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Let um down easy...


Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 6:31 pm

I have this guy that I liked about 2 years ago and he found out about it. Now, I don't like him like that (AT ALL!!!) How do I let him down easy, because I just broke up with a long time boyfriend and I know that he's about to ask me out. He got mad and said REALLY loud how I told him that I liked him when I mentioned that I didn't like anyone at the moment. THANKS!

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stephers1705 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:02 pm:
letting people down is not easy to do and no matter what their feelings are probably going to get hurt. tell him that you are just gettin over your other boyfriend and you arent ready for another yet. or tell him that you just want to be friends! =] hope this helped!

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LilMia811 answered Monday August 9 2004, 9:11 pm:
just simply tell him that you are no longer interested, that that was a long time ago, and you just dont feel that way anymore. if he doesnt understand that then oh well. you were ncie and said what you had to say.

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RoNdEllWhItE88 answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:43 pm:
u have to do this the mature way u have to sit him down and talk to him strait up juss tell him that that was a long time ago and things have changed and u dont have feelings for him anymore like u used to and if he dont undastand and dont wanna exceot it then thats his problem

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SweetStarx89 answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:43 pm:
Hi. its much easier if you talk to him one on one. because it's easier to talk and everything you guys talk about will be only for you guys to hear. tell him that you used to have a thing for him but now after all that and everything you felt like you need to just fly solo for now especially breaking up with a long time boyfriend. i'm sure if you guys are friends he will totally respect your decision and since he likes you and is about to ask you out i'm sure he will understand even more...let me know if you need anymore help.take care..I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar

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aTrEzZ246 answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:36 pm:
You should have told him in the beginning...cause he prolly has always liked you...but just tell him you know that was in the past so you actually dont really like him anymore.

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UpOnCloudNine01 answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:21 pm:
Just tell him that over time you've realized you two are better as friends..and that you wouldnt want to jepordize the relationship you already have.. or tell him you still havent gotten over your last bf.. *Sarah*

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AdviceMistress answered Monday August 9 2004, 6:54 pm:
just tell him that you don't like him like that but that you would like to become his best friend!! just tell him that, that was then and this is now!!


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