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Lately my zits have gotten really bad. I try various face washes, alcohol pads, etc. Nothing works and they're getting worse. I don't have the money to go out and buy expensive treatments. Are there any ways to make them go away faster using products I could find at home or products I could buy for not too much money? Thanks I rate 5's. (link)
Thers this stuff by clearisil or however you spell it thats called like vanisishing cream, and it is guarenteed to make them go away in 3 days.. and it really works amazing.. its only about like 7 or 8 dollars at a walmart store, although i'm sure u could find it other places as well:-)




Okay, so. I am getting new clothes and I really want to shop at Hollister. My mom will probably give me around $150 and I dont think thats enough. So I'm going to be saving up money...so I want an idea of how much money their shirts, jeans, jackets are. I'll rate 5's. (link)
Jeans are usually 39.50 unless u need to get the ones with holes in or grafitti they tend to be 49.50 and up

Shirts are 12.50 to 24.50

Skirts are usually 29.50 or 34.50

Jackets are usually 39.50 or 49.50


Ok me and my boyfriend have bene dating 3 weeks and we hug intimately and stuff and I lvoe him..adn I get urges to kiss him..I really want to..but the teachers cant see...cause my parents will know..and only my mom knows about the guy and my dad is not clued in at all...and i really love him and i want to kiss him..but im also afraid..i mean im a very pessimistic, paranoid, frightened, depressed type person...i know he wants to kiss me..so what should we do (link)
Kiss him somewhere other than school so the teachers dont see you.. It's just a kiss, it's not like you are planning on having sex.. and just something you should hear but shouldnt take offense too, that you can't exactly LOVE someone after 3 weeks of going out, and you havent even kissed him. How old are you? 12, 13? But yeah just kiss him someone other than school...


Okay i was just wondering how u felt about premarital sex.. or is it worth it to wait til im married? (link)
I think that the man you have sex with should be "the one" and u guys should at least be together for a while and both realize the consequences of having sex first. In some cases its fine, its up to you whether you want to have sex before your married with soemone you THINK couldbe the one.. or somoene after you get married who you KNOW is the one


Here is the thing, yesterday I took one of my friends to see her boyfriend and she wanted me to stay with her so i did. And her bf(we'll call him steve) had one of his friends over(we'll call him rick), well i was talking to rick for awhile and I think i am starting to like him but I have no way of talking to him except through steve which is also one of my friends but how can i get steve to ask rick if in anyway he would like me or how can i just be able to see him with out sounding desperate to steve? I was thinking something like a double date? HELP please anything will help!!! thanks alot (link)
A double date sounds like a perfect solution to this problem. After the date just talk to your friend about you liking "Rick" have your friend talk to steve and have her just be like "does rick like my friend because it kind of seemed like he did on the double date" It will most likely turn out that "steve" will talk to "rick" and then steve will tell your friend how rick feels then she can tell you.. It's an easier way to solve everything without making you look desperate or anything like that.. Good Luck




i've been going out with this boy for like 6 months now, but my friends want me to stop going out with him and they the ones who wanted me to go out with him in the first place.they say i'm spending to much time with him and i hardly get to see him.

I need advice (link)
Don't dump him because your friends tell him too. If your friends feel like you arent spending enough time with them, make sure you set time aside to be with your friends, but boyfriends are just as important, so make sure you have plenty of time to hang out with him too. Just make sure you have time for friends and boyfriends or things tend to mess up pretty easily. Good Luck





hey i have my periuod but i dont know how to use a tampon... im afraid im going to get it this weekend and im going to this club for teens. I need to wear a thong so i have to wear a tampon. But how do you use it... is it hard?? Does it hurt? what should i do.. (link)
It's not hard to use tampons, its easy.. And it doesnt hurt at all.. there are easy to use directions in the tampon box with illustrations and everything that will help alot




Hey does anyone know of any great websites that I can make my own free website but as good as this awesome website or as good as www.bored.com?I will rate a five for everyone who names a website for me!!! (link)
www.xanga.com is reallly good and a lot ofpeople use it..

www.expage.com its not as good, the basic is free but the advanced cost some, but its a webpage you can still use for free((the basic is free anyway))


whenever i get my monthlies *i'm a girl* when i sleep i can't sleep with my back on the mattress because i'll get stains on places where the pad doesn't cover. so, my question is wut can i do to ensure that i won't get stains when i wake up like how i can position the pad or w/e stuff like that please help this is getting really annoying thanks (link)
Yes the lovely time of the month, fun isnt it? If you sleep 8 hours or less you can wear a tampon to bed, but if you sleep more than that dont wear one.. u could get toxic shock syndrom. Try buying pads that are called OVERNIGHT PADS i think by like kotex or something. they are longer and wider to help protect more places. And being serious about this. you can always get depends if its really that bad and u are really that worried about it.. One of my older friends had to do this because she bled soooo much overnight.. Good Luck




