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I REALLY i mean REALLY like this boy, hes in 2 of my classes and i have a serious boyfriend but my boyfriend knows that i like him but he thinks its just a "crush" so he dosent care. But when i see this boy i have so many butterfly's and i want him so badly!! he has Gorgeous eyes and hes my type but he says i have really small eyes and my friends say i dont but how do i get over him or get his attention i want to be with my boyfriend but i just want this kid to like me! so that if me and my boyfriend break up i have a chance with him! (link)
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Well first of all..You need to find out if you really like this boy and if he's worth ruining your relationship with your boyfriend..You have a serious boyfriend, do you really want to jeoperdize everthing to be with someone that you have a big crush on?..You need to take time aprt from the boyfriend, and think about what you want to do and be honest with yourself honey, and your serious boyfriend..Good luck
Bethany
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okay... i have this friend. and we have been friends since we were 4. and bff's in 3rd 4th and 5th grade. but in 6th grade we didnt really talk. but knoe 7th grade,and she went out with htis biy. then they broke up.... and now i like him. he only wants to be my friend though. but yesterday he asked her out. and i am so mad at her for saying yew. b/c i had thought we were bffl? what should i do?
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Hey Hun..did she know that you liked him?..But if you guys are back to being good friends then you should tell her3 about whats going on in your head..Dont let this bring you down..If she knew if you liked him then she isnt a good friend to you sweetie..Theres more people out there you could fall head over heels for (or like)..Good luck
Bethany
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Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.
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Hey honey! There's no way you could mess up..Just go with the flow! Just be careful not to use a lot of tongue, cuz it could get messy and out of control..Good luck! Give me details on it!
Bethany
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Hi, im 13 years old. Well i think im fat, i weigh 90 pounds. All my friends think im like one of the skinniest people in the school, but i dont think that, so i decided to not eat, except for a small dinner because my mom would make me eat dinner. People try to like put food in my mouth for me to eat but i wont let them. In 3 days, i lost already 2 pounds. People think im anorexic. what should i do? (link)
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Honey you're not fat, and dont listen to what ANYONE tells you..Be yourself, and do what you like to do, and eat what you like to eat..Don't hold back..Good luck!
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i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!! (link)
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I use Clean n Clear deep face cleanser..and the after clean you put on..Also I use Biore to clean my pores with..They work awesome! Good luck with what you choose!
Bethany
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I bought a house back in Oct. 2004. When we were moving in, we noticed that there were still things from the previous owners. They said that they had a few things to take out of the house at closing. They also had said that there was a large pile of brush and other trash items in the back yard that were going to be picked up later that day. This did not happen. They are now telling us that they don't have to clean it up and that it is our responsibility. The problem is that in our area we have to pay for someone to come and pick up that stuff, or pay to drop it off at the landfill.
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I definatly think its their responsibility..They left it there and then they said they would come back and clean it up..You could get into something legal about that..Let me know what happens! good luck
Bethany
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my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do? (link)
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Not to sound mean or anything, you sound like a GREAT friend and all, but you should worry about yourself, and let them get caught..It's their own fault for cheating, just dont do their mistakes sweetie..Maybe you should just say something to them about it, in a kind way atleast..good luck!
Bethany
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last nite i put another peircing in my ears above the one in the lobe so its just 2 pericings and i think i did it wrong. when i touch it its rely tender and it hurts and theres a weird lumpish kinda thing when i press it a little with my index finger in front and thumb in back, and i think this might be because i didnt sterlize anything and they were cheap earings, but i got other pericings profesionaly done like 5 years ago and theres been a little ball circle thing i can feel ever since, is that even normal?well i took my new peicing on the left side out because i did it crooked but i dont know what to do because it seems like my OLD hole hurts more but i dont know why it would..and my other new peircing on the right side hurts a real lot. ive cleaned them out with peroxide so the only earing thats in is an earring in my New hole on the RIght side because i dont wanna take it out because i want to keep the hole! please someone help i dont know whats wrong! i ratehigh! (link)
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Hey..Just keep your earrings out and see if it gets worse or better..I would get in professional done next time..I do pierce my ears thou..You HAVE and i mean HAVE to make sure you sterilize the things you use, and use a good pair of earrings..If you dont they could get infected just like you might have gotten...Be careful next time, and lemme know if anything else occurs..good luck, best wishes!
Bethany
Well I would atleast take the earring out and clean it, or even buy a new one because it's going to get infected and I dont want it to do that because thats very painful..
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ok i have to tell you the first part of the stroy...my best friend and her boyfriend hooked me up with his best friend Blake well me and Blake talked for awhile and he was suppose to ask me out on V-day well the saturday he went back to his ex...and we have no idea why...
well last night Steve called me again with another guy...which happens to live up the street from me and happens to be another best friend (there like a crue of 4guys) well i was like ok i'll give this one a shot...my best friend things he will be better than Blake was and that i should go for it...i'm kind of scared of getting screwed over again...but the other guy Steve and my best friend they all said that everything will be ok...
