I am your typical high school students, I have to deal with the sports, the challenge for grades, and like to party and have fun with some friends. I have experianced a lot of things that create issues, and have gotten over all of them, therfore being good with advice.... so what are you waiting for?
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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not? (link)
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No, won't be able to tell. I have had sex with 2 different girls. One girl was our first. The other gurl was a little down her line, farther than you, and was a mistake. I could clearly state that there was no difference at all in the two. The only difference is the one that was more experiance did some "excersises" that made it a little tighter... and my first was still a little looser around then she was.... hope I helped without grossing you out. O ya, and the cherry, if you can tell him you're a virgin and really not, you can just tell him that you popped it riding a bike like most other gurls do.
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So i've been going out with this girl for almost 8 months now, right? Anyways, I love her a lot, I really do, I just dont know if I am really what she wants anymore. She teases me about other guys and stuff constantly, and she really gives me the impression that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. Can someone help me on what I should do? (link)
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Well I girls are another story man, no joke. The tease may be some "blunt" thing to her, but to you it could mean one of many things. I have been seeing a girl for about 2 1/2 years now, nearly all of high school, and she went through a stage like that too. My best advice would be to be there for her, but watch out for anything out of the ordinary. Like if she teases about one certain guy, and then she talks to him a lot, well there's an obvious. Good Luck.
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when im if a (virble) fight wit some one im not good at comin up wit good comebacks what do i do so i dont sound stupid?
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Don't give a f**k bout those f**k-erz... they don't mean sh*t to neone neways...
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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!! (link)
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Sorry to hear about your situation, I know exactly what you're dealing with. The best advice anyone could give you is to not give up on her. But you can also look at it in a different perspective... here's a quote to help with my advice-"Life is full of changes"... that seemed appropriate, because you can never stop a person of trying to do something that they want. As things change, so will the person, and in your case, their surroundings. I know when ever I started drinking or anything else that I hated to be told to stop, it was the LAST thing I wanted to hear from ANYONE. At the time I had a girlfriend that I had been seeing for around 2 years. She was really concerned about me because she was the main one that saw the drastic changes. I would go from happy to furious in a split second when she would tell me to stop. So I guess my advice in the end is be there for that friend. She doesn't want people to tell her what to do. Maybe in the end she will realize that life isn't about partying but more of who you know. I am sure you both will be much more happy when you can just relax around each other rather than be on each others back and be mad or sad with each other. Good luck and hope I helped.
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ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice! (link)
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Well your question was kind of vague in the sense that it didn't state which one, but non the less I will try to give you some advice to the best of my knowledge.
If your question was aimed at smoking cigarettes, I would say that it would be a mistake to start. First, you're only in the 8th grade and even if it seems "cool" to you and your peers, when you get into high school it isn't. It is looked down upon as something that only the hard headed or the idiots do.
If your question was aimed at smoking marijauna, then there is no awesome advice that someone could give you. I am not going to sit here and say, "Oh yeah, it's an awesome experiance and you should try it!" because it's deffinatly not something for everyone. It is not a good idea if you have an addictive personality because it is something that can get you into some trouble and can alter some other your other daily activities.
Well this is my first advice that I have given, so good luck with it and in the end, do what YOUR heart tells you to, not what other people suggest.
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