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13 and never been kissed
I'm 13 and never been kissed all my friends have. and all my friends have boyfriends and i don't, is there something wrong with me. I think it might be because I take things slow with guys. please help!!!!!!!!!!!
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first off there is NOTHIN wrong with taking things slow with guys. you dont want to rush into things and then you get pregnant and then u think to yourself "i shouldnt have taken things so fast" i am 14 and i have had a lot of boyfriend but i havent been kissed..you shouldnt worry about it when the time comes you will know it is the right time and guy to kiss. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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ew, don't even worry about it. my friend wasn't kissed till she was 14. and she's gorgeous.and i bet you are t0o. i kno some older people who have had their first kiss @ 16,17// so dont worry hun! taking thing slow is GOOD. so u might not regret it =D //♥♥
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Don't worry, it will happen in its own good time. If you take things slow with guys, I'm guessing it's because you're not into dating just for the game of it, and you actually like the /person/ that you're with. That will simply help you form better and longer relationships than simply going out with someone for the physical aspects. Anyways, don't worry about what "everyone's" doing, you're only 13 and you have a lot of guys to pick from! Hope this helps :)
Love,
Nevaeh
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There aint anything wrong with you gurl!!! Some people just have it harder than others. Specially at your age, you have plenttyyy of time to get hooked up. So dont worry and don't rush things!!! It's a good thing that you take things slow. You'll probably end up with a better boyfriend in the end anyways. So be patient, all with time!!!
4Him, Disciple (plz rate me if i deserve it)
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No, no, no. Just because you are thirteen and haven't been kissed doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. I believe that a thirteen year old shouldn't be kissing or cating anyways, but that's just me. From my point of view, you don't need to worry about being kissed, and it's a good thing you take it slow with relationships that way you can notice anything that is going on that shouldn't be and you can end the relationship and not have to worry about things you did with him, etc. etc. There is nothing wrong with you, the time will come and you will get what you seek.
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theres nothing wrong with you!! im 14 and iv never been kissed or had a boyfriend so dont worry.. there is plenty of time
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There is nothing wrong with you hunnie! im 16 and i never really had my first kiss either. Just stupid little kisses during truth or dare. But just wait it out and it will happen sooner or later. But your first kiss should be special and romantic not just like with someone you dont even know. So i would just wait and not try to hard to look desperate to get kissed. Hope i helped! <3 Amanda
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This isn't a big deal. Why do anything?? But if this helps you feel betteR: I have many fRiends who aRe 20 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't eveR had a Relationship befoRe!!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because some of youR fRiends might have done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You'Re only 13, Hun - you have PLENTY of time still. TRuthfully, it's NOT as big of a deal as you might assume. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out intRoduce myself. Ot always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. It's just a good ice bReakeR, you see? And even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship at the moment, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too.
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Hey hun.
Don't worry. I am 17 & have never been kissed either. There is NOTHING wrong with you. The guys are probably idiots. Your time will come though & I bet it will be the best kiss ever. Hope I helped :o)
xo Samantha <3
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