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I think you should definatly take a shot with this guy..You never know unless you try something..He could end up being the love of your life..You're supposed to take risks in your life..Good luck! I wanna hear details!
Bethany
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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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Hey Hun..You just need to be calm and try not to be nervous..My first time was alright, I was very very nervous..But don't feel like you need to rush yourself into anything..Good luck and lemme know what happens!
bethany
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Ok theres this guy.. i really like him BUT him & this grl just ended.. i mean they went out last yr for a week.. & broke up but ever since then they've been like kinda like a couple but not? & newayss well i rly like himmm & like he calls me @ night & sumtimes i call him.. it goes back & forth & we just talk bout nothing rly just i dno.. & he always begs me to go the dances.. & hes always like go 2 the dance & ill dance with u.. i dno if thats just him kidding around? its kinda iffffy.. i dno .. duz it seem like he likes me? or no.. i dno.. he said he likes someone new.. & his profile says the same.. PLZ SOMEONE HELPPPPP! (link)
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Well sweetz, it is possible that he likes you. Or maybe he just is in need of a good friend right now obviously since him and his gf just ended. Anywayz, you should try and talk to him about it and find out who this 'new person' is..It could be you, or maybe it's not..If it's not dont sweat it, just become great friends with him then something could happen in the future..Goood luck honey
Bethany
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Well i am kinda inlove with this guy which i have never talked to him and he is older then me and he lives in my town and i always see him driving his car as i stare at him just imangining if he could once be with me.... I mean everyone in my town knows him but their all like if you go out with him he is nothing but dirt he droped outta school and nowworks my mom tells me she would suport me if i went out with him but i dont know what to ask him or i dont how to talk to him do you think i should try to or do u think he aint worth it????? because everynight i cry in bed and wishing he would go out with and give me a chance what should i do???? (link)
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Alright honey..Its okay don't cry at night..What you need to do is not listen to everyone else's opinion..You need to decide if he's worth it..And deep down in your heart something should tell you if it's right..By the way it sounds you're really head over heels for him, and that could scare him in a way because you said you were younger than him..But good luck with everything, and best wishes!!
Bethany
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The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx (link)
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your period can be irregular at times..Donjt sweat it unless it happens consistantly..It could be from stress..or something else..good luck!
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does anyone know any really good shampoo and/or conditioner that works well and is good for oily hair?
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I use herbal essense and pantene pro v...it works good just dnt use as much conditioner..juts put it at the bottem half or ur hair!
for your information i didnt even read the advice that the other person gave you..so next time u try to get advice dont act like a bitch after you get some help..
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im a 13/f and no one likes me everyone spreads rumors ant talks about me all of my friends r backstabing bitches!! sometimes on the i sit alone and the highschool people r mean everytime i go to school one person or the other talks about me what should i do??????
I RATE 5'S for evert answer that doesnt piss me off!!!
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Listen honey..No one matters in your life that makes fun of you, or even spreads rumors. don't pay any attention to anyone..Im sure you're a great girl..And you deserve to be treated that way..Just keep to yourself, or even open up and just have fun..Maybe even laugh with them, it co uld work
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err y is it that when love comes around that i always end up getting hurt...i really dont get it...i mean i think im doing what i think is right..maybe im not...what should i do... (link)
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First off..How old are you? Most likely you're young and you will findthat one person eventally in your life..You just have to 3wait around..Itll be that person that does everything for you, and treats you good..Okay Im 18..and engaged to the guy I wanna spend the rest of my life with, yes I might be young but I do have the feelings inside that are telling me to stay with him..Love comes around and it leaves but evntually it will turn out great..Good luck! :)
Bethany
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I think I have a problem with sleeping, for about 4 months now, I can't get to sleep until about 2-3am, even on school nights. I'm always tired in the day at school, and I find it difficult to concentrate in lessons because I keep wishing the time would go faster so I can go home to bed. Because after school, when I get home, I go to bed at about 4pm and then wake up to do my homework at 8pm. I'm wide awake after then so I can't sleep until 3am. I've tried staying awake after school, but I was still wide awake until 3am. I can't keep not sleeping after school because I'm too tired to do homework when I get home, and if I don't do my homework I'll get loads of detentions. My mum thinks I should go to the doctors, but I'm refusing, because I'm terrified that they'll do a blood test on me, the thought makes me feel sick. How can I get into a normal sleeping pattern without going to the doctors, and if I have to go to the doc's, am I allowed to refuse to have a blood test? Thanks =] (link)
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Well sometimes it has something to do with your eating habits. If you eat good, and don't eat alot of sugar then you should be able to fall asleep easier..What I do is take medicine for it..I just bought some kind of medicine at walmart..but thats my advice..Good luck!
Bethany
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hi i really liek this guy.he is 2 years older than me.he said that he woudl go out with me its just the age difference. how can i get him to change his mind? i rate high. (link)
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Hey..I think you should be friends with him for a while, and usually he will change his mind on the whole age thing. Maybe he really isnt interested in you and thats why he's saying that not to hurt your feelings..Just do me a favor and get to know him more, and talk to him a lot..It will work :)
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