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She's a slut...she doesn't realize
I have a long time friend who has turned.....slutty. She doesn't think anything that she is doing is wrong at all. How do I get her back to well.....her? What do I say or do?
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just talk to her and be like "i'm trying to be a good friend and i don't want to see you get hurt..pregnant..or ruin your life..please understand this from my point of view" or something like that! =) good luck!
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Tell her that wut she is doin IS wrong. tell her to look in the mirror and c how much shes changed. Have a long conversation n then say sumthin like I miss the old you and leave her wit sumthin to think about. Hopefully it works if not im sorry!
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tell her that she needs to chill out and you want her to cuz you care for her. tell her she could end up pregnant or get an std or hiv/aids.
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I am in the same situation with my friend and i dont know what to do either...all you have to do is support he decision even if it really is hard to deal with.if it is bugging u alot just ask her why she has turned that way..hope i helped xoxo
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Tell her what she as turned into. If she gets mad, her loss. I know what you are feeling right now. You need to tell her the truth. Hope I helped! PLease rate me!
xoxo, Maris
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Tell her she's a slut and no guy is ever going to like her for her and if she doesn't care then thats her own problem. you cant change a ho if she doesn't want to change
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Tell heR youR conceRned about heR health, safety, and well being. Remind heR that theRe aRe idiotic, judgemental people out theRe who will ultimately judge heR on this. Hopefully she'd neveR want the fRiendship of a judgemental idiot, but all the same, it's damaging to a Reputation. Hope I helped!! =D
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Talk to her! She might not realize her actions and clothes (etc.) are slutty. If she refuses to listen and doesnt care how you feel, maybe its time to let this girl go. Sucks, but... you dont want to be judged by her reputation.
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shes just being herself and if she wants 2 b slutty then let her shes just doin new things cuz shes sick of the old things cuz peeps like 2 move on u no ? well tell if i helped k
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iight yu cant change her if she doesnt want to change.. now i had a friend that became a slut nd i told her straight up how she was being nd she didnt care nd didnt want to change for herself... i mean thurr was nuttin really i culd do about it... nd i didnt want to see her put herself thro that... so i tried tlkin to her nd everything.. until i jus culdnt take it no more nd i stop bein her friend... so0o jus try talking to her...tell her how yu feel...thurr`z nuttin else yu can reallii d0
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u have to tell her strait up u r a hoe and u need to have like one of the guyz that shes been wit tell her shes anhoe or make it really obvious hes juss want the goods, its kinda harsh but its the best way to work. $M$
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Well you said it was a long time friend so you should prbly be really careful when talking about it to her because you don't wanna lose her completely. Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't listen then oh well at least you tried. Just don't hang out with her when she's doing something you don't agree with... just because she has became this way doesn't mean she isn't the same person you were friends with before. **Kacie**
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Tell her that u feel like she is messing her life up... if she doesnt listen than forget about it.... if shes not willin to change theres nothing u can do about it... and if u constantly are tellin this is wrong that is wrong shes gonna feel like ur tryin to be her mom and thats gonna push her away from you... so try once and if it doesnt work just dont worry about it cuz shes gonna have to learn on her own
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there isn't much that you can do but talk to her. and tell her that you'll always be there for her. she'll regret it someday but she'll be very grateful that you are there.
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hopefully she is going through a phrase but if not you have to except the thing you cannot not change and use that wisdom to know the difference!! the point i'm trying to make is that you can't change even if you want to she is gonna be who she wants to be!! :)
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