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ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do (link)
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it is hard to block out what someone says and feel perfectly okay with it! i know that for sure! but just remember you are who you are because of whats inside--i know that sounds lame but its true! as long as you are yourself people will love you! and anyone who doesnt is real ignorant! but if you see them in the hall just act like nothin happened and wave..maybe they will get over being mad at you! well i hope this helped! =]
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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!! (link)
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oh neat!! youve gotta tell me what movie you are in! and all that stuff! =] well i think that you should tell you agent about your problem and ask him if you could maybe film it on weekends or the summer! hope this helped!
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ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.
well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.
i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..
so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.
WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..
love, manda (link)
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well you never really know...they might actually be just like you! some of them might be rich but still nice! anyway..just be yourself!
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This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
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yep guys will probably start askin you out! but the main thing is that you confident with yourself! p.s..good luck with the guys!
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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do (link)
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hmm...well focus on 1 group! meet a couple of the people in that group and be sure to be really nice! you know how groups are they might get to talkin and say well hey this girl is really nice maybe we should invite her to go shopping or something..! who knows! but whatever you do be friendly! i hope everything works out to the best!
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I have this guy that I liked about 2 years ago and he found out about it. Now, I don't like him like that (AT ALL!!!) How do I let him down easy, because I just broke up with a long time boyfriend and I know that he's about to ask me out. He got mad and said REALLY loud how I told him that I liked him when I mentioned that I didn't like anyone at the moment. THANKS! (link)
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letting people down is not easy to do and no matter what their feelings are probably going to get hurt. tell him that you are just gettin over your other boyfriend and you arent ready for another yet. or tell him that you just want to be friends! =] hope this helped!
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Ok i like this guy hes 16 and im 13 he has a gf but neway hes always being mean to me i guess.bcuz like wenever i talk to him hes like shutup jack*ss or w.e queer stupid stuff lyk that we used to b realli good friends and he would play around like that now i dunno if hes playin around or not.Do u think he likes me or is he jus bein mean??
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hmm...well it could be either way! sometimes boys at that age are really grumpy so i wouldnt blame ya if he was bein mean he just needs some time to get over that phase...trust me i know i have a brother that is about his age! but he might just be real believable and when he says that stuff its sounds like he is really puttin ya down! just dont worry about it and give it some time! =] hope this helped!
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Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
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bad idea.. once you take you might get addicted and have to spend you money to buy more and more and more! and the first time you try it might cause death! or you might just go plain crazy! if i were you id skip out on the party and give myself a pat on the back! just remember youll be losin some good friends!
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I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
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think of all the reasons you have to live longer! and what have you accomplished so far? and make a list.. you were put on this earth for a purpose..who knows you might just end up a superstar or you might save someones live! you dont want to end your life not knowing what you could have done with it! Hope this helped =]
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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
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well the guy she likes wont want a girlfriend thats all cut up and has scars everywhere! tell her to take her pain out on pillows and throw them at the door and punch um..whatever it takes! just tell her not cause any harm to herself! hope this helped =]
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i have liked this guy for about a year now and we hung out alot when my best friend and his started to date and i herd that he liked me well now his best friend moved away and i have talked to him all summer and i hed he likes this other girl what should i do im so cofused (link)
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hmm..sounds like you might have heard both of those things from a bunch of gossipers...who knows what to believe! you cant know the truth until you ask him! if you are a little nervous to ask him that just wait a while and see what happens..the gossipers might have a something else to say about someone else he likes and it might just be you! =] hope this helped!
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well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??
i rate rele good!! (link)
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hmm...well mostly its thought that women are really hard to please and understand but they arent the only ones...its the men too! he is most likely flirtin but...i dont know sometimes if people dont have siblings they take they evil anger out on others! its really hard to tell but if you really like this guy then try to talk about stuff that interests you! try to find something that he is interested in too and talk about it. if he keeps on bein mean then forget him..he isnt worth it!! but..he might just be kidding with the name callin! and when you are trying to talk to him about the interest thing bite the inside of of the right side of your lip that will calm you down..but dont talk like this! you might sound a bit funny!