Hi, im 13 years old. Well i think im fat, i weigh 90 pounds. All my friends think im like one of the skinniest people in the school, but i dont think that, so i decided to not eat, except for a small dinner because my mom would make me eat dinner. People try to like put food in my mouth for me to eat but i wont let them. In 3 days, i lost already 2 pounds. People think im anorexic. what should i do? (link)
You weigh only 90 pounds?? Thats soo small.. I weighed about 95 when i was 13.. I weigh about 105 now and im 15, and im one of the skinniest girls in my school. You need to eat, its not healthy when you dont eat, food gives you energy not just fat. If you dont want to get any fatter, eat healthy foods, but you need to eat. You are going to become anorexic unless you change things now. Best luck to you, and i hope you get better.we all saw what happened to the olsen twin




I want to try out for my highschools cheerleading squad.. Ive cheered b4 but i heard that high school tryout are harder. if u tried out for you high schools cheerleading squad, what did you have to do? (link)
Well at my school, they teach you a cheer, they teach a chat, n they teach you a dance. and they make sure you have it during the first 2 days of tryouts.. Then the 3rd day of tryouts you go up infrontof the coaches by yourself and do the best gymnastics and jumps((toetouch etc.)) you can.. then you go up in gorups of 5 and do your chant a few times for the coaches. then the 4th day you do your dance and the cheer in groups of 3 of so infront of your coaches, then on the 5th day u go in one by one and hear if you made it. Thats how our school works anyway, i dont know if other schools do it differently.. Be perky, dont wear a lot of make up it takes the coaches eyes away from your skill, do the best you can.. Good Luck!




Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.

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Aww.. i still remember the first time i ever made out with a guy. I was sooo nervous and so scared i wouldnt know how to do it or what to do. I think 14 is a good time for a first kiss. Making out comes naturally, i know its hard to believe i never believe it when peopletoldme it. But your boyfriend will start it, and you just kinda follow. It's seriously not hard at all, dont think to hard and get too worked up about it before it happens, because i assure you everything will be absolutely positively fine. you'll get the hang of it right away. It's normal to be scared since you have never made out. But it's actually kinda fun once you start.. Hope i helped


my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do? (link)
I think you should let it go, I mean if they get caught its their faults and its notlike your cheating, so your not involved in it, People might make a big deal out of it if you try to tell everyone "cheating is badd" you might sound like their mom or something.. but if you dont want to see your friends get caught, just tell them the consequences of cheating and tell them they should stop, your friends shouldnt make too big a deal out of it.. Good luck..


how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?
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Some states have a legal age to babysit unless its for your own family or so, I live in Pennsylvania and i dont believe theres an actual age, not that i know of anyway, but most kids i know start around 13 years old.


im trying to lose wieght by not eating after 730ish because i heard that this would work. Does this really work? and even if it does, how long will i see results. one more thing, i eat kinda lot when i get home from school so is there an effect? (link)
Yeah, not eating in the 2 hours before you go to bed is a good idea, because it gives your food time to digest in your system and doesnt just lay there and you gain the fat from it. Try eating in smaller proportions. Don't eat alot repeatedly, try eating healthier things also. Like when u get home from school, grab an orange or an appleor something you like, instead of fatty sugary foods. Hope this helped.





Why do boyz always tickle their girlfriends???? I know it's stupid. But Idk (link)
It's just a way of flirting, and showing affection, it could be a way to make their girlfriends just laugh and smile. It's just a way to play around


I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!

--KeLs-- (link)
I love thinking of what i want to name my kids too.. haha

for girls i like.. Chloe, Mckensie, Heather, Abbey, Nicole, Michelle

for guys i like, shawn, brad, chad, ashton, aiden, brandon, mitchell


Does anyone know any good places where I can share my photos (*FOR FREE*) like Webshots and places like that and It would have a blocker so no one could copy n paste the pictures? Thx a bunch!! (link)
www.picturetrail.com


i'm 13 and haven't had a period yet. i know that's normal, but most of my friends have had theirs, and htey give me a hard time about it. first they'll say i'm not a woman, then they'll say i'm lucky! it gets annoying. what do i do?

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I remember when getting your period was like the most amazing thing in the world to begin with and its what everyone was talkin about. But you are lucky, once you get it you dont want it anymore, trust me. live it up while you can and just be thankful. and for your friends saying you arent a woman? thats beyond reasonably dumb, you guys are only 13, whether you have your period or not it doesnt classify you as a woman. I'm 15 and I wouldnt even classify myself as a woman, having your period doesnt make you a woman, it just means you hit puberty and your a teenager. And just ask them to stop and tell them that you are the lucky one and it sucks for them that they have it


i have this friend who thinks she's like really hot, but she's isn't. whenever you're at the mall or w/e she always all "that guy is so staring at me" or "he is so checking me out", when the guy is staring at ME. how can i break it to her w/o wrecking our friendship? (link)
haha, i used to have a friend like that and i HATED it, its soo annoying because she was like chubby and not pretty at all. Next time you guys are at the mall and she says that some guy is checking her out but hes actually checking you out, go up to the guy and ask him who he was looking at. that should set her straight.. if neither of you guys want to go up to the guy, just tell her i think hes looking at me or something, just whatver u do dont come out and tell her shes ugly or anything :-p haha



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