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Im Christina...
All my friend's told me to make a collum because im a really good person to talk to and i have really good advice... some times! haha

Im a very nice person... i can be mean only if it involes some one herting my friends... you could say im very interesting because im kinda on my own and i dont have alot of friends but im cool with it!

One thing is i love talking to people about any thing... onist to god i love to talk to people when they are feeling down, upset, angry, i like to talk to them about it ... so im a person u can talk to about anything!

My Collum is for every one i don't care who boy girl what ever! Im happy to give advice to any one oyu can tell me any thing i wont juge ANY ONE! im not that kind of person cuz i get juged alot!


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WHAT EVER!!!! Ill answer any thing well at least try to! im not promisin any thing....
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Location: Ipswitch, M.A.
Age: 13
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sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i? (link)
trust me know matter what dont run away
because you will soon relize every thing u had will be gone and it will make your life harrible talk to them about it dont be afraid to... i feel like that to its scarry or try to spend more tim ewith them or your friends to get out of the house


heyy schools gonna start up again soon and last year i had the hardest time getting to school ontime. Does anyone have a good routine that i could go by to get to school and look nice... on time?? lol thanks!! i rate 5's!! (link)
try to get up earlyer !works for me


hey
do you guys know if the deodorant Arrid Extra Dri works or its just no good??ps i have that 1 problem where the deodorants doo not work i have to use that 1 thing called certain dri. (link)
no it doesnt you should try adidas deodorant it really works and smells good! :-D haha


hope i could help!


i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something? (link)
ok look dont be scared to ask your mom because shes the closet person you will ever know who problie felt the same way when she was younger... dont be afraid your mom will understand perfectly!


;; i REALLY need your help ;;



my sister hates me i think.....

;; whenever i ask her to take me somewhere (she drives) shes like "no"

;; i ask her to cook me somthing (because last time i almost burnt the house down) she says no and i have to wait till about 1 im the morning for food

;; she treats me like crap

;; she always askes "do i look pretty????"

;; she slaps me

;; she called me a whore because i didnt feel well and she didnt also

;; ill get her a soda, the vacume, TRY to cook something, give her money, talk to her, get her something she needs to clean. walk the dog, feed the cat && dog && birds.. im practally the maid for when shes home.

;; she makes me clean the hallway (because i threw my books outta my room).... also HER bathroom and i have to clean her garbage she leavs at my comptuer.

;; i ask her for a simple thing "can you drive me 1 mile away from home so i can get something to eat" she automatically says NO

;; she calls me.. a bitch.. a slut.. a whore.. a faggot.. brat.. spoiled.. discusting.. etc.

;; i wanna be her friend, but i cant ever talk to her barely.

;; i always give her MY money, the money my grandma gave me for my birthday (it was a thousand dollars) she said she would pay back... now i only have about 100 left. she took 900 bucks from me, and i was saving up for a shopping spree.

;; she steals my money also.. she has a credit card, gas card, etc. but she wont use them!

please help me... i htink she hates me, is that a sign of hate? and sorry if this was too long for you (link)
thats a sighn of sister hood... she doesnt hate you shes your own sister it might seem like it but in her heart she loves you your just a good target for her to pick on and hit her back dont be afraid to!


Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks (link)
what is her stylie into??? you could get help from that



omistly I think u should get her roses and a teddie bear! haha or..... a promis ring! thats perfect


HELP! I Need help. Okay, well lately, (I just realizes 2 days ago) everyy time i urinate, this white thing comes out - NOT bubbles, its like a thing peice of tissue. Anyways, Im REALLY scared..does anyone know what it could be? Has it ever happened to anyone here? Is it normal? My periods about to come in a day or two if that matters..Pleasse help ; Im scared I could have like something really rare or Cancer :(

Ive never had sex, so you know.

-Rachel/f/13
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oh listen calm down... its nothing to worrie about its happend to me.... shhhh it usly happends before your period comes



alos if u kinda feel horny... haha sorry it is involed with that


well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I?? (link)
onistly you should before he leaves... so at least he know's how u feel about him and just say i hop ethis doesnt ruwen are friend ship but... and so on


ok well i had my peroid and i thought it was over bc well it stopped fer a while and i already ruined my FAV shorts but my mom cleaned them and they are faded now and i was wearing a thong and those shorts and it came bacK!!!!! what should i do.. n is it normal to have it stop fer like hours?? and ya?? (link)
Yeah it happends to me all the time... its perfectly normal for it to stop and come back when the day it ends you should still ware a pad just incase


My best friend probably has the worst life i could imagine. Her home life is a wreck, her mother constantly yells and screams and blames her for her family problems. She can't even spend an entire day in her house without getting blamed and screamed at. Her mom has this "disease" which i personally think is just a scapegoat, considering her mom just sits on the couch all day, smokes, watchews tv, and eats. She dosn't work or anything, and when my best friend comes home, she just harrasses her. Caling her a slut, a cunt, bitch, anything.