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Alrighty... I'm going to ask you guys for your opinion of this situation I am in. My parents aren't close.... At all. They're basically room mates, and not even anymore since my dad JUST got this taveling job. This is like his 2nd month. Anyway, my parents have always faught. Since I could remember. I remember being like 7 and having to tell my crying brother and sister that mommy and daddy are okay, they're just a little mad at eachother. Ya know? So the fighting doenst bother me at all anymore... Kinda annoying... But doesn't bother me. Well, my mom does love my dad. But my dad rather be a jerk to her at times. Really bad. My mom is so emotionally wrecked but this its nuts. My mom and I are very close... Very. She tells me EVERYTHING. So.. Im going to get to my problem thing. It goes back to when i was like 9 (I'm now 14)... My dad was away on business for about a month or so, and my mom had an affair. The thing was she told me right then, and there. Which I totally respect because not very many parents can be that truthful. My siblings were too young to even get what an affair was so she just told me until my sister was old enough. Anyway, I saw the way he treated my mom for that month or so... and I thought... Hey she's happy. You all have no idea the stuff that my dad puts my mom through. But I was kind of uncomfortable. I wouldn't talk to her lover. I don't remember if he knew I knew. But he always wondered why I wasnt as close ti him as my bro and sis. But we moved away. And my mom talked about him for a while and still does here and there. So it was back to my mom, and my dad... Fighting, arguing, and unhappy. For a while. My mom became super depressed. And even I, for sometimes she'd vent by expressing her thoughts and feelings with me. So I was kind of upset. But dude, I'm like 14... Kind of hard to understand all the way. But yeah... So my dad took this travel job, and my mom has always, always, always been suspocous of him cheating... (lol hmm)... Anyway, My mom has this friend here. And I always thought something was between them... But my mom ALWAYS told me they were just friends. Until tonight he came over (my dads away), But he told my mom the kids had to be in bed. My mom knew I was up... She just told me to be quiet while he was here. Sooo... They talked and stuff and after he left my mom wanted to talk to me. And we talked about me for a while then we talked about her and her friend. She was telling me how her friend made her so happy and that he noticed my mom lost alot of weight, but my dad never said anything... And things that her friend did that my dad doesnt... So I was like... Okay... she's just looking for a friend. It's cool it makes her happy. And then she told me about an argument my dad and her had before he left about how my dad treats her, and how she was going to have sex with someone new. And my mom told me how she was taking about it with my sister. And yeah put 2 and 2 together... So I don't know what to do, or even what to think. I'm kinda immune to like getting mad about it.. I just don't think I like him... But I want to know everyones oppinion or what you think I should do. I mean I bet you're like.. wow.. you should go on jerry springer... lol, no, but really... I dunno why they don't devorce. My mom does care about my dad so much but I guess shes sick of the hurt and abuse.... LOL hmm yeah... What do you all think? (link)
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Well it is hard for you to have to deal with someone elses problem and there is really nothin you can do except for talk it over with you mom! tell her how you feel! cause that is very confusing to have a husband and another man. if i was answering you moms advice i would tell her go with the one she loved..which would probably be the other man..but she cant keep it a secret from her husband! divorce would probably be the right thing...just sit her down and talk to her about this and maybe you can get something worked out! =] hope this helped!
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I have a lot of cool sayings in my profile. Most in whick I made up. Every time I look at me friends profile, she has all my same sayings in mine. I get so frusterated! Now, she just IMed me witrh her advice colum user name and it is almost the same as mine! Should I tell her how I feel? Please, I need help fast! (link)
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oh boy..this sounds like one of my friends! you should definatly tell her! if you dont want her to get mad though...put a copywrite at the bottem of all your profiles! if she still doesnt get the hint tell her she has to put your name at the bottem of all the quotes she stole cause she shouldnt get credit for what you did! if you dont want your quotes on her profile just camly talk to her...i wish there was another way but there is probably no way she will change it without you talkin to her! =] hope this helped!
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