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My name is Amanda. I am 17. I love helping people out since i can't help myself and i dont think anyone else can either. If i seem like a bitch its because i say how i feel and i really dont care what you think about it. I dont change myself for NO ONE. If you dont like me, then tough shit cuz i dont care!

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Does AIM store your conversations?

Acutally it does store your conversations. It puts your conversations in a folder on your computer. Its call AIM LOGS, well on my comp it is. I dont know about your computer but my compter stores them. Hope i Helped

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okay.. well i think i started my peroid lol.. okay well .. i had this reddish brown discharge since saturday and now today and yesterday its been pure red.. did i start ? and its only noticable when i wipe and theres alot on the tp.. but none comes out in to the toilet .. can you explain that?

yes hunnie you did get your period! the same thing happens to me sometimes so dont worry about it! hope i helped

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ok i was talkin online wuit mi bff 2day and i was
like i got a lighter blonde hair colour cuz i got
blonde hair and she was like iming her cuzzin
and tellin all this stuff behind mi back and i love mi bff 2 death but like shes doin all that kinda stuff 2 me wut should i do?

yeah if she was a real friend she wouldnt talk about you behind your back. Just ask her about it and ask her if she can stop. If that doesnt work then i would just suggest to forget about her and move on. i know it may be hard but if she was a real friend then she wouldnt talk about you like that. Hope i helped

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ok, my school is starting in about a week, and i jus got my braces off. how do i make them look sparkly white in just 5 full days straight? i want them to look as white as they can get. please help me? how can I do it, wut are sum ways? thank-you

i would suggest buying a kit that whitens your teeth in 7 days. Crest has a kit out but i forget what its called. Or if you cant afford that or dont want to try it but a good brand of toothpaste that is shown to whiten your teeth and brush 3 times a day or after everything you eat. Hope i helped

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i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal?

Yes that is normal! i get that too and im still a virgin.

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i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity?

yes, you have lost your virginity. And i dont think it is a big mistake.

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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back

First i think you should confront her and see whasts up. If that doesnt work, as hard as it may be, try and find a new best friend. If she is mad at you just because you eat meat and she doesnt thats stupid. Try to hang out with other friends and meet new people. It may be hard but if she doesnt want to be friends with you all because you eat meat, then shes not worth it. hope i helped

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how do you change the box under where your pic is that says, message me, add me, ect. ect.?

Some layout websites and stuff have info on that kinda stuff. i like this one

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=20161480&Mytoken=20050808130641

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does anyone know any funny pointless songs?
Ex. (Stacy's Mom, Crazy Frog, Hampster Dance, Etc.)
Just any funny songs that you could laugh at, know any?

i think Roses by outcast is a really funny song haha
hope i helped!

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I'm 13 and never been kissed all my friends have. and all my friends have boyfriends and i don't, is there something wrong with me. I think it might be because I take things slow with guys. please help!!!!!!!!!!!

There is nothing wrong with you hunnie! im 16 and i never really had my first kiss either. Just stupid little kisses during truth or dare. But just wait it out and it will happen sooner or later. But your first kiss should be special and romantic not just like with someone you dont even know. So i would just wait and not try to hard to look desperate to get kissed. Hope i helped!

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im really tired of being single and miss having a boyfriend, but im gonna be a Jr. and i think i should get serious about school and my future. Should i get a boyfriend or just worry about school?

THANX
-twiSted

Well you should worry more about school but a boyfriend is always good. I havent had a boyfriend in highschool yet but im not worried because being single means that you can play around and flirt all you want =) lol hope i helped!

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at my dads house, (which im going there now) theres nothing to do. There's nothing ever on TV, i dont do anything with music there, theres nothing to do online, i cant have any friends over, i cant go anywhere, and theres nothing to eat! lol. So what could i do there? thanks i rate 5's.

I agree with the answer below me. There are so many things to do but if worst comes to worst, just sleep! lol or just try to convince your dad it let you go to the mall or something. Hope you find something fun to do!

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we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.

Well i think that you should deffinatly talk to your best friend and see whats up. Just ask her if she wants to hang out a couple of days ahead. Also your friends are "real friends". If they have someone else to hang out with they may not want a third person or something. This happens to me too, so your not the only one! but i just go out and find another person to hang out with and stuff. Hope i helped.

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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
thanks

Okay first off you didnt screw up. You were probably just scared to tell anyone that you got raped because i know that i would be wicked scared if that happened to me. You should deffiantly tell someone, a counsler, friend, or parent. Its not your fault that you went out with him and all the evidence may not be gone. Just simply say "I got raped." Its going to be hard but you need to speak up because getting raped is a serious matter and if you dont say anything he may do it again. Hope i helped.

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ok i have a myspace and i've figured out how to put a backround on but how do you put music on it or does it go in the same place as a layout does? please help! thanx!

yah go to a website where they have music videos, i like http://www.urbnmix.net (but you can to to anywebsite that has music) and just paste it into any of your sections, like about me, who i'd like to meet and those things. Then you have a video! hope i helped!

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Does anybody know any good programs that would help me make icons? I already have Gif Builder, but it messes up my icons and makes them black and white when they are supposed to be colored. I have a MAC OS X so any programs that are compatable with macs would be helpful.

the program i use is Paint Shop Pro. it works really good and i like it. But you would need to buy it or search google for a free trial! hope i helped sweetie!

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I was recently torn between two guys and now i finally realized that i love my ex. Now that im back with him, we never talk and we never see each other. I love him to DEATH but i dont know what to do...Anyone know what to do?!

well i think that you should ask him to make time to see you and hang out. If that doesn't work then maybe it wasn't ment to be. I know if that was my boyfriend, i would ask him right off the bat if he wanted to hang out! but yah hope i helped!

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I heard that you are suppost to shave... and i dont know if thats true if guys really like it shaved or not... and do you shave it all off or what?

if you want to shave it then you can. some guys perfer to have it shaved and some dont. And yes, i shave it all off.

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my boyfriend just recently told me that he still had feelings for his ex, but he still liked mel.Should i stay w/ him or tell him that its over?

hey i know this is a little late but i have some advice for you if you still want it. Well, if my boyfriend still had feelings for his ex then i would wait a little while then see what he does about it. If he really wants her over you then he will do something about it. But just wait it out and see what happens, but if you feel like he is really cheating on you the buh-bye to him! anyways sorry about the delay i havent checked this thing in a while! hope i helped !

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Alright this is kind of weird... but i mean i want to know if this just happens to me. Alright when i masturbate i do it for a while and what not, but like after a while it gets really tender and i'm not turned on anymore and i get this pulse feeling down there. and my boyfriend has like rubbed down there and it happened. Does that mean i orgasmed? Or what is it? Sorry that sounds SO dumb but I have no idea. Is it just me?! help people!

actually im notquite sure whut it is .. sorry = / -Amanda

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