ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do
stephers1705 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:08 pm: hmm...well focus on 1 group! meet a couple of the people in that group and be sure to be really nice! you know how groups are they might get to talkin and say well hey this girl is really nice maybe we should invite her to go shopping or something..! who knows! but whatever you do be friendly! i hope everything works out to the best! [ stephers1705's advice column | Ask stephers1705 A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 9:45 am: Continue to make friends wit more people... eventually u will get close to them... make plans to do sumthing over the weekend and invite every1 to go out... ( movies/food/ur house if ur comfortable having them over ) [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
Ryan answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 4:48 am: be yourself, you will make friends in no time! like anyone that is new anywhere you have to establish yourself and work from there. [ Ryan's advice column | Ask Ryan A Question ]
EmbracedxRain answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 1:42 am: Give it time! Its like that for a lot of people in the beginning, in a month or two you'll be just like everyone else and have your group of friends too. For now just try to get to know people and see how it goes =) Hope I helped *Amber* [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
MeganKristine answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 12:28 am: You've met people. Thats good, blosom those "relationships" into something more close. If you can meet people, and they like you as a person, keep doing what your doing. Just keep it real, and be yourself. [ MeganKristine's advice column | Ask MeganKristine A Question ]
s0cceris4me answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:35 pm: Yeah I definitely know how that goes. I would start talking to people, like the ones in your classes and what not, and eventually you'll find people with your similar interests, and you'll have good friends before you know it! [ s0cceris4me's advice column | Ask s0cceris4me A Question ]
-wizerwordz- answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:28 pm: oo, i was in the same situation when i started high school i just meved in the town and didnt know anyone. i just talked to people around me and i got to know everyone, made some friends during my lunch period, so dont worry u should be fine, unless ur staying away from people and not talking to them.
but either way, you should be fine, it takes some time to get sued to a new school.
dotdotdot32 answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:28 pm: well, you say you JUST started high school, seems like youve been doing good so far, meeting some people. but you have to make sure youre not being shy and quiet. you should put yourself out there and introduce yourself to new people. your not going to find a best friend the first few days at a new school. good luck. [ dotdotdot32's advice column | Ask dotdotdot32 A Question ]
soljette answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:27 pm: get to know them better, maybe you guys will become close. just give it a lil more time where you can meet new people. itll all fall in place in time [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
ShelbzAdvice92 answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:27 pm: Okay, sounds to me like your too shy. Go and go talk to people. Otherwise, no one will notice you. Talk/flirt..get to know people. That way, you can get more friends and fit in.
XBarbieGurl2008X answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:25 pm: Well if you're shy or something, then just talk to those people that you met already more and like hang out with them or something. Or you could throw a party and invite everyone to get to know them better.. [ XBarbieGurl2008X's advice column | Ask XBarbieGurl2008X A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:16 pm: Don't be afRaid to speak up in class. That's one of the best ways to get kid's attention. On the way to class... say hello to some of youR fellow classmates if you seem 'em. And if you get to school eaRly, and you see one oR two of 'em togetheR, just go up and staRt talkin'. It's difficult, I know.. same thing happened to me when I staRted high school - I didn't know a single peRson! But you'll do okay! Best wishes, fRom someone who completely undeRstand what you'Re going thRough! And anotheR thing.. make shoRe to make the most out of youR high school days, you'll find they come and go extRemely quickly! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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