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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back
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Hi... just be like "omgosh... will oyu please just listen to me for a minuet...whats going on between us we used tobe such good friends...?" and just talk to her about how u feel and that it was oyur disition to stop being an vegitaron...
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I think whenever she comes over, you need to ask her what you did to make her stop talking to you. Ask her nicely what you have done, if anything at all. If she doesnt tell you than there is really nothing else you can do. Dont go asking other people though because it could be fake interpretations of the truth. & you dont want that.
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This friend of yours wants to hang with people who want to be the same thing as her she isn't worth it. Tell your sister not to invite her you will just get more upset if she still comes to your house. She will regret for not talking to you. Meet other people who don't care about having something in common friends, are able to understand whether you're different. Don't let other people treat you like that you're better than that and others will respect you for standing up to their bad behavior.
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talk to her. call her and tell her that you guys need to talk.let her know that you really miss her and still want to be bff's with her.and i think its stupid that shes mad at you over not being a veggie.and if she wont accept and appolgie then shes not worth it.because veggie or not if she wuz really your bff she forgive you.hope i helped XoXo
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First of all, i don't think you should worry about it. people change. your best friend just might want to be friends with other people, and that happens! I think, just to find out what's going on, you should comfront her and tell her that you want to talk about everything. find out the real reason why she is mad at you, and don't be scared to ask her questions! she is the one that is mad at you, so you shouldn't act like you don't care b/c it is obvious that you do!! another thing you could do is talk to your sister about it. ask her if your friend has sed anything to her about you. give your friend a call, or write her a note. she should atleast talk to you, but if not..she isn't worth the time and struggle. don't dwell on it for too long, when you could be out making new..better best friends!
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First i think you should confront her and see whasts up. If that doesnt work, as hard as it may be, try and find a new best friend. If she is mad at you just because you eat meat and she doesnt thats stupid. Try to hang out with other friends and meet new people. It may be hard but if she doesnt want to be friends with you all because you eat meat, then shes not worth it. hope i helped
<3 Amanda
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I would just talk to her & tell her how you're feeling. I think that you not being a vegetarian is a stupid reason to end a friendship. I would talk to her & tell her that you being a vegetarian has changed but YOU haven't changed. You're still the same person you were before - but now you eat meat. I hope everything works out for you & if you need anything else just leave it in my inbox.
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it seems to be that it could really be the vegetarian. not to sound mean, but maybe she wanted to be your friend BECAUSE you guys were vegetarians and she wanted to have someone that was one like her. the best thing you can do is to talk to her about it and really find out whats going on. juss sit her down and talk. she'll have to listen to you eventually.
good luck!
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