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Kissing... ;\
Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.
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I think you should only do it if your ready, and you know he isn't going to dump you right after and brag about it. But if you mess up, just be easy about it and laugh. Umm, other than that, I can't really help you since it depends on the guy. Besta Luck
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Aww.. i still remember the first time i ever made out with a guy. I was sooo nervous and so scared i wouldnt know how to do it or what to do. I think 14 is a good time for a first kiss. Making out comes naturally, i know its hard to believe i never believe it when peopletoldme it. But your boyfriend will start it, and you just kinda follow. It's seriously not hard at all, dont think to hard and get too worked up about it before it happens, because i assure you everything will be absolutely positively fine. you'll get the hang of it right away. It's normal to be scared since you have never made out. But it's actually kinda fun once you start.. Hope i helped <3 Let meknow how everything goes!!
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awe! makeing out comes naturally, i know you've heard that about 20 million times but it really does. You won't mess up, the only way I can think of somebody messing up is if they like puke on you or something drastic like that, other then that you can't really "mess up" Go with him, whatever he does with his lips, you do, if he uses tongue, use tongue too makeing out is fun no scary so enjoy it!---- hum to get a guy into it, play with his hair, touch him really close neat his dick, moan, back off for acouple of seconds and then get back into it, always keep your eyes closed. good luck!
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nothing you shouldbe carrying over your shoulders. i think you should just relax and go with the flow - there isnt a wrong or right way of kissing. first kisses are indeed scary but once you`ve done it you think to yourself - that wasnt bad at all. like i said go with the flow. good luck.
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Here are a few tips:
(1) Wear lip gloss, but the right kind.
Don't wear slippery, sticky, or gooey lip gloss. The kind that's like lip blam with a slight tint is good. I've tested different lip glosses out with guys, and the one i've found they like the most is Bonne Bell LipLix in The Last Strawberry. ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)) Don't wear foundation or a lot of makeup- at most, powder, maybe a little blush or eye shadow, no mascara or eyeliner.
(2) What to wear
Depends...if you have good legs, wear a miniskirt. If you don't, wear jeans. A cute tee is good, maybe in black, with a cute saying on the front. Wear your hair down and wavy. Don't put it back or up.
(3) Where to do it
As weird as it sounds, I've found the best place in actually in between the library bookshelves in the back.
Or at one of your houses.
Or the movies.
(4) Be prepared.
Bring breath mints- i've found IceBreakers Liquid Ice, though expensive, work the best- and a hair brush, along with lip gloss and a mirror, maybe some lotion. Wear a scent you know he likes.
(4) What to do
Cuddle for a few minutes. Sit in his hand. Maybe kiss him lightly, but let him make the first move. If he starts to kiss you regular, feel free to add tongue. Just move your tongue around his mouth GENTLY. As weird as it sounds, practive on your palm to be sure it's gentle. Move your tongue in a figure 8. Run your fingers through his hair. And enjoy!
Hope i helped! if you have any more questions, drop one in my inbox.
Kristy
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There are websites that have a lot of info on your first time making out, but when it happens you'll just know what to do! Good Luck and don't be nervous!
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lol It's ok, These are some pointers you should follow
1. Make sure your breath is fresh
2. Before you kiss him, look into his eyes that makes him really want to kiss him.
3.When you're kissing him pull him closer by his elbows.
4. Now everyone wants to know where to hold a guy while kissing but I figured that out, hold him on his waist, you're comfterable and he is too.
~**** the worst kiss is a frightened kiss, dont be scared, as long as you both are alone together and sharing this moment, you shouldnt be scared*****~
Hope I helped~
Kristen**
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You're not going to want to hear this, but I want to say it because it's true...so ignore me if you hate it!
You're 14 and you're going to kiss your boyfriend. That's so exciting! Just please consider this before "making out" with him:
1) You have only ONE "first kiss" to give to someone...are you positive this is the person you want to share it with?
2) You've got a LOT of time to find the "perfect guy" (which is what most girls really want)...wouldn't it be totally awesome to give HIM your first kiss?
3) If you're going to kiss him, please keep in mind that most guys really like to get physical...so if it's only a kiss you want, let him know beforehand. Otherwise you may be in trouble.
It's okay if you rate me badly (or don't rate me at all, either way). Sorry if I got you angry for answering your question.
P.S. One more thing: you've only been dating a few weeks...kissing is so much better and enjoyable when you do it with someone you REALLY know and love, not just the first guy who asks (remember that you may have more than one boyfriend in this life, and kissing won't be as special if you give that part of you to every one of them).
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Hey honey! There's no way you could mess up..Just go with the flow! Just be careful not to use a lot of tongue, cuz it could get messy and out of control..Good luck! Give me details on it!
Bethany
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The first kiss jitters are usually expected, dont worry everyone is nervous and unsure. On my first kiss i felt the same way, but dont worry you will relax. Your at the right time in your relationship that you can kiss, and be comfortable. There is no way to mess up in a kiss unless you miss him mouth, which is most unlikely to happen so dont worry. Some tips on kissing are...dont wear lip gloss, bc it may cause a slipage, keep your eyes closed bc it can be distracting staring at someones cheek. Let him make the first move and if it is a solid relationship then he should know if your ready. Dont be scared, it is a great thing to go throw and it is alot of fun ;) LOL! But anyways there is nothing to fear about kissing it is just a normal thing. Hope it all works out....
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hey. my name is tia. im also 14 f. take it from someone thats been in ur position before. i never knew how to makeout the first time... i just went along wit wut he was doing. all you really do is move ur tounge in the way he is. let him take the lead, and then follow. dont get to nervouse, there's nothing to be nervours about. trust me, its not as hard as it looks!
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