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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...
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I am sorry but please hold back temptation it just isn't good for you .Think of all the things that could happen ... Condoms don't work always .... Herpes .... ( Very uncomfortable) having a baby at a young age keeps you from the fun things ... You should wait ... Don't be stupid and start so soon .
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Well, whenever he eats you out, you wont JUST be laying there, It will feel good and im sure you will moan...as for the lowjobs and handjobs...handjobs-it is basically like jacking a guy off...(well, duhh...) Dont grip it too tight, and go different speeds...if you feel that he isnt enjoying it ask him what he likes....blowjobs...i cant reall tell you HOW, but i can give you some tips...use your tongue, dont just suck it...use both, and since it is your first time, i wouldnt recommend deep throating, as it might result in you throwing up on him, unless you dont have any gag reflexes...and if you want it to seem like your deep throating, put your hand under your mouth...(well, what i mean is, where you cant go any farther) and go as the same motion your mouth is. And, kiss and lightly lick the head of his penis, they love it!! well, that is all i cant hink of 4 now...hope i helped
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Handjobs and blowjobs arn't hard. They honestly come naturally.If you want to know like, step by step then comment in my inbox. When he eats you out make noise, moan, whatever comes out naturally, let it, also guys what you to close your eyes because they don't want you just staring at them. Or 69. Then you have something to do too :o) haha well i hope that helped!
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Well, I'm not sure what you do, but I doubt he is sure either. That's what makes it "exciting". I think he should be happy that he is gonna actually get some anyway. Besta Luck
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well, You should be able to tell your boyfriend that you dont exactly know what to do, he should understand, and that shouldnt matter either and also maybe he will feel the same way. Well, you should be able to talk to him about it!!
so try that!
and i havent done all of that, but i can say that i talked to my boyfriend about all of it, and its alot easier that way.
But, I haven't actually done it all.
Hope I Helped-
Always There,
*KeLs*
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to me, it sounds like you aren't ready. if you are you wouldn't hesitate to do it. i mean, you will get nervous, but don't force yourself to do it if you aren't ready or don't feel comfortable doing it. don't listen to what others say about that stuff, because everyone is different. it might not come all too natural for you, but that shouldn't matter if you really love and trust your boy..
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yeah this IS cute lol... ummm but its kinda gross to explain LOL. Im 15 and havent done anything yet but as far as i know you just lay there. if you guys want to have sex, but you're bervous about doing anything else just tell him. You guys sound really close, and he should understand. hope it helps
ya be SAFE, and i guess have fun lol
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aw don't worry.. this is really normall. I went throught the same exact thing and i was nervous too, but its really good tht your ready because thats the most important part. So for h/j's and b/j's .. well theres a first for evrything. at first it might be weird but you will get used to it (that sounds really weird) but like if you too are close (which it sounds like you are) then it helps a lot. Just get a few tips from maybe your other friends if they've done that. but like kiss him a little too and do what you think he might like.. lol, its kinda too weird to explain *how to give them*, but i'm sure you'll be fine. And for eating out.. i agree that it might be a weird concept but since you too are ready and are probalby close then don't worry about all that stuff. and if your not comfortale with it, then just tell him. But yea you do just basically lay there lol and enjoy i guess. and then the rest will come as it happens... ehh lol well sorry that all sounds a little weird but i hope i helped. good luck be safe have fun =D
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well um hand jobs theres nothing much to it.. like really if your doing something wrong your dude will help ya out trust me my baby did..um anyways about givin head well im not real sure bout it.. cause ie never done it..um when he eats out no its not going to be weird.. you might think so at first but once he gets into it you'll be alright and you'll enjoy.. hope i helped much luv dez
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aww this is kind of cute...you really shouldn't be nervous...ok yeah you should...haha yall could talk about it before you do it just to see you know what to like...eating out...yeah you'll be laying there but you'll most likely like it...if his good at it!...i guess hj and bj comes natural...but from my point of veiw...i hate doing it...it makes me feel uncomfortable...but that's just me...but hey yall have been dating for over 1/2 a year and yall are pretty close...so there really shouldn't be nothing to be nervous about cuz yall are so close to each...and yall can talk about this and shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it...i hope i didn't confuse you! haha
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Hey Hun..You just need to be calm and try not to be nervous..My first time was alright, I was very very nervous..But don't feel like you need to rush yourself into anything..Good luck and lemme know what happens!
bethany
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The #1 rule is basically DONT BE NERVOUS!!!! You dont just lay there, kiss him, make noises, do the same to him, kiss his neck, make out with him! Good luck!
♥ Michelle
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