you need to talk to her and tell her that she is not as affectionate as she used to be. and let her know it bothers you when she teases you about other guys. ask her what is really going on. is she trying to send you a message?
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Just ask her how she really really feels about you.... don't be shy, just let her know how concerned you are about your relationship! Good Luck! Hope you make the right decision! God Bless! Beeyes ~1ne~
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There could be mulitple reasons why she is doing this. The most logical one for me is that she is testing you, to see if you really want her, and you really "love" her. But if you really don't think this is the reason, consider talking to her about it. Communication is the key to any good relationship. You should know this, and I think you already do. But know this. If the relationship is becoming unmutual, it would probably do you both some good to take a break, and if it's meant to work out, it will. That's life.
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You should talk things out with her and just say you know do you still have the same feelings for me like you used to. Just talk it all out.
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Easily said and done... talk to her! You know you love her, you need to find out if she is giving you the same love back. Tell her how you feel, that her teasing and stuff kind of gets you a little worried or upset, I'm sure she'll understand. If she doesnt, well, maybe it is time to move on? 8 months seems like a long time.. but a lot can change- even over sometimes stupid things.. no matter how long the relationship might be.
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if you love her like you say you do sweetie, you should really honestly just go up to her take her out and stuff and just talk to her. and tel her you love her and dont wanna loose her and tell her what is bothering you. im sure it would work!
-x0x-stephanie
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