Her younger brother gets everything he wants, and i hate to tell her this, but he sells drugs, hangs out with the worst crowd ever, and yet her family idolizes it. the only two that ever notice his bad habbits are her and i, her family thinks he's just a fine kid. and they spoil him to death.

her house is aweful, her father always works and it's just a disaster. her mom never cleans up, her brother makes messes and my best friend is left to cope with it. it's no wonder why she's always leaving and getting outof the house .. she's basically lives at my house.

last week her mother beat her (her mom was drunk) and she kicked her out of her house. she drove over to my house, and stayed the night. the next day cops were here saying that she stole her car and had to return home. my mother and her have talked and my mom really wishes to have her live with us, her home life is just aweful. but her parents won't allow it.

so much more happens to her that i just can't sum up in this. i feel aweful and don't know what to do for her. no one takes her seriously and im afraid one day she's going to snap. she's the nicest, most prettiuest person i know, and no one would ever expect her to have this life. i;m scared one day it's all going to end, she's going to go down the wrong path or take her life. idk what to do for her. she needs to get out of that house. help her. (link)
thats so sad... im like ready to cry thast afule... oyu have ot get her out of that house talk to the police they wil;l do something.... your mom and u should get her to come live you you guys are a much beter falmiy for her i'd say...


im sorry i gave the best advice i could..


ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken? (link)
Some vegitarian's can eat chicken and fish.... i do


My boyfriend and i have been talking about living together when we graduate. i thought it was all fine and dandy to talk about but then we started to pick out apartments, save up money, and pick out furniture. Now he is buying the dining set tomorrow, and the flat ware, and he's getting the living room set next week. Plus we are talking about marriage and kids. I'm still a virgin but i'm worried this'll happen sooner than we plan for. Its starting to sink in and I'm getting, idk, afraid, excited, something. I dont know. Is this bad, good, or what. I mean he isnt graduating for a year, and i'm not moving in with him for two years.........Whats going on with me? Should I call it off? (link)
Don't call it off yet...

Think to your self "Am i really ready for this?"

or just sit him down and talk to him abou tit don't be afraid to cuz if your this far in a relationship you can talk to him about anything!


i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great. (link)
just go up to him and say Hi hows agoin do u rember me and ask if hes free any day.... and if he says hes avalible ask him out on a date dont be afriad to



hope i could help...


hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?

P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help. (link)
Oh My Gosh! Hunni you "Dizerve" SOOOOOOOO much better than his ass!

He should't care about what his friends think he should care about what his friends think he should care about what he thinks...

But you dizerve some one better who wont use you!

If he has a gf now then he's a Man Whore! haha

He is not worth going back for because by what he did u can tell he didn't really like u... and you can also tell he used you... and u shouldnt have that at all in a rilasionship!


hope i could help...


hey im 14/f and im getting realy depressed at the mo i really want a guy to kiss and cuddles and just have fun..all i think about is guys...i hang with guys all the time and it seems like all i like is the chase once i get a guy i dont fancy them anymore!!!what do i do i want a boyfriend so badly i cry myself to sleep.. (link)
Okay...don't get diprssed at all it's just boys but i understan what your going through. It's happend to me "many" time's but anyways don't focus your life on boys because some people could think your just really despret...but don't worry i Do Not Think You Are!

Do you have a guy friend who you seem more closer too and who's single?

Ask yourself that and get more clser and try to get into a rilasion ship with them!

I hope I Helped


Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
Just stop him and talk about what happen between you two just be like "look im sorry but whats going on i said i was just sick of bein around oyu forawhile and i needed to be alone... i didn tmean for us to brake up.." and just tell him how u still feel and be ike im sory i didnt tell u what was really going one


i hope i could help


my friends keep trying to set me up with all these different guys all the time... but hello IM TAKEN!! i tell them that everytime but they wont listen to me. They say that it doesn't count because he lives so far away and i never see him. And recently me and my bf are going thru a hard time in our relationship and according to my friends going out with other guys is supposed to make me "feel better?" um ok what's up with that? They aren't even acting like friends, they should be supporting me and telling me everything is guna be ok but instead they are already assuming that we're guna break up. And i hate it when they tell all these guys that im single... IM NOT!!! how do i get thru to them?? (link)
if u read what you just wrote u gave your own self advice.... just be like will you please listen to me i have a wonderful boy friend and im taked please get that straght i dont want to dat eother guys right now... and just talk to them about it

i no i have the same problem my bf lives in illinois... and i live in boston..

hope i could help?


my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back (link)
Hi... just be like "omgosh... will oyu please just listen to me for a minuet...whats going on between us we used tobe such good friends...?" and just talk to her about how u feel and that it was oyur disition to stop being an vegitaron...

hoped i helped at all...


15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!

Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)

-kristen (link)
Onistly .... guys just want a girl for a peace of ass some times but what i would do is talk to him abou tit first cuz onsitly if your ready you should no if oyur going to be in a rilationship befor DOING IT... other whys your could get oyur heart broken...

hope i could hepl?
*christina*


whats a good way to sorta spice up my hair? My hair is about an inch or two below my shoulders, i have sideswept bangs, and i wear a sidepart. I usually wear my hair just striaght or up. Any ideas to make my style a little more interesting and different? (link)
you could try cutting parts of it shirter so u can make it look some what interesting or die your bangs!




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