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My best friend probably has the worst life i could imagine. Her home life is a wreck, her mother constantly yells and screams and blames her for her family problems. She can't even spend an entire day in her house without getting blamed and screamed at. Her mom has this "disease" which i personally think is just a scapegoat, considering her mom just sits on the couch all day, smokes, watchews tv, and eats. She dosn't work or anything, and when my best friend comes home, she just harrasses her. Caling her a slut, a cunt, bitch, anything.
Her younger brother gets everything he wants, and i hate to tell her this, but he sells drugs, hangs out with the worst crowd ever, and yet her family idolizes it. the only two that ever notice his bad habbits are her and i, her family thinks he's just a fine kid. and they spoil him to death.
her house is aweful, her father always works and it's just a disaster. her mom never cleans up, her brother makes messes and my best friend is left to cope with it. it's no wonder why she's always leaving and getting outof the house .. she's basically lives at my house.
last week her mother beat her (her mom was drunk) and she kicked her out of her house. she drove over to my house, and stayed the night. the next day cops were here saying that she stole her car and had to return home. my mother and her have talked and my mom really wishes to have her live with us, her home life is just aweful. but her parents won't allow it.
so much more happens to her that i just can't sum up in this. i feel aweful and don't know what to do for her. no one takes her seriously and im afraid one day she's going to snap. she's the nicest, most prettiuest person i know, and no one would ever expect her to have this life. i;m scared one day it's all going to end, she's going to go down the wrong path or take her life. idk what to do for her. she needs to get out of that house. help her.
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well i think you should keep inviting her over ALOT have her sleepover ALOT and keep her away from her home as much as you can...if your mom really wants her to live with you go to court...if your mom explains the problem they wont let her live in that house
hope this helped
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If things are that bad your mother or someone thats an adult needs to contact the authorities and show proof of bruises or something. You;d have to basically take her mom to court, if she lost, her custody rights would get taken away and they would be given to her father. If her father is just as bad as the mother, than it would be passed down to aunts / uncles / or grandparents. However, if temporary custody should fall inu the hands of the aunts and uncles you and your family can make an agreement with them and sign papers so that she would be able to live with you under her mother has proven that she can "clean her act" up.
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thats so sad... im like ready to cry thast afule... oyu have ot get her out of that house talk to the police they wil;l do something.... your mom and u should get her to come live you you guys are a much beter falmiy for her i'd say...
im sorry i gave the best advice i could..
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Hey there! First of all, I would like to say that you are a really great friend! =D. What you could do is have a conference with your friend and her mother, along with you and your mother to inform her [friend's mother] about the things that her daughter is going through, how it affects her, and how she feels. Also, you could tell your friend to see an adult person like a councelor because it seems that she doesn't have that older person in her life to support her. I hope everything works out...Take care!
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ok i think that the next time she comes over your house your mom you and she should talk about it...get a guidence conselor to help or sumthing..also find sum relatives of ur frendz and let them know about the problem...try to convince her parentz to let her move in with you..i hope i help x0o *eLma*
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This is deff, abuse. When shes at your house again, you should talk to her about talking to someone like a guidence counsler or a trusted adult. Hope I helped. If you still want more help IM me at XXPinkDiamondzz.
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thats deffiniate abuse..
when shes over, have your mom talk to her about it.
and your mom will have her stay at your house for a while.
then she would go home and gather what she wants and never come back.
i would do that. and i wouldnt give a fuck if my mom tryed to kill me i would call the cops.
or i would go to my best friends house and stay there.
so call a abuse line when shes over..... shes living under a nice friends house that comforting her to stay, and she should take that oppertunity, and she shouldnt pass it. so have you and your friend && your mom, call the abuse line. and take her to court to get her a cirtificat of adoption. id suggest you take her away from her home. she cant live under those conditions,
if she linves that way, imgain how much of a awufl mother she would be!!
and imagin how cool it would be to have your best friend, as a adoped sister!
hope i helped
good luck also!
maddy*
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Well you should deffinately tell some one about this...call DSS if she is being beaten and ppl can come and take her away from her parents or you can call the police and notify them of this. This is a very serious situation and you really need to tell an authoritive figure...if she gets taken away from her home and put into foster care your parents can take her in and she could be your foster sister/their foster child...that would be very good for her. well i hope i helped and good luck with everything hope everything goes good! need anything ask*
Caitlin♥
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